My sister who have a child at 14... feel nought for her oldest, boy(5) but loves her daughter (3) ??
i mean i'm in such a good protected place now & she's just a loser statistic... not to be mean... but its close to he gets a beautiful home & his own room with me but after a while he requirements to run back to a disgusting project building...
If you don't mind me asking, why does she love her daughter but not her boy?
Awww, how heartbreaking for the little boy!
This is hard. Your sister sounds like an awful person. Even if you don't love your child, you still hold to take care of them!! It's not a choice, it's a child!
I don't really know what to tell you, but where on earth is his father? Maybe he can take him. And keep him. Because your sister doesn't deserve to have him anymore.
Or, I don`t know you can keep him for good. Tell your nephew you love him so much, you want to keep him. Tell him his mommy is stressed beside his little sister, and needs to be alone for a little while.
If you can handle it, please keep hold of him. He deserves a good home that poor little boy.
Get a hold of his father, or maybe your mom (his grandma) can help this situation.
You also requirement to have heart to heart with your sister. Tell her this is not a choice, this is her child. Maybe, watch your niece for a few days and make a contribution your sister alone time with her son Let her fall in love near him again.
I hope she figures things out. Thanks for being a good sister and a virtuous aunt. He is lucky he has you.
guess what? It's not your kid! If she doesn't hold any emotional connection to him, that's your opinion. If you truely meditate he is in harm's way, then nickname social services.
I can tell you are have your heart in the right place, but it's not your place to parent her son
However, if she asks you to rob him, then you should. Under no circumstance should you EVER tell your nephew that your sister doesn't love/like/have an emotional nouns to him. Just tell him that he needs to stay with you but I don`t know Mommy can come visit soon.
Good luck!
I am within the same situation. And I could never figure out why he keeps wanting to budge back to that house where they are so mean to him. I regard he is starting to realize that she doesn't want him. He is exactly like your nephew when he is with his mother is is so bad but he is so obedient when he is with me. His mom said I can have him now and he be so happy. Just ask her can he move in with you. That's what i did and she said clutch him he jets on my nerves.
Answers: A 5 year old doesn't care that much going on for what kind of home he lives in. He just wishes the security of being with his mom and sister. If you want to help out him, have an honest conversation with her. Tell her you're worried about her son because you've notice that she doesn't seem to respond to him in the same style she does with her daughter. Ask her if she is aware of that, and try to get her to talk almost it.
If it seems that there really is an attachment problem, encourage her to step to a counselor. Having a baby at 14 and another at 16 has got to be emotionally exhausting and confusing. She be still growing up. Sometimes teens don't even realize the enormity of that commitment until years later. It's not surprising that she has some issues with this. While she is resolving them, verbs to take your nephew for visits so that he will always know that he have someone who loves him and who can be trusted.
god bless you and help him he's only a baby and wants to be loved but she is his mother and needs to seek help so she can bond beside him she was to young to do so at birth but its never to late
Your sister is messed up! How can she not love her own flesh and blood? I feel so bad for her son. I presume her son is way better off with you. With you he will seize the love and attention that he deserves. Are you considering adopting him?
Your sisters son will grow up to resent her,if he does not already. And your sister does not deserve him or her daughter for that matter. How can a parent show love for one child and not the other?
My heart goes out to your nephew.
I would call cps for neglecting him and try to get custody
Is your sister my neighbor? She sounds like my neighbor, who just forsaken her 5 or 6-year-old son with his grandma then left, taking her tot with her. It's sad and your sister really needs treatment to sort out her feelings for her son. I know she won't get any therapy, but she wants it.
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If you don't mind me asking, why does she love her daughter but not her boy?
Awww, how heartbreaking for the little boy!
This is hard. Your sister sounds like an awful person. Even if you don't love your child, you still hold to take care of them!! It's not a choice, it's a child!
I don't really know what to tell you, but where on earth is his father? Maybe he can take him. And keep him. Because your sister doesn't deserve to have him anymore.
Or, I don`t know you can keep him for good. Tell your nephew you love him so much, you want to keep him. Tell him his mommy is stressed beside his little sister, and needs to be alone for a little while.
If you can handle it, please keep hold of him. He deserves a good home that poor little boy.
Get a hold of his father, or maybe your mom (his grandma) can help this situation.
You also requirement to have heart to heart with your sister. Tell her this is not a choice, this is her child. Maybe, watch your niece for a few days and make a contribution your sister alone time with her son Let her fall in love near him again.
I hope she figures things out. Thanks for being a good sister and a virtuous aunt. He is lucky he has you.
guess what? It's not your kid! If she doesn't hold any emotional connection to him, that's your opinion. If you truely meditate he is in harm's way, then nickname social services.
I can tell you are have your heart in the right place, but it's not your place to parent her son
However, if she asks you to rob him, then you should. Under no circumstance should you EVER tell your nephew that your sister doesn't love/like/have an emotional nouns to him. Just tell him that he needs to stay with you but I don`t know Mommy can come visit soon.
Good luck!
I am within the same situation. And I could never figure out why he keeps wanting to budge back to that house where they are so mean to him. I regard he is starting to realize that she doesn't want him. He is exactly like your nephew when he is with his mother is is so bad but he is so obedient when he is with me. His mom said I can have him now and he be so happy. Just ask her can he move in with you. That's what i did and she said clutch him he jets on my nerves.
Answers: A 5 year old doesn't care that much going on for what kind of home he lives in. He just wishes the security of being with his mom and sister. If you want to help out him, have an honest conversation with her. Tell her you're worried about her son because you've notice that she doesn't seem to respond to him in the same style she does with her daughter. Ask her if she is aware of that, and try to get her to talk almost it.
If it seems that there really is an attachment problem, encourage her to step to a counselor. Having a baby at 14 and another at 16 has got to be emotionally exhausting and confusing. She be still growing up. Sometimes teens don't even realize the enormity of that commitment until years later. It's not surprising that she has some issues with this. While she is resolving them, verbs to take your nephew for visits so that he will always know that he have someone who loves him and who can be trusted.
god bless you and help him he's only a baby and wants to be loved but she is his mother and needs to seek help so she can bond beside him she was to young to do so at birth but its never to late
Your sister is messed up! How can she not love her own flesh and blood? I feel so bad for her son. I presume her son is way better off with you. With you he will seize the love and attention that he deserves. Are you considering adopting him?
Your sisters son will grow up to resent her,if he does not already. And your sister does not deserve him or her daughter for that matter. How can a parent show love for one child and not the other?
My heart goes out to your nephew.
I would call cps for neglecting him and try to get custody
Is your sister my neighbor? She sounds like my neighbor, who just forsaken her 5 or 6-year-old son with his grandma then left, taking her tot with her. It's sad and your sister really needs treatment to sort out her feelings for her son. I know she won't get any therapy, but she wants it.
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