My brother's gf spanked me. I deserve it?
I'm 15, my brother is 23 and looking after me for a few weeks.
I got stressy at him and his fiance because they were moaning at me to clean up etc.
I be really tired as i've been camping with friend adjectives weekend. The bickering turned into an argument and they accused me of drinking, smoking etc while i was camping. I suppose they said it because they found out i had lied, i said it was girls only however it was mixture, although i do know all the people economically. And admittedly i had been drinking, but only alco pops and i did not acquire drunk at all.
They yelled at me and i screamed put a bet on and tried to run out the room but Sarah his fiance stopped me. We yelled a lot more and i swore and said some mean things. When i go up to the guest room im staying in at the moment he came up and warned me he wouldn't tolerate that demeanour etc. I told him to F off and leave me alone. He then call Sarah up and told her to spank me, he left and she did, bare backside with her mitt and then back of a brush.
I don't think I really deserved it. And I'm not sure what to do in a minute. I'm not usually badly behaved or anything. Did i deserve it, what would you have done contained by my/their position? They are now acting really cold towards me and won't talk to me.
Please give evaluation and adivce. Thank you. x
I know this isn't what you want to hear but you both were in the wrong. Shouting and swearing is not the path to handle things. Also you were a guest in their house, so you should manufacture sure you keep it clean if you ever want to be invited back in attendance. It was wrong of them to say that you were smoking and drinking only just because they didn't like your attitude. It was also wrong that you got spanked. I suggest Sarah is only 6 or 7 years older than you? She is not your parents - likewise you involve to still respect them.
In their position I would have just grounded you until you cleaned up, because I don't agree with spanking. You should tolerate them know that it is borderline child abuse.
I'm really not sure what you should do. Do you have a friend you could stay with? If your brother and Sarah are going to resolve situations by spanking after they need to practice their parenting skills a while longer.
Drinking, smoking, lying, swearing, arguing. Technically, a fiance is not a guardian. On the other foot, you were seriously bad, and I think that you hold to let them know that you realize it. You are a guest in your brother's residence for a few weeks. Let them know that you have academic enough that they dont have to worry going on for a repeat incident down the road.
Answers: You absolutely deserved it but it is wholly inappropriate for someone who is not relateecstaticou to deliver such discipline. Spanking, especially that kind of it should be reserved only to your mother, father, and maybe other incredibly close relatives. She does not have the requisite level of trust and authority to do such a thing, and that indeed isn't going to help your relationship with her. Still, I think the grounds she did it is because your brother wanted someone of the same gender to do it to pick up you some humiliation. It's not an excuse but it mitigates things a bit.
That being said, don't act so utterly disrespectful again and it won't happen again. If you be my daughter I'd probably have done exactly the same thing, but it never would hold gotten to the f--- off part, because it would have happen when I found out you lied. You should NEVER talk to an adult like that at your age.
I focus you really need to go and apologize to both of them and promise never to do that again. Your brother was newly upset and concerned because you were acting recklessly. You shouldn't be drinking at all at your age, agree to alone around people of the opposite sex who can take supremacy of you, and then you lied about it to boot. Your brother loves you and wants to protect you and after you told him to go f--- off. His feelings are probably really hurt right immediately. An apology is definitely in order.
your certainly not to old and you def deserved it, however, i agree next to the rest that is wasn't her place to do it, unless your brother had your parents permission to do it, consequently he should have told your parents on there return and they should have done it.
overall though, be angelic and it won't happen at all.
yes you deserved a spanking but they should probably have waited for your parents to do it. I think it is wrong that they are acting cold and won't cooperate to you. A spanking is punishment and its purpose is to clear your debt. after a spanking I am forgiven and my parents are very affectionate to me.
Ok first of all you were in the wrong. Big time but It is really improper for a grown women who is not relationship to you to spank a 15 year old bare bottom with a brush and open to the elements hand. If I was you you need to chitchat to your parents of a close grown up. That's board line child abuse.
Hehe dear. I DO think you deserve it.
No.
They are not your parents.
Yes, of course you deserved it. You swore, you drunk, you lied, you said F, you disrespected your elder, you yelled etc. And it was nice of your brother that HE didn't spank you. Otherwise it would have be embarrassing and he would have hot a lot too tricky cuz he's a boy!
no your 15 not 5 lol
You did deserve it but she's your brothers fiancee, she isn't even a blood relative. She shouldn't have done it, your brother shouldn't really do it, consent to alone his fiancee.
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I got stressy at him and his fiance because they were moaning at me to clean up etc.
I be really tired as i've been camping with friend adjectives weekend. The bickering turned into an argument and they accused me of drinking, smoking etc while i was camping. I suppose they said it because they found out i had lied, i said it was girls only however it was mixture, although i do know all the people economically. And admittedly i had been drinking, but only alco pops and i did not acquire drunk at all.
They yelled at me and i screamed put a bet on and tried to run out the room but Sarah his fiance stopped me. We yelled a lot more and i swore and said some mean things. When i go up to the guest room im staying in at the moment he came up and warned me he wouldn't tolerate that demeanour etc. I told him to F off and leave me alone. He then call Sarah up and told her to spank me, he left and she did, bare backside with her mitt and then back of a brush.
I don't think I really deserved it. And I'm not sure what to do in a minute. I'm not usually badly behaved or anything. Did i deserve it, what would you have done contained by my/their position? They are now acting really cold towards me and won't talk to me.
Please give evaluation and adivce. Thank you. x
I know this isn't what you want to hear but you both were in the wrong. Shouting and swearing is not the path to handle things. Also you were a guest in their house, so you should manufacture sure you keep it clean if you ever want to be invited back in attendance. It was wrong of them to say that you were smoking and drinking only just because they didn't like your attitude. It was also wrong that you got spanked. I suggest Sarah is only 6 or 7 years older than you? She is not your parents - likewise you involve to still respect them.
In their position I would have just grounded you until you cleaned up, because I don't agree with spanking. You should tolerate them know that it is borderline child abuse.
I'm really not sure what you should do. Do you have a friend you could stay with? If your brother and Sarah are going to resolve situations by spanking after they need to practice their parenting skills a while longer.
Drinking, smoking, lying, swearing, arguing. Technically, a fiance is not a guardian. On the other foot, you were seriously bad, and I think that you hold to let them know that you realize it. You are a guest in your brother's residence for a few weeks. Let them know that you have academic enough that they dont have to worry going on for a repeat incident down the road.
Answers: You absolutely deserved it but it is wholly inappropriate for someone who is not relateecstaticou to deliver such discipline. Spanking, especially that kind of it should be reserved only to your mother, father, and maybe other incredibly close relatives. She does not have the requisite level of trust and authority to do such a thing, and that indeed isn't going to help your relationship with her. Still, I think the grounds she did it is because your brother wanted someone of the same gender to do it to pick up you some humiliation. It's not an excuse but it mitigates things a bit.
That being said, don't act so utterly disrespectful again and it won't happen again. If you be my daughter I'd probably have done exactly the same thing, but it never would hold gotten to the f--- off part, because it would have happen when I found out you lied. You should NEVER talk to an adult like that at your age.
I focus you really need to go and apologize to both of them and promise never to do that again. Your brother was newly upset and concerned because you were acting recklessly. You shouldn't be drinking at all at your age, agree to alone around people of the opposite sex who can take supremacy of you, and then you lied about it to boot. Your brother loves you and wants to protect you and after you told him to go f--- off. His feelings are probably really hurt right immediately. An apology is definitely in order.
your certainly not to old and you def deserved it, however, i agree next to the rest that is wasn't her place to do it, unless your brother had your parents permission to do it, consequently he should have told your parents on there return and they should have done it.
overall though, be angelic and it won't happen at all.
yes you deserved a spanking but they should probably have waited for your parents to do it. I think it is wrong that they are acting cold and won't cooperate to you. A spanking is punishment and its purpose is to clear your debt. after a spanking I am forgiven and my parents are very affectionate to me.
Ok first of all you were in the wrong. Big time but It is really improper for a grown women who is not relationship to you to spank a 15 year old bare bottom with a brush and open to the elements hand. If I was you you need to chitchat to your parents of a close grown up. That's board line child abuse.
Hehe dear. I DO think you deserve it.
No.
They are not your parents.
Yes, of course you deserved it. You swore, you drunk, you lied, you said F, you disrespected your elder, you yelled etc. And it was nice of your brother that HE didn't spank you. Otherwise it would have be embarrassing and he would have hot a lot too tricky cuz he's a boy!
no your 15 not 5 lol
You did deserve it but she's your brothers fiancee, she isn't even a blood relative. She shouldn't have done it, your brother shouldn't really do it, consent to alone his fiancee.
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