What would you do if your son...?
okay a few here i've always been curious on exactly what other parents would do. and i always wonder how the parents of these men grain...
a. cheated on his gf or wife (like had an affair not just a one night stand)
b. hit his wife/gf
c.hit his kids
d.get two women pregnant around the same time
e. got a girl pregnant at a young age
f. walk away from his kids (dead beat dad)
g. raped a girl
i know i would be so disappointed, confused and probably ashamed. when ever i see these story's about guys like this i other wonder "what would their parents say!". so well what would YOU say? if in that was no way to deny he did it.
a. I'd relate him how disappointed I was.really not my business. Tell the gf/wife she deserves better than my loser son.
b. Take her in.
c. Take them in.
d. See a, followed by a screaming fit.
e. See d.
f. Help hunt him down so at most minuscule he'd pay. If not, I'd leave my money to them in the will.
g. Make sure he did time.
I really don't know what I'd do, my little boy is simply one! I agree w/ your statement. I'd like to believe though, that whatever I do, it would be the most fair/judicious action.
A. I would be in a state of shock, I would feel guilty myself, I don`t know more than him.
B. I'd be real quiet at home and wonder where and when did this become an all right thing to do?
C. Confused, and try to convince him to stop.
D. I'm not quite sure how my reaction would be to this.
E. If he's much elder than her I would feel like a dirty mother of a dirty a man.
F. I'd probably leave him alone, but show my anger and at lowest possible I'd try to be there with them.
G. I'd never get over it.
Answers: a) If my son cheated on his gf or wife I would be so disappointed in him and probably gross him tell his wife what has been going on.
b) If my son hit is gf/wife I would consistency like I failed as a parent. I would be so heartbroken.
c) If my son hit is kids I would be greatly angry and tell him to stop or I will make sure he gets thrown surrounded by jail for it.
d) If my son got two women pregnant at the same time I would variety sure he paid child support and was the best father he could be. There would be no way I would permit him off the hook with that.
e) If my son got a girl pregnant at a immature age I would still love him and support him. I would even consider helping the young girl and she could move into our home.
f) If my son walked away from his son I would dis-own him and take charge of them. I would love his kids but be so angry with him. How could a father do that do his own family!?
g) If my son raped a girl I would make sure he get the penalty for that.
You know, its hard to comment unless you are in the situation.
a. cheated on his gf or wife (like had an affair not just a one dark stand) I would want to know why he cheated on her in the first place
b. hit his wife/gf/ Call the cops myself
c.hit his kids/ My Grand babies Don't go there I might put to death him
d.got two women pregnant around the same time/ we all generate mistakes son just remember to WRAP IT UP
e. got a girl pregnant at a young age/ Help as much as I can but he is still going to college no MATTER WHAT!
f. walk away from his kids (dead beat dad)/ NO WAY they are still my grand babies and I love them no matter what
g. raped a girl/ name the law and report him myself
i don't know how to answer this examine. but my husband seems to think he can
A. Better make sure it be worth it, lose out on a good thing ya lose it for good.
B. Just close to my dad would do, (of course he would be older) but I'd kick his ***...
C. Wouldn't ever happen, just approaching i was raised so would he be...
D. In front of mommy, "That was intensely very wrong." Behind mommy..." LOL! how did you manage that one? Didn't you have adequate on your plate with the one?"
E. Well in this day and age...it happen, but he better realize hes gotta grow up fast and do what needs to be done...
F. Again, Wouldn't ever happen.
G. Honestly, as much as it hurts, i'd disown him from the ancestral. There are yes, criminals in my family, but none would do such a degrading thing. To tough a inherited code to do such a thing to any one.
A. I'd be dissapointed but these things happen and I hope he wouldn't do it again
B. I'd be livid! if he seriously hurt her i'd urge her to get him charged - theres no excuse for ing a wonan
C. Report him myself to the police if it be violent
D. I'd make sure he took responsiblity and paid for both these children
E. It would depend what age, and if they be the same age, I'd still make him take full responsibilty
F. Try and have a word sense into him or Report him to Child support agency, and still try my best to see my grandchildren with their mothers
blessing
G. Report him to the police. without a shadow of a doubt.
Most of these can apply to women, too...
a. cheated on his gf or wife (like had an affair not just a one hours of darkness stand)
Couldn't do a thing about it.
b. hit his wife/gf
I would encourage him to whip anger management classes, and get some counseling, as well as end the relationship, even if temporarily.
c.hit his kids
See B, above... I would also probably tell him that I'm going to take the kids, until he gets his feat together, and I'd be wondering what the mother is doing...
d.got two women pregnant around the same time
See A.
e. got a girl pregnant at a babyish age
Have him take responsibility, make sure he's paying child support, and is as involved as he can be.
f. walked away from his kids (dead thump dad)
See A... I would make sure I was a part of his kid's lives, no business what, so they have someone from his side of the family, as a constant in their lives.
g. raped a girl
I think about the law would take care of it... If not, I don't know what I would do... Probably indistinguishable as B, above. Source(s): Married, with 4 kids... One son, three daughters.
If it be G I would disown him and never allow him back in my life.
For the other ones, I would strongly suggest counseling. Having a son, I hope to God I never lift a child like that!
Then again, outside influence (the streets) can make a good personality go rotten
I would seriously question where on earth exactly i went wrong. I would most deftly blame myself, at what point in my childs vivacity did they learn that this behavior is acceptable?? i actually saw some show on mtv is she really going out near him or something and was like, dude, where did this @$$ come from?!?
But i would get the impression this way with only some of those a,b,c,f,g ... and if he murdered someone.
I know as a parent you can singular do so much, much there are certian things that i feel a child learns from their enviornment and at some point within their life i somehow failed them.
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a. cheated on his gf or wife (like had an affair not just a one night stand)
b. hit his wife/gf
c.hit his kids
d.get two women pregnant around the same time
e. got a girl pregnant at a young age
f. walk away from his kids (dead beat dad)
g. raped a girl
i know i would be so disappointed, confused and probably ashamed. when ever i see these story's about guys like this i other wonder "what would their parents say!". so well what would YOU say? if in that was no way to deny he did it.
a. I'd relate him how disappointed I was.really not my business. Tell the gf/wife she deserves better than my loser son.
b. Take her in.
c. Take them in.
d. See a, followed by a screaming fit.
e. See d.
f. Help hunt him down so at most minuscule he'd pay. If not, I'd leave my money to them in the will.
g. Make sure he did time.
I really don't know what I'd do, my little boy is simply one! I agree w/ your statement. I'd like to believe though, that whatever I do, it would be the most fair/judicious action.
A. I would be in a state of shock, I would feel guilty myself, I don`t know more than him.
B. I'd be real quiet at home and wonder where and when did this become an all right thing to do?
C. Confused, and try to convince him to stop.
D. I'm not quite sure how my reaction would be to this.
E. If he's much elder than her I would feel like a dirty mother of a dirty a man.
F. I'd probably leave him alone, but show my anger and at lowest possible I'd try to be there with them.
G. I'd never get over it.
Answers: a) If my son cheated on his gf or wife I would be so disappointed in him and probably gross him tell his wife what has been going on.
b) If my son hit is gf/wife I would consistency like I failed as a parent. I would be so heartbroken.
c) If my son hit is kids I would be greatly angry and tell him to stop or I will make sure he gets thrown surrounded by jail for it.
d) If my son got two women pregnant at the same time I would variety sure he paid child support and was the best father he could be. There would be no way I would permit him off the hook with that.
e) If my son got a girl pregnant at a immature age I would still love him and support him. I would even consider helping the young girl and she could move into our home.
f) If my son walked away from his son I would dis-own him and take charge of them. I would love his kids but be so angry with him. How could a father do that do his own family!?
g) If my son raped a girl I would make sure he get the penalty for that.
You know, its hard to comment unless you are in the situation.
a. cheated on his gf or wife (like had an affair not just a one dark stand) I would want to know why he cheated on her in the first place
b. hit his wife/gf/ Call the cops myself
c.hit his kids/ My Grand babies Don't go there I might put to death him
d.got two women pregnant around the same time/ we all generate mistakes son just remember to WRAP IT UP
e. got a girl pregnant at a young age/ Help as much as I can but he is still going to college no MATTER WHAT!
f. walk away from his kids (dead beat dad)/ NO WAY they are still my grand babies and I love them no matter what
g. raped a girl/ name the law and report him myself
i don't know how to answer this examine. but my husband seems to think he can
A. Better make sure it be worth it, lose out on a good thing ya lose it for good.
B. Just close to my dad would do, (of course he would be older) but I'd kick his ***...
C. Wouldn't ever happen, just approaching i was raised so would he be...
D. In front of mommy, "That was intensely very wrong." Behind mommy..." LOL! how did you manage that one? Didn't you have adequate on your plate with the one?"
E. Well in this day and age...it happen, but he better realize hes gotta grow up fast and do what needs to be done...
F. Again, Wouldn't ever happen.
G. Honestly, as much as it hurts, i'd disown him from the ancestral. There are yes, criminals in my family, but none would do such a degrading thing. To tough a inherited code to do such a thing to any one.
A. I'd be dissapointed but these things happen and I hope he wouldn't do it again
B. I'd be livid! if he seriously hurt her i'd urge her to get him charged - theres no excuse for ing a wonan
C. Report him myself to the police if it be violent
D. I'd make sure he took responsiblity and paid for both these children
E. It would depend what age, and if they be the same age, I'd still make him take full responsibilty
F. Try and have a word sense into him or Report him to Child support agency, and still try my best to see my grandchildren with their mothers
blessing
G. Report him to the police. without a shadow of a doubt.
Most of these can apply to women, too...
a. cheated on his gf or wife (like had an affair not just a one hours of darkness stand)
Couldn't do a thing about it.
b. hit his wife/gf
I would encourage him to whip anger management classes, and get some counseling, as well as end the relationship, even if temporarily.
c.hit his kids
See B, above... I would also probably tell him that I'm going to take the kids, until he gets his feat together, and I'd be wondering what the mother is doing...
d.got two women pregnant around the same time
See A.
e. got a girl pregnant at a babyish age
Have him take responsibility, make sure he's paying child support, and is as involved as he can be.
f. walked away from his kids (dead thump dad)
See A... I would make sure I was a part of his kid's lives, no business what, so they have someone from his side of the family, as a constant in their lives.
g. raped a girl
I think about the law would take care of it... If not, I don't know what I would do... Probably indistinguishable as B, above. Source(s): Married, with 4 kids... One son, three daughters.
If it be G I would disown him and never allow him back in my life.
For the other ones, I would strongly suggest counseling. Having a son, I hope to God I never lift a child like that!
Then again, outside influence (the streets) can make a good personality go rotten
I would seriously question where on earth exactly i went wrong. I would most deftly blame myself, at what point in my childs vivacity did they learn that this behavior is acceptable?? i actually saw some show on mtv is she really going out near him or something and was like, dude, where did this @$$ come from?!?
But i would get the impression this way with only some of those a,b,c,f,g ... and if he murdered someone.
I know as a parent you can singular do so much, much there are certian things that i feel a child learns from their enviornment and at some point within their life i somehow failed them.
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