Does my mother involve to be more strict on my little sister?
I'm 19 and when I was growing up I got a good older fashion *** whooping when I miss behaved, followed by punishment from all the things far-reaching to me for extended periods of time.
I'm still growing up even though I'm 19 so its not like I think I'm smart next to kids or anything but I think my sister is a little under controlled.
She a short time ago turned 12 last month, she has a very foul mouth and ill will towards my mother for everything (always has) and the foul mouth exempts cursing.
She never does what shes supposed too. She trashes the house.
She always finds ways to weezle out of things, and she causes highly perceptible stress on my mother who already has her own problems.
But my mother will NOT punish my sister. she threatens too. maybe pops her on the tush now and after. But as long as shes been old enough to do things her own bearing, my mom has never punished her to teach her what she should or shouldnt be doing.
And my sister is driving my mother up the wall.. shes always surrounded by a bad mood or about to explode.
I know I cant force my mother into doing anything, but I'm afraid that if something isn't done my sister won't turn out the best.
Forget this attitude that you cannot tell your mother what to do. Age does not make people smarter, it does not magically pass us wisdom, it does not make anything we do the right thing when it would otherwise be wrong. As population age, we become less and less morale, become know-it-alls, and in actuality we know very little more than we did when we were 20 or 25. People will litterally start doing things wrong because they feel that regardless of the outcome, they are other right. Notice that people who have no money, and people who own never had a successful marriage are trying to tell others how to do it their means of access. If they knew, they would be rich and happy.
Go find yourself a full time job, a room for rent, and move out. The longer you are within a situation like this, the more it will discourage you from being an honest and clear minded individual. You will develop a biases, closed mind if you continue to live your personal natural life in such a situation. The majority of people you meet who hold given up on a morale and happy life have done so because of the biased treatment they received from parents and teacher. The depression and feelings of unfairness can really destroy you as a character and make you give up.
I have nice, loving relationships, and I enjoy a successful purposeful life that I picked out of the ashes, so If you want to listen, listen, if you want to give me thumbs down, feel free, Im solely trying to help you have a free and happy duration.
Avoid these kinds of people in your personal go, they will destroy you.
your sister runs the house, apparently, and your mom have failed at consistency. i dont know why some parents just give up, but it's not neutral to the child, at all.
yes, your sister will have future problems if she's allowed to deed out and misbehave all the time.
if you're concerned talk with your mom. that's the best you can do, besides intervene. conceivably your sister needs a good butt warming?
Answers: Keep loving and supporting your mom the best you can. I don't understand why she is raise your little sister do differently than she raised you. Do you know why? What about her dad? Is he an option to give somebody a lift his daughter for awhile or would that be just another bad situation. You can take your mom out to provide her a break but you can only be involved so far as your mom allows it. Have you had a sister to sister talk beside the 12 year old. You may not be her mom but there is still a lot a sister can do.
You can't make your mom do anything, but you can try to discipline her yourself. I do that with my siblings, they listen to me better than my mother.
Sorry but in attendance is not much you can do. That is your sister, not your child... the parenting is left to her parents. Your mother is raising your sister the way she requests. If she didn't like the way she is raising your sister she would own changed it by now.
I surmise you should advice your sister or give her psychological books or maybe you may furnish her my email address and we may talk.
Try coming to your mom's defense the subsequent time that she sasses your mom. Threaten to spank her. If your mom doesn't voice an objection and your sister challenges you, give her the spanking of her life.
You are right
i'm afraid you're right, your little sister doesn't sound like she is heading down a devout path. she needs boot camp similar to NOW!
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I'm still growing up even though I'm 19 so its not like I think I'm smart next to kids or anything but I think my sister is a little under controlled.
She a short time ago turned 12 last month, she has a very foul mouth and ill will towards my mother for everything (always has) and the foul mouth exempts cursing.
She never does what shes supposed too. She trashes the house.
She always finds ways to weezle out of things, and she causes highly perceptible stress on my mother who already has her own problems.
But my mother will NOT punish my sister. she threatens too. maybe pops her on the tush now and after. But as long as shes been old enough to do things her own bearing, my mom has never punished her to teach her what she should or shouldnt be doing.
And my sister is driving my mother up the wall.. shes always surrounded by a bad mood or about to explode.
I know I cant force my mother into doing anything, but I'm afraid that if something isn't done my sister won't turn out the best.
Forget this attitude that you cannot tell your mother what to do. Age does not make people smarter, it does not magically pass us wisdom, it does not make anything we do the right thing when it would otherwise be wrong. As population age, we become less and less morale, become know-it-alls, and in actuality we know very little more than we did when we were 20 or 25. People will litterally start doing things wrong because they feel that regardless of the outcome, they are other right. Notice that people who have no money, and people who own never had a successful marriage are trying to tell others how to do it their means of access. If they knew, they would be rich and happy.
Go find yourself a full time job, a room for rent, and move out. The longer you are within a situation like this, the more it will discourage you from being an honest and clear minded individual. You will develop a biases, closed mind if you continue to live your personal natural life in such a situation. The majority of people you meet who hold given up on a morale and happy life have done so because of the biased treatment they received from parents and teacher. The depression and feelings of unfairness can really destroy you as a character and make you give up.
I have nice, loving relationships, and I enjoy a successful purposeful life that I picked out of the ashes, so If you want to listen, listen, if you want to give me thumbs down, feel free, Im solely trying to help you have a free and happy duration.
Avoid these kinds of people in your personal go, they will destroy you.
your sister runs the house, apparently, and your mom have failed at consistency. i dont know why some parents just give up, but it's not neutral to the child, at all.
yes, your sister will have future problems if she's allowed to deed out and misbehave all the time.
if you're concerned talk with your mom. that's the best you can do, besides intervene. conceivably your sister needs a good butt warming?
Answers: Keep loving and supporting your mom the best you can. I don't understand why she is raise your little sister do differently than she raised you. Do you know why? What about her dad? Is he an option to give somebody a lift his daughter for awhile or would that be just another bad situation. You can take your mom out to provide her a break but you can only be involved so far as your mom allows it. Have you had a sister to sister talk beside the 12 year old. You may not be her mom but there is still a lot a sister can do.
You can't make your mom do anything, but you can try to discipline her yourself. I do that with my siblings, they listen to me better than my mother.
Sorry but in attendance is not much you can do. That is your sister, not your child... the parenting is left to her parents. Your mother is raising your sister the way she requests. If she didn't like the way she is raising your sister she would own changed it by now.
I surmise you should advice your sister or give her psychological books or maybe you may furnish her my email address and we may talk.
Try coming to your mom's defense the subsequent time that she sasses your mom. Threaten to spank her. If your mom doesn't voice an objection and your sister challenges you, give her the spanking of her life.
You are right
i'm afraid you're right, your little sister doesn't sound like she is heading down a devout path. she needs boot camp similar to NOW!
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