How do you love your child/children? What manner of pamper do you make a contribution to your child/children?
I inform them I love them and if they are good I spoil them but that is if there grades are apt and the usual etc.
i have 3 daughters and I one and only get to see them part time (full custody with their dads). my 2 oldest are from my first marital, my youngest from my second.
I try to give them extra attention when they are with me b/c I don't get to see them nearly as much as I want to (want to own them everyday) and when they are at their dads' houses they don't get as much attention. my first ex works a ton and comes home late at night (on his days bad he bowls and plays softball instead of playing w/his kids) and my 2nd ex is horrible-sleeps all day long and never takes my youngest anywhere.
we travel to the public pool, roller skating rink, out to dinner, and rent movies all the time.
I make it a point to always dress them super cute when we move about anywhere and I have a special song I sing to them every night before bed (after we've read our story).
Answers: We talk, we hang out, watch movies, run to the mall, play games, dance, sing, I even let her do my coat. I read/sing to her before bed every night, cuddle. I tell her how much I love her every sunshine. We're friends.
I have a month old baby, whom I cuddle and sing to adjectives the time, too. As for material things, I realize my children are spoiled. We can afford it, so, I'll give her most things she wants. And a bunch she hasn't asked for. I love buying things for my children.
I have a lot of material things and loving parents, and it just made me realize how fortunate I've be. The way I treat others always reflects this: I've have so many good things, I hope I can pass that along.
And I really hope I make higher my children to be the same way.
The most you can do is to care for them, instead of going through the motions. As for pampering, I'm "spoiled but I other enjoyed it when my parents would buy me icecream, or just spend time with me.
I individually believe in discipline and rules when raising a child, but don't forget forget what discipline really is. don't let discipline become rough up. whatever you do, listen to them whenever they need to tell you something and don't ever push them away thinking that you are the full-grown, more experienced, and always right. chances are, you're not always right. you can revise a thing or two just from listening to what go on in a child's mind. Reward them when they are good, but don't let the reward be too big because they will expect more the subsequent time they do something good. don't say something you won't do. ex: if your child does something bad and you read out you will take away their phone, do it. if you don't do it, they will test you to your limits. spend competence time with them, and give them enough attention. not too much though because they might become too dependent of it and lose their independence.
I tell her that I love her everyday.
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