Parents hold you ever regretted disappearing your child next to a kid sitter?
So tonight i went out with my boyfriend and left my son next to a baby sitter which i regret whole heartily. But anyways this lady be recommended to me by several people that i know. And well right when i walked contained by the door my son comes crying and screaming to me that he was spanked by this lady. That got me more fired up later i have ever been in my duration i do not even spank my son. Who the hell dose this lady think she is touching my son for one and then spanking him. After i get done dealing with this lady my son was a total mess and be just sobbing so my boyfriend got him distracted with his X-Box 360. Is what she did to my son illagal? What can i do in the order of this? Thank you everyone.
Um, yes I have. My SIL came up for a few weeks this summer for another relative's marriage ceremony. She brought with her a girl from her church youth group to babysit during the festivities. I met the girl, who was not into drugs or drinking, be great with kids, and had good reference. She watched my son (age 4) for a little over an hour, and I felt past the worst leaving him.
I came across the girl's Facebook page recently, and I found out she's on probation for resisting arrest - among other things. I regard she's the first and last non - family member who is ever going to examine my son.
Don't beat yourself up over what happened tonight. You had no opening of knowing this would happen. But boy, would I be mad! I think it might count as individual illegal. Better yet, I'd go to the womanly dog's house and give her a good slap. If she threatens to press charges, threaten her back by maxim that you'll bring child abuse charges against her. Good luck.
No I have not. I am blessed to have family contained by the area and so far in all the years that I enjoy been a mother I have never had to enjoy someone babysit my children who is not a relative.
Maybe next time your ex-husband can watch him, or you can get a babysitter quotation from someone you know better than the lady who recomended her.
Answers: WOW. I am not a mom yet but i think that is mobile.
I hold never left my children with anyone besides family.. I have a couple of bad experiences with babysitters as a child that I won't talk going on for. You just can't trust people with your kids. Yes what she did be illegal. Maybe call the police and see what they say? I'm not sure.
I do spank my children. But if someone else did, I would have their a**! I don't think you could press charges though, unless she departed a mark,,,then call the cops.
and yes, I hold regretted leaving my kids somewhere. I had a babysitter recommended also. When I picked my kids up, I found out that she just shut the kids contained by a 'kids room' alone and watched them through a sliding glass door. My kids were anxious of this woman. I never found out why, they were too little to tell me.
Since that, i have never gone my kids with anyone except family.
When you depart from your child with a sitter, the sitter is in charge of your kid. If you don't want the sitter to do something, leave them directions. Spanking is still a lawful way to keep a child in directive if the child is misbehaving. I'm talking about spanking, not beating. If you don't want a sitter to spank your child, detail them so. Don't just assume they won't do it because many people still do. As far as I know, it's not crooked for the sitter to spank, so long as she didn't use excessive force. And you really can't prove if she did unless there are marks. Unfortunately, since you don't spank your child, he's going to think any humane of spanking is excessive force so you can't really trust what he says on how hard she spanked him. You might also want to confront him on why he was spanked. There must've be a reason for it or she wouldn't have done it and yelling at her for punishing him for impossible behavior is only going to tell him that he can get away beside it with other sitters.
Well, I would be very angry myself. But, this lady conspicuously has a different way of discipline, and I do not think further punishments are vital for this lady. If you fired her, and told your friends that they shouldn't let her babysit for them, it's over with.
yes i have regerted disappearing my son with someone. I was a the New Gym in town for the frist time and i not here him in the daycare in the Gym. i went and worked out. after an hour i go to check on him and he was fine, i went back to my workout. 30 mins following the girl from the day care finds me and is like he wont stop crying, weve done everything. so i go with her to check on him. he saw me and opened his mouth and screamed. i saw something contained by his mouth and i pulled it out... it was a bandaid. one of the little girls had pulled it off her finger. (no blood, no puss, no tablets, she just wanted one.) so yeah! i was similar to he is screaming with his mouth wide open. how could you not see it. he couldn't draw from it back out. and it made him mad.
as for the lady, call upon a lawyer and see what can be done, for file a police report. seriously. thats almost as bad as the 60 yr frail nanny caught on tape beating an infant. she is in sentence to prison now.
Where does this hoe live? She's getting a smash down.
Seriously though, if someone EVER laid a hand on my child I would go ape sh!t. They had better hope the police arrest them 'impose I'm getting justice either way.
How old is your son and what is the sitter's side to this story. How did you know the lady? I wouldn't tolerate someone who wasn't recommended from friends in the house.
You should have been incredibly clear in your house rules before you left.
I would bet that your son seldom if ever get left at home when you go out. That would make me foolish too. I might blame the sitter at first. 'IF she wasn't here I could have gone with Mom. I hate her.'
He is probably really angry next to you. And was scared you had forsaken him with some stranger. Take him EVERYWHERE with you from now on or stay at home. Public Bathroom, included. He should never ever be separated from you again.
I wouldn't even ask relatives to watch him. Too much responsibility.
Yoihoh>>>no adult has the right to touch hug or hit any minor>>>
Which is a significant part of the problem with uncontrollable children now. IF you do not want other people interacting with your child _Stay home_ . Do not bring your child out in public unless he or she can behave contained by a manner that does not disturb people. Sorry, they are Your kids. Mine are raised.
We would welcome that.
Guess I hit a nerve or two huh? Stay home with your child. You will be happier and the child will have you right where on earth you need to be.
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Um, yes I have. My SIL came up for a few weeks this summer for another relative's marriage ceremony. She brought with her a girl from her church youth group to babysit during the festivities. I met the girl, who was not into drugs or drinking, be great with kids, and had good reference. She watched my son (age 4) for a little over an hour, and I felt past the worst leaving him.
I came across the girl's Facebook page recently, and I found out she's on probation for resisting arrest - among other things. I regard she's the first and last non - family member who is ever going to examine my son.
Don't beat yourself up over what happened tonight. You had no opening of knowing this would happen. But boy, would I be mad! I think it might count as individual illegal. Better yet, I'd go to the womanly dog's house and give her a good slap. If she threatens to press charges, threaten her back by maxim that you'll bring child abuse charges against her. Good luck.
No I have not. I am blessed to have family contained by the area and so far in all the years that I enjoy been a mother I have never had to enjoy someone babysit my children who is not a relative.
Maybe next time your ex-husband can watch him, or you can get a babysitter quotation from someone you know better than the lady who recomended her.
Answers: WOW. I am not a mom yet but i think that is mobile.
I hold never left my children with anyone besides family.. I have a couple of bad experiences with babysitters as a child that I won't talk going on for. You just can't trust people with your kids. Yes what she did be illegal. Maybe call the police and see what they say? I'm not sure.
I do spank my children. But if someone else did, I would have their a**! I don't think you could press charges though, unless she departed a mark,,,then call the cops.
and yes, I hold regretted leaving my kids somewhere. I had a babysitter recommended also. When I picked my kids up, I found out that she just shut the kids contained by a 'kids room' alone and watched them through a sliding glass door. My kids were anxious of this woman. I never found out why, they were too little to tell me.
Since that, i have never gone my kids with anyone except family.
When you depart from your child with a sitter, the sitter is in charge of your kid. If you don't want the sitter to do something, leave them directions. Spanking is still a lawful way to keep a child in directive if the child is misbehaving. I'm talking about spanking, not beating. If you don't want a sitter to spank your child, detail them so. Don't just assume they won't do it because many people still do. As far as I know, it's not crooked for the sitter to spank, so long as she didn't use excessive force. And you really can't prove if she did unless there are marks. Unfortunately, since you don't spank your child, he's going to think any humane of spanking is excessive force so you can't really trust what he says on how hard she spanked him. You might also want to confront him on why he was spanked. There must've be a reason for it or she wouldn't have done it and yelling at her for punishing him for impossible behavior is only going to tell him that he can get away beside it with other sitters.
Well, I would be very angry myself. But, this lady conspicuously has a different way of discipline, and I do not think further punishments are vital for this lady. If you fired her, and told your friends that they shouldn't let her babysit for them, it's over with.
yes i have regerted disappearing my son with someone. I was a the New Gym in town for the frist time and i not here him in the daycare in the Gym. i went and worked out. after an hour i go to check on him and he was fine, i went back to my workout. 30 mins following the girl from the day care finds me and is like he wont stop crying, weve done everything. so i go with her to check on him. he saw me and opened his mouth and screamed. i saw something contained by his mouth and i pulled it out... it was a bandaid. one of the little girls had pulled it off her finger. (no blood, no puss, no tablets, she just wanted one.) so yeah! i was similar to he is screaming with his mouth wide open. how could you not see it. he couldn't draw from it back out. and it made him mad.
as for the lady, call upon a lawyer and see what can be done, for file a police report. seriously. thats almost as bad as the 60 yr frail nanny caught on tape beating an infant. she is in sentence to prison now.
Where does this hoe live? She's getting a smash down.
Seriously though, if someone EVER laid a hand on my child I would go ape sh!t. They had better hope the police arrest them 'impose I'm getting justice either way.
How old is your son and what is the sitter's side to this story. How did you know the lady? I wouldn't tolerate someone who wasn't recommended from friends in the house.
You should have been incredibly clear in your house rules before you left.
I would bet that your son seldom if ever get left at home when you go out. That would make me foolish too. I might blame the sitter at first. 'IF she wasn't here I could have gone with Mom. I hate her.'
He is probably really angry next to you. And was scared you had forsaken him with some stranger. Take him EVERYWHERE with you from now on or stay at home. Public Bathroom, included. He should never ever be separated from you again.
I wouldn't even ask relatives to watch him. Too much responsibility.
Yoihoh>>>no adult has the right to touch hug or hit any minor>>>
Which is a significant part of the problem with uncontrollable children now. IF you do not want other people interacting with your child _Stay home_ . Do not bring your child out in public unless he or she can behave contained by a manner that does not disturb people. Sorry, they are Your kids. Mine are raised.
We would welcome that.
Guess I hit a nerve or two huh? Stay home with your child. You will be happier and the child will have you right where on earth you need to be.
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