Ladies, did you find that your huband have more respect for you after seeing you dispense birth?
did your hubby feel any different about you after you gave birth?
My husband be in aww the first to days then it was rear home and he was like hey um the games on can u grab me the chips?
I wouldn't say he has any more respect for me post-birth than he did prior to giving birth. I have an emergency c-section and had contractions for only 15 minutes (all before he arrived at the hospital) so it specifically wasn't a long, painful labor for me. I'll let you know after #2, assuming I'm able to hold a "normal" pregnancy and vaginal birth, lol!
he had a new respect, yes, he says very soon 'there is noway he could do it, and is glad im the woman' lol
NOPE! nought changed. He actually left the next time for two weeks. I mean he couldnt really get out of leaving but not solitary did he not respect the fact that I just gave birth and how concrete that is, without any pain meds I should tag on, he also didnt respect the fact that I did the first few weeks alone
guys just dont understand what adjectives it takes for childbirth and what it does to your body or what it feels like. hejust kept aphorism "oh this looks so cool!"
Oh definitely. My husband said he had NO theory how I did it and was willing to keep doing it!
He in actual fact told me after our first one that if it were him he'd never sleep with me again! LOL (I guess it didn't help that I be natural with both.
haha if you mean thought you were stronger... well type of. He doesn't call me a wimp like he used to, but that's cuz I didn't have an epidural and my doc and anesthesiologist be impressed! Other than that, its not so much he respected me, but he won't ever forget the experience! lol
Don't try to impress him with it, just do whatever you gotta do to get this about you and your baby. Hubby can take precision of himself! Just be kind to him, and tell him you love him (even when the pain REALLY hurts! lol) he'll appreciate you more for it! Source(s): me
Actually, my boyfriend decided I was inferior because I had a c-section. ... So I put up near contractions for a whole week without complaining. Big deal. And I spent over 24 hours contained by the hospital with them saying I was have very strong contractions like 2 minutes apart. Who cares? The point is that I wasn't woman adequate to ... uh, "give birth".
I don't think he will ever respect me for having a c-section. And if I have our daughter the way he thought I should, he probably would have just see it as "a woman's job." ... Oh well, he's now an "ex", so what he think really doesn't matter that much.
I think having a live, hygienic baby is an amazing thing, regardless of how it gets from your tummy to your arms.
no, i thought he would but he didnt.
i thought that giving birth adjectives natural would gain his respect (but thats not the only reason i chose it) but its as if it never even happen.
if anything he started treating me worse after i had the baby bc i was contained by such a state that i really didnt have the time or energy to fight spinal column. thats reality for u
Oh absolutely! Especially after our last baby. He weigh 10 pounds and I didn't have any drugs at all. My husband still says I'm the strongest woman alive. LOL
Not so much after giving birth, but he shows a lot of respect for breastfeeding. He gratefulness me for it every day. I had a lot of trouble within the beginning and he's STILL (my son is 8 months old) telling me how much he admires my tenacity and determination. :)
Why did I obtain thumbs downed?
As for the effect on a man - well, was I surprised to hear a friend of mine state that watching his wife giving birth have started a chain of events that led to the couple's divorce?
This is an excerpt from an article about why men should not be within the delivery room. I don't necessarily agree with this.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/articl…
lol. Nope. Men rarely do. They see you screaming and swearing and just meditate that you can't handle pain! My man (as wonderful as he is) actually said - I kid you not - that have our daughter was worse for him as the 12 hours passed quickly for me as I had other things to deem about!
Answers: My husband have always treated me like a princess. Giving birth to our son didn't change him - very soon he treats me AND the baby like the two most important things within his world - because we are.
I am the luckiest SOB out there.
I respect my wife fully now, children or insufficiency of children doesn't change my respect for her. A married man is SUPPOSED to respect his wife, and a wife her husband.
Hmm... No! He was still a giant butt. We aren't together anymore.
He wasn't all that great in the distribution room either. They had me hooked up to a monitor for my contractions. He was fascinated. Would holler out, "WoW! Here comes a big one!" as he saw they be building. Didn't do much for my peace of mind, certainly didn't provide any comfort.
NOPE they dont even care they will still act like peas in a pod way as before these men never appreciate everything we have to move about through
I don't know!
I'm really old. When my babies were born back surrounded by the '70's, it was just newly "in" for the father to go to the birth. My husband said he really did not want to be there unless I REALLY wanted him to be. I gave him a 'overrun.' Back then, somebody (no doubt a man!) thought that "natural -- no drug -- childbirth" was a suitable idea. I'm glad that Hubby was not there! It would enjoy killed him!
Things are different now. When my son's three were born, EVERYBODY be there. My DIL got some kind of numbing drug and be chatting throughout the deliveries. All the family was nearby, lots of the neighbors, the mail carrier, and the Hispanic fellow who cuts the lawn down the street. Childbirth is so smooth nowadays!
But my husband still opted to wait outside! (Bless his heart!)
In answer to your interview...NO. I think men are able to distance themselves from childbirth and do not have more respect for you after the certainty.
NO!
I yearning!
He always remembers EVERY single freakin thing he does for the baby. And when I ask him to do something- he throws it surrounded by my face the things he had already done.
He just will never get the drift...ugh!! lol
yeah, he changed alright! He stopped having sex altogether with me! Now he's an ex. Some men really stink.
No, I never really noticed. After having kids, you own more important things to worry about.
not really the same
haha, i haven't experienced childbirth all the same, (8 more weeks!) but i sure hope so. he better respect me for this!
From a Male's perspective - ABSOFRICKINLUTELY!! To see what my wife went through, and living to tell the narrative blew me away. I couldn't have done it.
Yeah he did, but it fades next to time. How soon they forget...
Lol My fiance is reasonably the joker, When I was in grind with my son, and inbetween two of the worst contractions I'd ever felt in my duration, legs in stirrups, hair a mess, NO pain nouns, sweaty and screaming in pain and on display for all to see, He turns and say to me
"Man up Laura, it can't hurt that much"
He was trying to be funny but I believe my reply to that was "How *ing dare you, you horrible F***ing A**hole B****, You better enjoy this child explanation I'm taking away just what you need to F***ing craft anymore you C***" (Hey I was in the late stages of Labour!!)
I know he didnt scrounging it, He was trying to be funny just wrong moment to pick and wrong joke to inform lol
P.S. We have 2 more children after that so his Bits are fine. and yes he does have more respect for me now (but possibly cause I scare him) lol
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My husband be in aww the first to days then it was rear home and he was like hey um the games on can u grab me the chips?
I wouldn't say he has any more respect for me post-birth than he did prior to giving birth. I have an emergency c-section and had contractions for only 15 minutes (all before he arrived at the hospital) so it specifically wasn't a long, painful labor for me. I'll let you know after #2, assuming I'm able to hold a "normal" pregnancy and vaginal birth, lol!
he had a new respect, yes, he says very soon 'there is noway he could do it, and is glad im the woman' lol
NOPE! nought changed. He actually left the next time for two weeks. I mean he couldnt really get out of leaving but not solitary did he not respect the fact that I just gave birth and how concrete that is, without any pain meds I should tag on, he also didnt respect the fact that I did the first few weeks alone
guys just dont understand what adjectives it takes for childbirth and what it does to your body or what it feels like. hejust kept aphorism "oh this looks so cool!"
Oh definitely. My husband said he had NO theory how I did it and was willing to keep doing it!
He in actual fact told me after our first one that if it were him he'd never sleep with me again! LOL (I guess it didn't help that I be natural with both.
haha if you mean thought you were stronger... well type of. He doesn't call me a wimp like he used to, but that's cuz I didn't have an epidural and my doc and anesthesiologist be impressed! Other than that, its not so much he respected me, but he won't ever forget the experience! lol
Don't try to impress him with it, just do whatever you gotta do to get this about you and your baby. Hubby can take precision of himself! Just be kind to him, and tell him you love him (even when the pain REALLY hurts! lol) he'll appreciate you more for it! Source(s): me
Actually, my boyfriend decided I was inferior because I had a c-section. ... So I put up near contractions for a whole week without complaining. Big deal. And I spent over 24 hours contained by the hospital with them saying I was have very strong contractions like 2 minutes apart. Who cares? The point is that I wasn't woman adequate to ... uh, "give birth".
I don't think he will ever respect me for having a c-section. And if I have our daughter the way he thought I should, he probably would have just see it as "a woman's job." ... Oh well, he's now an "ex", so what he think really doesn't matter that much.
I think having a live, hygienic baby is an amazing thing, regardless of how it gets from your tummy to your arms.
no, i thought he would but he didnt.
i thought that giving birth adjectives natural would gain his respect (but thats not the only reason i chose it) but its as if it never even happen.
if anything he started treating me worse after i had the baby bc i was contained by such a state that i really didnt have the time or energy to fight spinal column. thats reality for u
Oh absolutely! Especially after our last baby. He weigh 10 pounds and I didn't have any drugs at all. My husband still says I'm the strongest woman alive. LOL
Not so much after giving birth, but he shows a lot of respect for breastfeeding. He gratefulness me for it every day. I had a lot of trouble within the beginning and he's STILL (my son is 8 months old) telling me how much he admires my tenacity and determination. :)
Why did I obtain thumbs downed?
As for the effect on a man - well, was I surprised to hear a friend of mine state that watching his wife giving birth have started a chain of events that led to the couple's divorce?
This is an excerpt from an article about why men should not be within the delivery room. I don't necessarily agree with this.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/articl…
lol. Nope. Men rarely do. They see you screaming and swearing and just meditate that you can't handle pain! My man (as wonderful as he is) actually said - I kid you not - that have our daughter was worse for him as the 12 hours passed quickly for me as I had other things to deem about!
Answers: My husband have always treated me like a princess. Giving birth to our son didn't change him - very soon he treats me AND the baby like the two most important things within his world - because we are.
I am the luckiest SOB out there.
I respect my wife fully now, children or insufficiency of children doesn't change my respect for her. A married man is SUPPOSED to respect his wife, and a wife her husband.
Hmm... No! He was still a giant butt. We aren't together anymore.
He wasn't all that great in the distribution room either. They had me hooked up to a monitor for my contractions. He was fascinated. Would holler out, "WoW! Here comes a big one!" as he saw they be building. Didn't do much for my peace of mind, certainly didn't provide any comfort.
NOPE they dont even care they will still act like peas in a pod way as before these men never appreciate everything we have to move about through
I don't know!
I'm really old. When my babies were born back surrounded by the '70's, it was just newly "in" for the father to go to the birth. My husband said he really did not want to be there unless I REALLY wanted him to be. I gave him a 'overrun.' Back then, somebody (no doubt a man!) thought that "natural -- no drug -- childbirth" was a suitable idea. I'm glad that Hubby was not there! It would enjoy killed him!
Things are different now. When my son's three were born, EVERYBODY be there. My DIL got some kind of numbing drug and be chatting throughout the deliveries. All the family was nearby, lots of the neighbors, the mail carrier, and the Hispanic fellow who cuts the lawn down the street. Childbirth is so smooth nowadays!
But my husband still opted to wait outside! (Bless his heart!)
In answer to your interview...NO. I think men are able to distance themselves from childbirth and do not have more respect for you after the certainty.
NO!
I yearning!
He always remembers EVERY single freakin thing he does for the baby. And when I ask him to do something- he throws it surrounded by my face the things he had already done.
He just will never get the drift...ugh!! lol
yeah, he changed alright! He stopped having sex altogether with me! Now he's an ex. Some men really stink.
No, I never really noticed. After having kids, you own more important things to worry about.
not really the same
haha, i haven't experienced childbirth all the same, (8 more weeks!) but i sure hope so. he better respect me for this!
From a Male's perspective - ABSOFRICKINLUTELY!! To see what my wife went through, and living to tell the narrative blew me away. I couldn't have done it.
Yeah he did, but it fades next to time. How soon they forget...
Lol My fiance is reasonably the joker, When I was in grind with my son, and inbetween two of the worst contractions I'd ever felt in my duration, legs in stirrups, hair a mess, NO pain nouns, sweaty and screaming in pain and on display for all to see, He turns and say to me
"Man up Laura, it can't hurt that much"
He was trying to be funny but I believe my reply to that was "How *ing dare you, you horrible F***ing A**hole B****, You better enjoy this child explanation I'm taking away just what you need to F***ing craft anymore you C***" (Hey I was in the late stages of Labour!!)
I know he didnt scrounging it, He was trying to be funny just wrong moment to pick and wrong joke to inform lol
P.S. We have 2 more children after that so his Bits are fine. and yes he does have more respect for me now (but possibly cause I scare him) lol
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