HElp With THIS Horrible situation?
I've just found out my sons dating a girl. And I'm pissed.
A year and a half ago I took legal guardianship of Molly's kids. Sorry Molly is my behind time best friend I took in her two daughters after she died in an accident because she didn't enjoy any other family and I'm was in the will to hold them. And I and my family have always be in their lives.
So my husband I took in her two daughters who are 16 and 13 years old within to our family of three. Two boys that are 16 and 14 and a 11 year old daughter.
And when took them in know that my oldest(Johnny) had a crush on(Billie) the 16 year old girl. I knew it and told adjectives of them that they should treat each other as brother and sister. And they all agreed to it.
And now almost a year and partly later sure enough they lied to me and my husband. I came home impulsive from work and I caught them with their tongues down each other throats. I shocked at first then I become mad and yelled at them.
I asked what was going on. And I made them come verbs about their relationship. They told me they been together for about 6 months. Which process they probably been going together for about 8 months
Then they tell me how they're contained by love and that they just want to be together and how they make each other cheerful.
I'm mad because I've let them go into respectively others rooms and close doors while they're "talking". They go to get the grocery together. They fall asleep on the couch and its innocent. It not innocent at adjectives they've been lying to me and my husband I'm mad. I'm also mad that the other kids didn't speak anything I know they all had to know.
I ask them to break up and they ran away. And I know its not right to mess next to kids relationships I was a kid once but dating and lying in my own house. I'm shocked.
I just don't know why they would falsehood to us. And I have know Idea what to do. I mean I can't let them travel to each other rooms anymore or I can't leave them alone any more. My husband and I are pretty much clueless about what to do. I penny-pinching I don't even want her to wear her short cloth shorts that she wears as pajamas.
Billie told me she gave my son a hj because she wanted to be honest and responsible and she said that they weren't going to anything stupid. But how can I trust they're " contained by love" and 16 year olds do stupid things. What happens when we got sleep they could easily turn in each other rooms and do things.
They have sports coming up which will maintain them away from each other for at least some time. I mean they see respectively other everyday.
Based on what you read please help me. What should I do? And did I cause this? What do we do?
Its not that horrible. Teens are teens and they have hormones. They say they havent done anything so y not believe them. Not all 16 y/o do stupid things. And probability are if they are goig to do somethig "stupid" they have already done it. Leave it alone and let it be. They could really be in love. I enjoy been with my husband since i was 17 classified ad he 15. Its not as bad I u think. BTW I am 28, not a teen.
Sounds like the Brady Bunch.
What are you pissed roughly speaking? They are not really brother and sister and they were already sort of dating before they moved in. What can you do?
this is horrible and i feel bad for you and ur kids i mean they like eachother and then they had to be around each other 24 7 that suckss but i guess you enjoy to sit them down and talk that this is not allowed and even though it may suck every one will have to live near it
just set some rules and stick to them. if you think they are going to sneak surrounded by the rooms at night, hang a bell on it, set up a window alarm to it, doesn`t matter what you have to do to not have a pregnant 16 year old on your hand.
Answers: wow
thats pretty ** up
I thought you said they ran away? Did they just pop back on their own? What happen with that? You do remember that they are not brother or sister don't you? They aren't related period. At this point you need to cart them both into counseling. Does your son have a relation he can go stay with. Don't be surprised if they elope some time and you never see either one of them again.
My motto - No good deed go unpunished!
1. Okay a moment ago out of curiousity how much do you monitor your son when he's not at home? I see you feel as if you left your gaurd down when he was at home, but you should own had some tiny inkling of a clue to it because like you said, you knew your son resembling the girl & then you see all these signs. My point is, if they were going to do stuff they will find the opportunity. Do you spy on him when he have other dates, or chaperone? Or is he not aloud to date cuz chances are, he has. The best that you can do is tilt him knowing right from wrong & trust that he will make the right judgement. He will make mistakes!You really cant live his life for him. Yes they own lots of opportunities millions of billions of them but whats the difference between so many, and just one? Garanteed if this be not handed to him he would of atleast had ONE opportunity in his lifetime.
2. I met my boyfriend at 14, almost instantly know we loved each other, lost my virginity by 16, pregnant by 17, lived together with our baby by 18, we use to own to sneak around because our relationship was not to others standards. I am not blaming my parents for this but if they would of not ignored what was right contained by front of their face and been willing to have a word to me about my choices instead of forcing their own on me, things would of been different. not might of, would of. Still, they raised me i construe im pretty decent and i made my own choices ultimantly. And its been worth it 100% i dont regret a thing surrounded by my life, and i am still very much in love next to my man infact more in love every day we are engaged and our daughter is an extremely beaming, beautiful and spoiled little girl. so its not all sob stories even though some people would reckon it is, if they truley are in love they will find a way be together and they will make respectively other happy. Your opinion wont change it. You dont trouble if they ache to just hold each other sometimes. You will trademark your son hate you over this.
Wow It A intresting Situation This Looks Like something some one can make a Movie in the order of It. I think at least Maybe jst let them be together and I chew over Maybe if you dont want them in a roorm By them self either take here doornob or doors Away
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A year and a half ago I took legal guardianship of Molly's kids. Sorry Molly is my behind time best friend I took in her two daughters after she died in an accident because she didn't enjoy any other family and I'm was in the will to hold them. And I and my family have always be in their lives.
So my husband I took in her two daughters who are 16 and 13 years old within to our family of three. Two boys that are 16 and 14 and a 11 year old daughter.
And when took them in know that my oldest(Johnny) had a crush on(Billie) the 16 year old girl. I knew it and told adjectives of them that they should treat each other as brother and sister. And they all agreed to it.
And now almost a year and partly later sure enough they lied to me and my husband. I came home impulsive from work and I caught them with their tongues down each other throats. I shocked at first then I become mad and yelled at them.
I asked what was going on. And I made them come verbs about their relationship. They told me they been together for about 6 months. Which process they probably been going together for about 8 months
Then they tell me how they're contained by love and that they just want to be together and how they make each other cheerful.
I'm mad because I've let them go into respectively others rooms and close doors while they're "talking". They go to get the grocery together. They fall asleep on the couch and its innocent. It not innocent at adjectives they've been lying to me and my husband I'm mad. I'm also mad that the other kids didn't speak anything I know they all had to know.
I ask them to break up and they ran away. And I know its not right to mess next to kids relationships I was a kid once but dating and lying in my own house. I'm shocked.
I just don't know why they would falsehood to us. And I have know Idea what to do. I mean I can't let them travel to each other rooms anymore or I can't leave them alone any more. My husband and I are pretty much clueless about what to do. I penny-pinching I don't even want her to wear her short cloth shorts that she wears as pajamas.
Billie told me she gave my son a hj because she wanted to be honest and responsible and she said that they weren't going to anything stupid. But how can I trust they're " contained by love" and 16 year olds do stupid things. What happens when we got sleep they could easily turn in each other rooms and do things.
They have sports coming up which will maintain them away from each other for at least some time. I mean they see respectively other everyday.
Based on what you read please help me. What should I do? And did I cause this? What do we do?
Its not that horrible. Teens are teens and they have hormones. They say they havent done anything so y not believe them. Not all 16 y/o do stupid things. And probability are if they are goig to do somethig "stupid" they have already done it. Leave it alone and let it be. They could really be in love. I enjoy been with my husband since i was 17 classified ad he 15. Its not as bad I u think. BTW I am 28, not a teen.
Sounds like the Brady Bunch.
What are you pissed roughly speaking? They are not really brother and sister and they were already sort of dating before they moved in. What can you do?
this is horrible and i feel bad for you and ur kids i mean they like eachother and then they had to be around each other 24 7 that suckss but i guess you enjoy to sit them down and talk that this is not allowed and even though it may suck every one will have to live near it
just set some rules and stick to them. if you think they are going to sneak surrounded by the rooms at night, hang a bell on it, set up a window alarm to it, doesn`t matter what you have to do to not have a pregnant 16 year old on your hand.
Answers: wow
thats pretty ** up
I thought you said they ran away? Did they just pop back on their own? What happen with that? You do remember that they are not brother or sister don't you? They aren't related period. At this point you need to cart them both into counseling. Does your son have a relation he can go stay with. Don't be surprised if they elope some time and you never see either one of them again.
My motto - No good deed go unpunished!
1. Okay a moment ago out of curiousity how much do you monitor your son when he's not at home? I see you feel as if you left your gaurd down when he was at home, but you should own had some tiny inkling of a clue to it because like you said, you knew your son resembling the girl & then you see all these signs. My point is, if they were going to do stuff they will find the opportunity. Do you spy on him when he have other dates, or chaperone? Or is he not aloud to date cuz chances are, he has. The best that you can do is tilt him knowing right from wrong & trust that he will make the right judgement. He will make mistakes!You really cant live his life for him. Yes they own lots of opportunities millions of billions of them but whats the difference between so many, and just one? Garanteed if this be not handed to him he would of atleast had ONE opportunity in his lifetime.
2. I met my boyfriend at 14, almost instantly know we loved each other, lost my virginity by 16, pregnant by 17, lived together with our baby by 18, we use to own to sneak around because our relationship was not to others standards. I am not blaming my parents for this but if they would of not ignored what was right contained by front of their face and been willing to have a word to me about my choices instead of forcing their own on me, things would of been different. not might of, would of. Still, they raised me i construe im pretty decent and i made my own choices ultimantly. And its been worth it 100% i dont regret a thing surrounded by my life, and i am still very much in love next to my man infact more in love every day we are engaged and our daughter is an extremely beaming, beautiful and spoiled little girl. so its not all sob stories even though some people would reckon it is, if they truley are in love they will find a way be together and they will make respectively other happy. Your opinion wont change it. You dont trouble if they ache to just hold each other sometimes. You will trademark your son hate you over this.
Wow It A intresting Situation This Looks Like something some one can make a Movie in the order of It. I think at least Maybe jst let them be together and I chew over Maybe if you dont want them in a roorm By them self either take here doornob or doors Away
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