What is Tartism? Why is it so impossible?
skeletism. ooohhh spooky
Like look at every user on Y!A's answers and see for yourself. It's not "bad", it's "in" like Flynn these days and it's not going anywhere tot. Thank the attachment parenting movement and the hippies when screeching youth throw potatoes in your face at the restaurant and their parents only just smile at you coyly, like you should be amused.
Answers: It's just a made up word by some of the regulars on here.
For starters, it has nothing to do beside religion, pastries or slowness of any type.
Because it has been used so casually, and i am accustomed to audible range it, i really do not know what the dictionary definition would be. And usually, it is used regarding boys. Not too sure about Tartism in girls.
Some examples of Promoting Tartism by Parents would be:
*Going shopping near your little boy, in age, maybe anywhere between 2 and 10. He wants, let say cookies, but, really you dont want to get them. In most cases, it is the dads promoting this parenting. "Buddy, daddy dosent have money for the cookies." Boy throws himself and cries...etc, etc. "Buddy, tolerate me see, let me check my pockets, you are making me so upset...blah blah blah, buddy!" Dad, needs to leave or conceivably even ignore the situation, but No. Dad continues to talk and converse with the kid as if the kid is a grown man, deeply putting on an obnoxious show for all to see.
*The kid needs to go verbs his room or for that matter do what he is told to do. "Buddy, if you go do what mommy/daddy asked, you can watch your favorite show (claps) yay!!" Kid say no, they're not doing it and throws themselves or acts up. "okay buddy, but you are making me very upset...blah blah blah." This is tartism mostly when a guest is over and has to take on witness to this obnoxious behavior.
*Promoting Tartism would also involve cases where as children are not enforced to behave such as sharing with others, throwing out their garbage, saw please and thank you. Istead of the parent enforcing this, they look at the children with loving eyes and laugh it bad as if it is cute. Being rude to adults, not listening in school and afterwards the parent "accepting" that this is how the child is.
*A little boy should fall once in a while, fall rotten the monkey bars, or get hit with a baseball, spill out while running, and he will survive. There is no need to sissy this boy with "oh buddy, are you okay? Buddy, sit down, dont play no more.blah, blah blah." Exceptions are of course if he would inevitability medical attention.
*This whole "time out" bonanza is encouraging the promotion of Tartism. Sometimes a child could use a little swat. But that issue is truly for the parent. Its a strong opinion/topic that timeout will do nothing next to behavior issues. As some parents believe a swat on the butt will do nothing positive. But that is considered as another issue with Tartism. Child treat roughly is the worse thing that can happen to any child, so i suppose, tartism and time out would be better than abuse any morning when it come to this touchy issue.
*Pajamas. Taking children out in pajamas along with keeping their hair long or cut into a bowl also would be promoting Tartism.. But because this is how the kid wishes to look, although in reality they are too young to receive this decision.
Can we PLEASE not start this again. Its so tiring.
I actually have no clue what the heck it is, I reason its some crap made up by uptight parents.
No Clue Buddy!!
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