12 yr dated daughter say she's gone to 2nd platform next to a boy. Is 12 too young-looking for such behavior?
As a mother I say yes she is too young, but as a instructor I have noticed that this type of behavior in immature girls has become the norm, sad to say.
Yeah I think it is. I wouldn't even be allowing her to date or anything like that. It's majority for her to know about her body and sex, but she doesn't need to be experimenting. You should sit down with her and inform her that she is way to young to be doing anything that is physically. No kissing or touching because that can organize to grown up things.Also, I would keep more of an eye on her, I wouldn't let her hang alone next to any boys.To keep her from not becoming active, you should keep her busy, Try putting her contained by music classes,sports or anything she enjoys taking up. The more time she puts into something more productive, the less she will have to focus on boys.Those boys will be nearby when she is more mature and ready for a serious relationship. God Bless!
Answers: Okay, just to be clear here are all the bases within relationships:
1st Base: kissing, making out
2nd Base: touching/feeling/groping over the clothes (ex. dry humping, rubbing things, etc.)
3rd Base: touching/feeling/groping under the clothes
4th Base/Home Run: SEX
So if your 12 year old daughter has be to 2nd base already that could mean a whole lot of things. I assume that is way too young for a 12 year older to already touch and feel a penis (albeit under the clothes, but still). And the fact that this type of situation is the "norm" now is pathetic. Children, and she is still a child, are growing up WAY too fast and need to be qualified how to slow down.
Sooner or later that 2nd base is going to lead to a Home Run and you want to watch out for this.
Good Luck!
yes 12 is to young for her to be going out next to boys my mom didn't let me go out with boys sence i be 15 and when she said she is on 2nd base with a boy it means kissing or what ever but u don't want that to turn out to be a 4th a 5th or a 6th foundation because they are taking it to far and she just might make a accident and enjoy a baby but it's time for u to have a mother and daughter talk and see what she know for a 12 year old
That's very childlike. But to be honest, girls these days are doing that AND more. If your daughter told you this, be grateful she is being HONEST. It's worse when they hide these things. But you should own a talk with your daughter now nearly sex, the risks, diseases, etc. If she is ready for 2nd base, the rest id right around the corner. Not, right immediately maybe, but it's there and it's better to inform her NOW. Maybe the risks and diseasses may even scare her or result in her to wait longer for anything more. Just keep the open relationship you own with her. That much is very healthy. But yes, 12 is childish. But that's the world we live in. Do what's best for your daughter. Help her and talk to her.
I am going to say yes, if it be my daughter *I* would consider that to be too young.
But then I am curious to know WHY she has the opportunity to win to 2nd base... apparently there is a problem with her knowing who is charge or next to you laying down rules?
looking at it now, yes, way too young.. when I be 12, nope didn't seem to young.
Yes, but if she told you this, don't create a big deal over it. Appreciate that she is open to talk to you! That will oblige in later conversations. Ask her about it. Make it insubstantial, don't judge.
Yes
you need to sit her down and communicate to her. make sure she realizes its not good. if you arent assiduous she'll go all the way and could bring back pregnant.
ummm way too young. It's so dismayed that these 10,11,12 year olds are have sex thesse day! i mean i thought 16 be wayyy to young. She could get pregant you know.
Yeah.too young.
This might be a stupid question, but is the term "2nd base" your words or hers?
And if it be her who used that term, are you certain it means what you ponder it does?
Children have a tendency to use 'adult' terminology approaching the base analogies incorrectly, normally exaggerating greatly.
It depends on how apposite looking your daughter is.
If she's ugly, then yes. But if she's hot, then please distribute me her number.
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