Any un-social Moms out nearby?
And are you okay with being that way? I don't stingy that you're anti-social because you don't like anybody, but that you're not a conversationalist, never have been though you enjoy constant contact with all kinds of general public.
I'm anxious being around people in standard but I dread events that have me connecting with other parents (my kids are in class school), and the more some mothers yak and yak, the more quiet I become. I like everyone I've met (so far) but I am, and always own been, quiet by nature. I ponder other Mothers think that maybe I don't like them because I choose to hold on to to myself if at all possible.
I'm really glad you posted this question. All the answers have given me a bit of comfort knowing I'm not the only one! I am a stay at home & individual have 1 child. We've had to move across the country and half -way rear in the last 2 years so I've focused more on making a good home and trying to provide consistency for my 3 year weak. I've notice other moms gathering for play dates, book clubs, tumble time and assorted other activities. Although I wish I could get my son to some of these events for the social interaction on his module, I have little desire to get caught up within the "keeping-up with..." game. The drama and money most of these women spend seems ridiculous to me. I also enjoy a bit of anxiety on the issue. My husband has been my best friend for over 5 years now and my son contained by my every day. I like it that way. I do feel once he is in school more friendships with form amongst the parents. When and if this happen, I'm fine with that. Until then I'll just preserve on keeping on!
Well I'm a home maker but I've never gotten along near people though I do get along with kids which is why I'm studying to become an elementary coach. I never had friends going up so I'm used to being alone on the social scale. When I become a stay at home mom I'll most credible stay the same way. I can always spend my time next to my children or my mother-in-law or my sister-in-laws and younger nieces and nephews.
Answers: i choose to keep myself to myself too every-time i go to the conservatory i see all the parents yakking it gets to me they really annoy me because half of the time they are discussion about other parents and no doubt i have be on the receiving end of the gossip too because i choose to say-so a quick hello and that's about all they know something like me i choose not to join in the conversations as i am reserved and i don't like associates knowing my life story although i don't lead a interesting life i still close to it to be private so i don't think your anti social i just think you are reserved and private here is no harm in that
i dont think that it is a bad item but if you just let yourself get comfortable around whoever your around you will loosen up. my son is a year contained by a half and i am a quiet person as in good health but i mke it easy on myself if see current parents that look worth talking to or seem wearing clothes then when they stat talking to about near child dont smile at them or just stare thats your time to continue the conversation wants you catch used to that you will be find then you will notice it get easier time by day ok i hope that helped.
I dont like to socialize with the moms at school events.
Its not that im disturbed its just that their older(40's late 30's)
and im 22 so we would have nil in common,and theres
always drama contained by their little circle which I do not need.Dont
get me wrong I have 8 bestfriends that im unbelievably close with and
I do talk to the moms when they talk to me.
Its simply that I dont want to run around with them.And yes,my
daughters have playdates a lot and thats when I do own to talk
to the moms.
Well I am in fact sociable but I don't hang out with other moms cause its seem like all they want to do is go out for drinks or girls night out or playdates everyday and that is just too much running the streets for me and my kids...so I stay home
Did i post this question? lol
I'm a loner, other have been. I have friends, we chat occasionally or email but i don't close to to go out for girl nights...i prefer fun family night. Social events if i don't have someone to cling to, i'm a wallflower. I don't mind going out to lunch by myself or just hanging out beside the family at home. It's just what i like...
Nothing wrong with being guarded and prefering your own nearest and dearest over outsiders.I like it actually, I don't like human being *close* to others bc as soon as you are, they're are strings attached, at least that has been my experience surrounded by life. I'm friendly to anybody and everybody but as soon as they try to get close I back right stale.
My kids do get invited to playdates, but I only allow my daughter (who's 7 also) to go to citizens I trust. When she was in kindergarten everybody was the course you describe, but I thought she was too young, plus these are people I don't know. I'm not going to own her go to some strangers house for a few hours. Now that I know a few parents, a select few I can trust but as far as buddy buddy goes with the adults I resembling the space..it's the kids who are wanting to play not me.
I am an un-social mom. There are days it can be rather depressing watching others catch on so well where I haven't anything really impressive to donate to the conversation but other days, it can be quite nice.
I was always an unsocial Mom, mostly because I don't have time to be social. I'm a working Mom, so I anything time I did have, I spent building relationships with teachers instead of other Mom's. I'm a run surrounded by and run out Mom. I am also very quiet by nature... so I own to have some kind of connection next to someone before I just start talking to them. That's a short time ago me. However, I was forced to come out of my shell about 3 years ago when I was beg to join a committee that organizes sports for our elementary children. That committee has be really good for me, now I know EVERYONE. I'm still quiet and I choose to distance myself from definite behavior... such as gossip. I can't stand gossip.
Best wishes...
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I'm anxious being around people in standard but I dread events that have me connecting with other parents (my kids are in class school), and the more some mothers yak and yak, the more quiet I become. I like everyone I've met (so far) but I am, and always own been, quiet by nature. I ponder other Mothers think that maybe I don't like them because I choose to hold on to to myself if at all possible.
I'm really glad you posted this question. All the answers have given me a bit of comfort knowing I'm not the only one! I am a stay at home & individual have 1 child. We've had to move across the country and half -way rear in the last 2 years so I've focused more on making a good home and trying to provide consistency for my 3 year weak. I've notice other moms gathering for play dates, book clubs, tumble time and assorted other activities. Although I wish I could get my son to some of these events for the social interaction on his module, I have little desire to get caught up within the "keeping-up with..." game. The drama and money most of these women spend seems ridiculous to me. I also enjoy a bit of anxiety on the issue. My husband has been my best friend for over 5 years now and my son contained by my every day. I like it that way. I do feel once he is in school more friendships with form amongst the parents. When and if this happen, I'm fine with that. Until then I'll just preserve on keeping on!
Well I'm a home maker but I've never gotten along near people though I do get along with kids which is why I'm studying to become an elementary coach. I never had friends going up so I'm used to being alone on the social scale. When I become a stay at home mom I'll most credible stay the same way. I can always spend my time next to my children or my mother-in-law or my sister-in-laws and younger nieces and nephews.
Answers: i choose to keep myself to myself too every-time i go to the conservatory i see all the parents yakking it gets to me they really annoy me because half of the time they are discussion about other parents and no doubt i have be on the receiving end of the gossip too because i choose to say-so a quick hello and that's about all they know something like me i choose not to join in the conversations as i am reserved and i don't like associates knowing my life story although i don't lead a interesting life i still close to it to be private so i don't think your anti social i just think you are reserved and private here is no harm in that
i dont think that it is a bad item but if you just let yourself get comfortable around whoever your around you will loosen up. my son is a year contained by a half and i am a quiet person as in good health but i mke it easy on myself if see current parents that look worth talking to or seem wearing clothes then when they stat talking to about near child dont smile at them or just stare thats your time to continue the conversation wants you catch used to that you will be find then you will notice it get easier time by day ok i hope that helped.
I dont like to socialize with the moms at school events.
Its not that im disturbed its just that their older(40's late 30's)
and im 22 so we would have nil in common,and theres
always drama contained by their little circle which I do not need.Dont
get me wrong I have 8 bestfriends that im unbelievably close with and
I do talk to the moms when they talk to me.
Its simply that I dont want to run around with them.And yes,my
daughters have playdates a lot and thats when I do own to talk
to the moms.
Well I am in fact sociable but I don't hang out with other moms cause its seem like all they want to do is go out for drinks or girls night out or playdates everyday and that is just too much running the streets for me and my kids...so I stay home
Did i post this question? lol
I'm a loner, other have been. I have friends, we chat occasionally or email but i don't close to to go out for girl nights...i prefer fun family night. Social events if i don't have someone to cling to, i'm a wallflower. I don't mind going out to lunch by myself or just hanging out beside the family at home. It's just what i like...
Nothing wrong with being guarded and prefering your own nearest and dearest over outsiders.I like it actually, I don't like human being *close* to others bc as soon as you are, they're are strings attached, at least that has been my experience surrounded by life. I'm friendly to anybody and everybody but as soon as they try to get close I back right stale.
My kids do get invited to playdates, but I only allow my daughter (who's 7 also) to go to citizens I trust. When she was in kindergarten everybody was the course you describe, but I thought she was too young, plus these are people I don't know. I'm not going to own her go to some strangers house for a few hours. Now that I know a few parents, a select few I can trust but as far as buddy buddy goes with the adults I resembling the space..it's the kids who are wanting to play not me.
I am an un-social mom. There are days it can be rather depressing watching others catch on so well where I haven't anything really impressive to donate to the conversation but other days, it can be quite nice.
I was always an unsocial Mom, mostly because I don't have time to be social. I'm a working Mom, so I anything time I did have, I spent building relationships with teachers instead of other Mom's. I'm a run surrounded by and run out Mom. I am also very quiet by nature... so I own to have some kind of connection next to someone before I just start talking to them. That's a short time ago me. However, I was forced to come out of my shell about 3 years ago when I was beg to join a committee that organizes sports for our elementary children. That committee has be really good for me, now I know EVERYONE. I'm still quiet and I choose to distance myself from definite behavior... such as gossip. I can't stand gossip.
Best wishes...
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