At what age should you stop man nude around your kids?
This is a subject that me and my partner have been discussing recently. I never realised it be such an issue. I am completely comfortable being nude around my 5 yr old son but my partner thinks its time to start covering up.
I stopped at that age 5, thats when I notice he started staring a little
When it makes them uncomfortable, or when they start to avoid you when you're nude, afterwards you or others have taught them shame and intolerance. You could reinforce that training by shutting them out, or you could simply be sensitive to their embarrassment and permit them avoid you when you happen to be undressed, but making them comfortable if they happen to stumble in on you.
When I be a kid and stumbled in on my mother, if I backed away, she'd give me the speech about there's nothing wrong with the human body...
Answers: This is a subject I hold never given any thought to. My kids' are 13, 15 and 18 and still see me naked and I them...and get this one of them is a boy! Our human body is beautiful...if you are not ashamed consequently your children won't be either.
My family has a completely open relationship. My 12 year antiquated and her younger sisters still see me (their dad) nude. It has been going on all their lives and it truly is not a big business. The oldest was flashed by a boy last fall and the two other girls near her freaked out. She made fun of him and started the kids in school calling him pinkie. It was fun explaining to the principal and the kids parents the argument for that I think he's still grounded. Anyway if you make nudity lately something normal it will never become an issue. Source(s): Experience.
I think if your the same sex it doesn't concern. Im 21 and ill still talk to my mom when she changes clothes. My husband stopped when my daughter be 1 1/2 because he just simply did not feel comfortable.
I am 20 years behind the times, but I do have to say i think it depends on the parent. My mom would utter when they start to notice you have boobs and you have adjectives those other body parts. My mom just recently went through this beside my little brother who is now 5 but was 4 at the time. He would tell her he like her butt and her boobs. or he would smack her butt and say it wiggled. lol.
My dad on the other hand would utter that as long as you showed it as not a big deal to your children then it wouldn't be a big deal and would soon start to slight it. My father use to take us to a nudist camp ground where my aunt, uncle, and cousin also go. I can honestly say, I have no problems with mortal nude around my daughter at all. It's natural to be nude, and if you don't want to cover up then don't. They'll grow up thinking it's not such a big matter. And my aunt has a close friend who still sit with her 19 year old within the bathroom and talks to him while he showers.
I say, there is nil wrong with it, but if you're husband does then maybe you should do it for your husband.
Your son will start by telling you to cover up or locking the bathroom door or avoiding you every time you show off what they don't want to see .They become mortified by what you do and they won't get undressed in front of you , that is when you know that you own to stop unless you are so attractive that they bring their friends around just to catch you unaware .
tell your partner if he wants to cover up it's ok, but you feel comfortable .
my son is 7 and specially during the holidays after the seaside we still have a shower together , i don't parade naked surrounded by the house,but if i'm getting dressed and he gets in the bedroom i will not cover myself.
honestly..he is my son he doesn't even bat his eyes for seeing me naked ,he know the difference between a girl and a boy but for him,i'm his mum. if you and your child feel ok with it there is nought wrong or of a sexual nature for doing it.
I do not think that in that is a maximum age; nudity is natural and it is pretty good to agree to children grow up thinking that way; as a naturist/nudist I know that kids brought up in that lifestyle do not have the body and sexual issues of their textile (dressed) counterparts
i think one-sidedly as soon as your child is old enough to ask questions around what body part are what, then it is time to cover up, my mum is still partially nude at times within front of my 7year old brother, even tho he is slower than many 7year old he have asked her questions and she is starting to cover up in front of him. So i would say 3-4, but, i do meditate it depends on how the parents fee about it too
yes defenitly in my opinion its time to cover up. pretty soon your son will be comprehension what he is seeing, i have a 4 yr old daughter and i feel comfortable person nude around her only because she has the same womanly body that she will soon grow into and she can be comfortable with it, thats a totaly different story in a male childs perspective, so i enjoy to agree with your husband on that one
idk if ther is an age. i have a sneaking suspicion that moters are nudearound their kids a lot (litte kids) and most older children have see parents in undewear at least.
i don think it s a big do business ut if yur husband thinks you should then i wold just cover up. cuz INSISTING on anyone nude around your 5 yr old is kind of weird.
Both my husband and I are unbelievably lax re. nudity. Both of our mothers were nude through our lives (both still are to this day, which is more hysterical than anything else) and it hasn't warped either one of us or anything to that effect.
We'll probably not go out of our agency to be naked in front of our older kids, but indubitably won't make it a taboo thing, or freak out. The freaking out, I think, is what cause issues in kids, not the nudity itself. Source(s): * He's German-born, my mom's just an weak hippie.
Small children are fluently curious so the best time would be when their curiosity starts to make you uncomfortable because of stares or questions which might be degrading you. It's your call on this though and as parent you get to decide any way on what you consider to be correct.
i used to go into the bathroom with my parents still with nothing on when i was 9, my dad was not that comfortable with it, but i never looked planned, i think i learnt early on that he be never really comfortable, but my mum was always fine with it, it be really when i wanted my own privacy that i realised she would want the same.
When he starts saying 'Ew, gross, Mom,' possibly be a bit quicker to grab a robe to be nice, but family nudity is not a big do business.
probably once his mates start coming round to check you out, you know then to start covering up.
yeah i think the same thing
or if you surface really good and don't think so
just start covering until he is 7 or 8
hope this help :D
i be thinking about the exact same thing a while ago
my boy is nearly 4 and i believe he takes no thought of me being naked (like when i come out of the shower) so i am not yet in position to cover up lol
but i think this is subject to personal preference
i will definately be more careful once he turns 6
whenever your son starts expressing discomfort around seeing you naked.
for the first one i didn't have a problem with being unclothed and still wouldn't to this day. the other 4 from day 1 i wasn't cause their adjectives girls
the time they find it gross
5 or 6
I construe that after the age of 1-2 you should be dressed around your kid.
Your partner is right. He is at the age where he shouldn't be seeing you naked. Dad is ok, but not you.
UMMM DON'T EVER DO IT unless ur taking a shower
be serious... who really wants to look at you nude. get real..5 years aged I am suprised the kid hasn't already told you to get dressed.
It's a terrifically individual thing, and no one rule is right for everybody.
I've always be fully clothed around the house, even when I've been all alone. I'm fiercely private within the bath, and I sleep in flannel -- but I do love to tan surrounded by the nude, and I don't mind my boys being there when I'm tanning. I just relate them that sunbathing is like bathing and you just don't wear clothes. I always wear a wrap on my bearing up to the rooftop where I do most of my tanning, so I guess I'm really pretty modest, but I love the Sun so much I just have to brand name an exception.
I think the boys might be more comfortable with the mom under the wrap because I continued to nurse them till they be 4 or 5.
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I stopped at that age 5, thats when I notice he started staring a little
When it makes them uncomfortable, or when they start to avoid you when you're nude, afterwards you or others have taught them shame and intolerance. You could reinforce that training by shutting them out, or you could simply be sensitive to their embarrassment and permit them avoid you when you happen to be undressed, but making them comfortable if they happen to stumble in on you.
When I be a kid and stumbled in on my mother, if I backed away, she'd give me the speech about there's nothing wrong with the human body...
Answers: This is a subject I hold never given any thought to. My kids' are 13, 15 and 18 and still see me naked and I them...and get this one of them is a boy! Our human body is beautiful...if you are not ashamed consequently your children won't be either.
My family has a completely open relationship. My 12 year antiquated and her younger sisters still see me (their dad) nude. It has been going on all their lives and it truly is not a big business. The oldest was flashed by a boy last fall and the two other girls near her freaked out. She made fun of him and started the kids in school calling him pinkie. It was fun explaining to the principal and the kids parents the argument for that I think he's still grounded. Anyway if you make nudity lately something normal it will never become an issue. Source(s): Experience.
I think if your the same sex it doesn't concern. Im 21 and ill still talk to my mom when she changes clothes. My husband stopped when my daughter be 1 1/2 because he just simply did not feel comfortable.
I am 20 years behind the times, but I do have to say i think it depends on the parent. My mom would utter when they start to notice you have boobs and you have adjectives those other body parts. My mom just recently went through this beside my little brother who is now 5 but was 4 at the time. He would tell her he like her butt and her boobs. or he would smack her butt and say it wiggled. lol.
My dad on the other hand would utter that as long as you showed it as not a big deal to your children then it wouldn't be a big deal and would soon start to slight it. My father use to take us to a nudist camp ground where my aunt, uncle, and cousin also go. I can honestly say, I have no problems with mortal nude around my daughter at all. It's natural to be nude, and if you don't want to cover up then don't. They'll grow up thinking it's not such a big matter. And my aunt has a close friend who still sit with her 19 year old within the bathroom and talks to him while he showers.
I say, there is nil wrong with it, but if you're husband does then maybe you should do it for your husband.
Your son will start by telling you to cover up or locking the bathroom door or avoiding you every time you show off what they don't want to see .They become mortified by what you do and they won't get undressed in front of you , that is when you know that you own to stop unless you are so attractive that they bring their friends around just to catch you unaware .
tell your partner if he wants to cover up it's ok, but you feel comfortable .
my son is 7 and specially during the holidays after the seaside we still have a shower together , i don't parade naked surrounded by the house,but if i'm getting dressed and he gets in the bedroom i will not cover myself.
honestly..he is my son he doesn't even bat his eyes for seeing me naked ,he know the difference between a girl and a boy but for him,i'm his mum. if you and your child feel ok with it there is nought wrong or of a sexual nature for doing it.
I do not think that in that is a maximum age; nudity is natural and it is pretty good to agree to children grow up thinking that way; as a naturist/nudist I know that kids brought up in that lifestyle do not have the body and sexual issues of their textile (dressed) counterparts
i think one-sidedly as soon as your child is old enough to ask questions around what body part are what, then it is time to cover up, my mum is still partially nude at times within front of my 7year old brother, even tho he is slower than many 7year old he have asked her questions and she is starting to cover up in front of him. So i would say 3-4, but, i do meditate it depends on how the parents fee about it too
yes defenitly in my opinion its time to cover up. pretty soon your son will be comprehension what he is seeing, i have a 4 yr old daughter and i feel comfortable person nude around her only because she has the same womanly body that she will soon grow into and she can be comfortable with it, thats a totaly different story in a male childs perspective, so i enjoy to agree with your husband on that one
idk if ther is an age. i have a sneaking suspicion that moters are nudearound their kids a lot (litte kids) and most older children have see parents in undewear at least.
i don think it s a big do business ut if yur husband thinks you should then i wold just cover up. cuz INSISTING on anyone nude around your 5 yr old is kind of weird.
Both my husband and I are unbelievably lax re. nudity. Both of our mothers were nude through our lives (both still are to this day, which is more hysterical than anything else) and it hasn't warped either one of us or anything to that effect.
We'll probably not go out of our agency to be naked in front of our older kids, but indubitably won't make it a taboo thing, or freak out. The freaking out, I think, is what cause issues in kids, not the nudity itself. Source(s): * He's German-born, my mom's just an weak hippie.
Small children are fluently curious so the best time would be when their curiosity starts to make you uncomfortable because of stares or questions which might be degrading you. It's your call on this though and as parent you get to decide any way on what you consider to be correct.
i used to go into the bathroom with my parents still with nothing on when i was 9, my dad was not that comfortable with it, but i never looked planned, i think i learnt early on that he be never really comfortable, but my mum was always fine with it, it be really when i wanted my own privacy that i realised she would want the same.
When he starts saying 'Ew, gross, Mom,' possibly be a bit quicker to grab a robe to be nice, but family nudity is not a big do business.
probably once his mates start coming round to check you out, you know then to start covering up.
yeah i think the same thing
or if you surface really good and don't think so
just start covering until he is 7 or 8
hope this help :D
i be thinking about the exact same thing a while ago
my boy is nearly 4 and i believe he takes no thought of me being naked (like when i come out of the shower) so i am not yet in position to cover up lol
but i think this is subject to personal preference
i will definately be more careful once he turns 6
whenever your son starts expressing discomfort around seeing you naked.
for the first one i didn't have a problem with being unclothed and still wouldn't to this day. the other 4 from day 1 i wasn't cause their adjectives girls
the time they find it gross
5 or 6
I construe that after the age of 1-2 you should be dressed around your kid.
Your partner is right. He is at the age where he shouldn't be seeing you naked. Dad is ok, but not you.
UMMM DON'T EVER DO IT unless ur taking a shower
be serious... who really wants to look at you nude. get real..5 years aged I am suprised the kid hasn't already told you to get dressed.
It's a terrifically individual thing, and no one rule is right for everybody.
I've always be fully clothed around the house, even when I've been all alone. I'm fiercely private within the bath, and I sleep in flannel -- but I do love to tan surrounded by the nude, and I don't mind my boys being there when I'm tanning. I just relate them that sunbathing is like bathing and you just don't wear clothes. I always wear a wrap on my bearing up to the rooftop where I do most of my tanning, so I guess I'm really pretty modest, but I love the Sun so much I just have to brand name an exception.
I think the boys might be more comfortable with the mom under the wrap because I continued to nurse them till they be 4 or 5.
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