Does anyone else attain tired of this?!?
I'm so sick and tired of certain trolls on here posting answers that degrades every other mother-as if they are the perfect mother and not a soul else can compare. ( I think it's really obvious that I'm speaking mainly of Coma La Flor-any one else next to me on that?!)
I am a stay at home mother and my kids come first also. I tend to every need they have but if anyone listens to her I'm a fruitless mother because I let my children cry for a few minutes when they were younger. I am also a wife and I have responsiblities to my husband as resourcefully. It's not fair for him to work all day and come home and enjoy to clean the house or cook his dinner because my kids won't stop crying ONLY because they want more attention when they've had my undevoted attention all morning. It's not easy to cook and clean with a tot on your hip.
I don't have all the answers and I KNOW that. But when I answer a question on here I answer it honestly in need making the mother feel bad about her skills as a mother. Unless obviously it's some troll asking how to remove her 14 yr old daughter's nipple ring!
So in other words stop being degrading to other mothers- we work purely as hard as you do we just arent as arrogant about it as you are!
Como La Flor's answer to a question::::::::::::::
I quit a successful occupation to be a stay at home mom. That means, I'm here for my baby twenty four hours a day, seven days a week. When she cries, it routine she needs something, so I'm there. That's my job as a mother. Mothering is roughly sacrifices, and I knew this before and after becoming pregnant. Her wants come first. She is my priority.
She does , however, fuss for a few minutes if I put her to bed and she's not ready. But I'm always going in to check on her and spawn sure she's okay
I honestly give hats off to this answer... she hit the pin on the head!
Thats sad you take her answer as degrading. it doesnt come across like she was tryin to degrade anyone.
If you love your children completely you can do no wrong. here are times to let them cry and there are times to run to them. you the parent are the one that builds confidence in your child by mortal their rock so be there for them but you dont have to come running when they cry because they dont like broccoli.
three words..
YOU GO GIRL!
I think adjectives moms have a story. Being a mom is a tiring job, even for the best of us. Mothers will take over the world,
I don't even have kids, but sometimes I'll just post hypothetical questions here, and adjectives of these other "mothers" end up cursing me out and calling me every name in the book. Way to set an example for your kids, ladies.
Answers: hi hun, you elevate your babies the way you see best and take no notice of anyone who pokes their trunk in.and you are right to leave your baby crying, any mother who runs to a childs every whimper is lately making a rod for their own back and in doing so usually end up creating monsters.
DON'T pay any attention to those culture who judge you, Im gonna be a dad of twin girls and I went to the baby subsection to ask questions and I got chewed out and judged. People deed tough on the internet, do what's best for your family.
within at work still...lol
As my mother would vote there is no handbook explaining how to be a mother. There is not a right or wrong answer. Most of us to the best job we can do. No call for to worry what others think of your skills.
The bad mothers are usually the ones that don't let their children cry anyway. Edit: Who the hell down thumbed me? I abominate you people so much, you make my blood boil. Say a child skinned their knee and the mother threw adjectives that "Be brave don't cry" **** at them, that child is well within their right to cry and you shouldn't be wanting them to develop a twisted sense that not crying about doomed to failure things is somehow the definition of a better character.
Seth?
i'm not sure what answers you are discussion about...i just saw some of Coma La Flor's answers and i agree with them...i'm by no scheme a "perfect mom"
i really don't think she's trying to be "degrading" towards you or anyone else. it's just how she parents (from what i've see so far)
is this a question or a Bltch complaint
Who are you discussion about? Can you post a link please?
Hi French Toast! I haven't seen you around for a long time! How own you been?
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*Ok . I found one of her answers. I don't see anything wrong with it.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…
Ya, i have seen these individuals and i even think i have posted a q before refering to that exact topic. it seem as if there is always one person that doesnt similar to the way u do things. if u ask for some support regarding a difficult situation involving the kids, there is other at least one person that isnt there to assistance. they r the people that judge and dissect every last detail and u know what?.those inhabitants r liars, they arent as great as they claim to be. they have faults, and they hate themselves, thats why they arbiter.
Being a mom is hard enough without have to worry about what some self-righteous, hypocritical moron think of u online. whats great about this place is that when u thumbs down someone, u never have to see the stupidity again.
It's the internet, you have to take the suitable with the bad.
Nobody is the perfect mother. Don't lift the comments to heart, they are just words on a screen after all
I don't know who you're talking about...but permit me give you a piece of practical advice.
Try not to put too much stock in the rantings of a stranger.
Life is too short to acquire worked up over what someone you don't even know and will never meet had to say going on for something you wrote.
Everyone has their own story and everyone is entitled to their own opinion.but they can't hurt you, if you don't let them.
Good Luck to you miss.
***
Jesus Owlie - Settle down!! Yahoo have been packed with glitches for the ultimate three weeks...including massive thumb errors. If you exit and come back or refresh your page, there's a good unsystematic that the thumbs will fluctuate. It's been happening for weeks.
Id never heard of that user. But I dont really go and get tired of it, I like the site because frankly there are things I wouldnt say to other parents within public, like one co-workers wife, who will corner you and will babble on and on and on about her own parenting and how wonderful her kids are. It in recent times wouldnt be useful for my working relationship to tell her off. So I hold to get my frustrations out somewhere :)
Oh win a J.O.B. You dummy **. lazy complaint beotch.
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I am a stay at home mother and my kids come first also. I tend to every need they have but if anyone listens to her I'm a fruitless mother because I let my children cry for a few minutes when they were younger. I am also a wife and I have responsiblities to my husband as resourcefully. It's not fair for him to work all day and come home and enjoy to clean the house or cook his dinner because my kids won't stop crying ONLY because they want more attention when they've had my undevoted attention all morning. It's not easy to cook and clean with a tot on your hip.
I don't have all the answers and I KNOW that. But when I answer a question on here I answer it honestly in need making the mother feel bad about her skills as a mother. Unless obviously it's some troll asking how to remove her 14 yr old daughter's nipple ring!
So in other words stop being degrading to other mothers- we work purely as hard as you do we just arent as arrogant about it as you are!
Como La Flor's answer to a question::::::::::::::
I quit a successful occupation to be a stay at home mom. That means, I'm here for my baby twenty four hours a day, seven days a week. When she cries, it routine she needs something, so I'm there. That's my job as a mother. Mothering is roughly sacrifices, and I knew this before and after becoming pregnant. Her wants come first. She is my priority.
She does , however, fuss for a few minutes if I put her to bed and she's not ready. But I'm always going in to check on her and spawn sure she's okay
I honestly give hats off to this answer... she hit the pin on the head!
Thats sad you take her answer as degrading. it doesnt come across like she was tryin to degrade anyone.
If you love your children completely you can do no wrong. here are times to let them cry and there are times to run to them. you the parent are the one that builds confidence in your child by mortal their rock so be there for them but you dont have to come running when they cry because they dont like broccoli.
three words..
YOU GO GIRL!
I think adjectives moms have a story. Being a mom is a tiring job, even for the best of us. Mothers will take over the world,
I don't even have kids, but sometimes I'll just post hypothetical questions here, and adjectives of these other "mothers" end up cursing me out and calling me every name in the book. Way to set an example for your kids, ladies.
Answers: hi hun, you elevate your babies the way you see best and take no notice of anyone who pokes their trunk in.and you are right to leave your baby crying, any mother who runs to a childs every whimper is lately making a rod for their own back and in doing so usually end up creating monsters.
DON'T pay any attention to those culture who judge you, Im gonna be a dad of twin girls and I went to the baby subsection to ask questions and I got chewed out and judged. People deed tough on the internet, do what's best for your family.
within at work still...lol
As my mother would vote there is no handbook explaining how to be a mother. There is not a right or wrong answer. Most of us to the best job we can do. No call for to worry what others think of your skills.
The bad mothers are usually the ones that don't let their children cry anyway. Edit: Who the hell down thumbed me? I abominate you people so much, you make my blood boil. Say a child skinned their knee and the mother threw adjectives that "Be brave don't cry" **** at them, that child is well within their right to cry and you shouldn't be wanting them to develop a twisted sense that not crying about doomed to failure things is somehow the definition of a better character.
Seth?
i'm not sure what answers you are discussion about...i just saw some of Coma La Flor's answers and i agree with them...i'm by no scheme a "perfect mom"
i really don't think she's trying to be "degrading" towards you or anyone else. it's just how she parents (from what i've see so far)
is this a question or a Bltch complaint
Who are you discussion about? Can you post a link please?
Hi French Toast! I haven't seen you around for a long time! How own you been?
****
*Ok . I found one of her answers. I don't see anything wrong with it.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…
Ya, i have seen these individuals and i even think i have posted a q before refering to that exact topic. it seem as if there is always one person that doesnt similar to the way u do things. if u ask for some support regarding a difficult situation involving the kids, there is other at least one person that isnt there to assistance. they r the people that judge and dissect every last detail and u know what?.those inhabitants r liars, they arent as great as they claim to be. they have faults, and they hate themselves, thats why they arbiter.
Being a mom is hard enough without have to worry about what some self-righteous, hypocritical moron think of u online. whats great about this place is that when u thumbs down someone, u never have to see the stupidity again.
It's the internet, you have to take the suitable with the bad.
Nobody is the perfect mother. Don't lift the comments to heart, they are just words on a screen after all
I don't know who you're talking about...but permit me give you a piece of practical advice.
Try not to put too much stock in the rantings of a stranger.
Life is too short to acquire worked up over what someone you don't even know and will never meet had to say going on for something you wrote.
Everyone has their own story and everyone is entitled to their own opinion.but they can't hurt you, if you don't let them.
Good Luck to you miss.
***
Jesus Owlie - Settle down!! Yahoo have been packed with glitches for the ultimate three weeks...including massive thumb errors. If you exit and come back or refresh your page, there's a good unsystematic that the thumbs will fluctuate. It's been happening for weeks.
Id never heard of that user. But I dont really go and get tired of it, I like the site because frankly there are things I wouldnt say to other parents within public, like one co-workers wife, who will corner you and will babble on and on and on about her own parenting and how wonderful her kids are. It in recent times wouldnt be useful for my working relationship to tell her off. So I hold to get my frustrations out somewhere :)
Oh win a J.O.B. You dummy **. lazy complaint beotch.
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