Child Visitation~~Help me?!?
For those of you who have read and answered my questions you know I have be to hell and back with my child's father, and neither I or my son can't take it anymore!
Today is friday, the weekend my son go to his fathers for visitation. He is to be picked up at 5:30 and I am to pick him up at 9 sunday night. Monday he is going on a TWO week vacation, and i.e. to begin at 2 o'clock monday afternoon. Today I recive a call from him and he tells me "I will enjoy my son ready at 5 and I will drop my son off at his grandma's" the court order states that the father is to pick up the child, so I told him I would not drop him past its sell-by date that he will come and pick him up. Tons of things were said in our phone conversation leading me to belive that he be not going to be home when it was time for me to go and pick my son up from his home, so I went to the police station and made a report but they told me they could not do anything untill sunday when my son be not at his fathers house. His dad did not come to pick him up untill 10:00 tonight, and after my son had went to his saloon, he called me and said "you do realize we are going to be gone for 2 weeks, and I need more clothes" My son has cried adjectives day, he has begged and pleaded not to budge on vacation to washington (we live in Minnesota) with his dad. I told him he would be home sunday dark to monday afternoon to spend time with me and his siblings and so we could prepare him for being gone for 2 weeks. Well vacation times needed to be put contained by may 1st and I find out that my son is leaving the state for two weeks at 10:00pm july 17. Im sorry I probably said things more that once, I am so stressed and worried! Please answer some of the questions I have!!
*My son is 9 years outdated
1.) If I go to pick up my son and he is not there and I go to the police station, what will crop up? Will they go get him and bring him home?
2.) Will the police tell me in that is nothing I can do. and I have to wait untill my son comes home?
3.) Can I ask for the police to move about and pick up my son from an out of state location?
Please help me!! I need to put my mind at ease and I inevitability know what I can do to ensure my son will return home. He was looking forward to comming home on sunday, and now his father tells me he is not going to bring him home, Please assist me?
I don't know what to give an account you, except that no the police won't go pick your son up and bring him home.
If your husband is going against court orders, i suppose you can file a complaint against him for taking the child out of town and going against child visitation information... then when he returns he might be found in contempt of court. You need to verbalize with your attorney for better information on this.
What i don't understand is why the child doesn't want to visit his dad and why they can't purloin a vacation together. Your ex isn't kidnapping the kid forever -- i'm sure that was newly a threat.
You know there's no use arguing and fighting over the child. He is BOTH of yours, not just yours or just your ex's... so compromise and work like a lady no matter how much you can't stand the ex.
I be divorced years ago. My son was only about 3 years behind the times at the time. Sometimes my husband would pick him up or bring him home either earlier or later than he be scheduled to, but he let me know so it wasn't a big deal. they'd call in each other whenever they could. I was lenient near visitation because this was my child's father. Just because i didn't like him, didn't mean my son disliked him.
I didn't right to be heard negative things about his father to our son, either -- even though the ex be very bitter and hateful toward me. I found that the best solution for that sort of thing is to smile and turn on with life... it confuses them.
that's a tough one and i don't know the whole answer but i do know that in my state if one parent has the child and won't confer him back it's not called kidnapping bc that's the other parent...it's if truth be told called parenting. I don't know if there are consequences for this behavior, but i suggest you find out what the rules are in your state.
Call an attorney. Good Luck! Listen I say this for your protection in keeping your son in this difficult time but a domestic law attorney is better suited for this question. Any hasty decision could alter your visitation rights if he get ugly about not being competent to take his son a vacation and Why does your son not want to go near his Dad anyways? not like a 9 yr old not to look up to Dad at this age. try putting this question contained by the law section too.
I think that what your curious here is putting WAY too much stress on yourself. I understand that you have times and places for pick up and drop off and they should be adhere as much as possible. Being that your son is 9, he understands everything that is going on. I feel by what your axiom here that you and your ex don't like each other much and you don't trust him. If he has be a decent father and a horrible other half, let that jump. It will do you no good to stress about it because you personally don't approaching him. The whole story above is a little confusing, from what I understand he be supposed to come home 9pm or am it didn't say on Sunday and leave again on Monday at 2. I understand your disappointment that he isn't returning home but it wasn't even for a integral day. I have a lot of trouble beside my ex and him taking my daughter but you have to be a little flexible because some day you might stipulation that flexibility yourself. Also if you let your child go on vacation beside his dad, the police will not be able to do anything at least until the child was due final home from vacation.
I know it is hard when you don't get along to be an propose for the other side but blowing things out of proportion will make your son feel the same state of mind you have towards his dad, and that is not fair to him.
Calling the police when your positive he will be returned and your lately disagreeing on the time to be returned, is wasting police resources and taking someone off the street that might be needed in a real kidnap situation. I don't mean to treat this lightly, I just discern like you may be letting your emotions and fears of your child going away for 2 weeks cause you to spawn this a bigger issue than it really is. Good luck, I hope your son has a wonderful time and I hope you and his father can work out the pick up and drop off without you getting more upset around it. Don't sweat the small stuff, he will be home soon enough (and eating you out of house and home if he is like my son be at 9!)
Answers: if your sons father is to have him for the weekend and you don't get him back the hours of daylight he is supposed to be home i know where i am from the police consider it kidnapping no matter ego he has visitation or not i'm going through something similar with my 1 year old when it comes to his dad too it.. the police within should consider it kidnapping you are the custodial parent and what your custody order says go no matter what the circumstances.. on sunday go to the police station and take your custody demand with you and show them what the visitation schedule says hope this help
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Today is friday, the weekend my son go to his fathers for visitation. He is to be picked up at 5:30 and I am to pick him up at 9 sunday night. Monday he is going on a TWO week vacation, and i.e. to begin at 2 o'clock monday afternoon. Today I recive a call from him and he tells me "I will enjoy my son ready at 5 and I will drop my son off at his grandma's" the court order states that the father is to pick up the child, so I told him I would not drop him past its sell-by date that he will come and pick him up. Tons of things were said in our phone conversation leading me to belive that he be not going to be home when it was time for me to go and pick my son up from his home, so I went to the police station and made a report but they told me they could not do anything untill sunday when my son be not at his fathers house. His dad did not come to pick him up untill 10:00 tonight, and after my son had went to his saloon, he called me and said "you do realize we are going to be gone for 2 weeks, and I need more clothes" My son has cried adjectives day, he has begged and pleaded not to budge on vacation to washington (we live in Minnesota) with his dad. I told him he would be home sunday dark to monday afternoon to spend time with me and his siblings and so we could prepare him for being gone for 2 weeks. Well vacation times needed to be put contained by may 1st and I find out that my son is leaving the state for two weeks at 10:00pm july 17. Im sorry I probably said things more that once, I am so stressed and worried! Please answer some of the questions I have!!
*My son is 9 years outdated
1.) If I go to pick up my son and he is not there and I go to the police station, what will crop up? Will they go get him and bring him home?
2.) Will the police tell me in that is nothing I can do. and I have to wait untill my son comes home?
3.) Can I ask for the police to move about and pick up my son from an out of state location?
Please help me!! I need to put my mind at ease and I inevitability know what I can do to ensure my son will return home. He was looking forward to comming home on sunday, and now his father tells me he is not going to bring him home, Please assist me?
I don't know what to give an account you, except that no the police won't go pick your son up and bring him home.
If your husband is going against court orders, i suppose you can file a complaint against him for taking the child out of town and going against child visitation information... then when he returns he might be found in contempt of court. You need to verbalize with your attorney for better information on this.
What i don't understand is why the child doesn't want to visit his dad and why they can't purloin a vacation together. Your ex isn't kidnapping the kid forever -- i'm sure that was newly a threat.
You know there's no use arguing and fighting over the child. He is BOTH of yours, not just yours or just your ex's... so compromise and work like a lady no matter how much you can't stand the ex.
I be divorced years ago. My son was only about 3 years behind the times at the time. Sometimes my husband would pick him up or bring him home either earlier or later than he be scheduled to, but he let me know so it wasn't a big deal. they'd call in each other whenever they could. I was lenient near visitation because this was my child's father. Just because i didn't like him, didn't mean my son disliked him.
I didn't right to be heard negative things about his father to our son, either -- even though the ex be very bitter and hateful toward me. I found that the best solution for that sort of thing is to smile and turn on with life... it confuses them.
that's a tough one and i don't know the whole answer but i do know that in my state if one parent has the child and won't confer him back it's not called kidnapping bc that's the other parent...it's if truth be told called parenting. I don't know if there are consequences for this behavior, but i suggest you find out what the rules are in your state.
Call an attorney. Good Luck! Listen I say this for your protection in keeping your son in this difficult time but a domestic law attorney is better suited for this question. Any hasty decision could alter your visitation rights if he get ugly about not being competent to take his son a vacation and Why does your son not want to go near his Dad anyways? not like a 9 yr old not to look up to Dad at this age. try putting this question contained by the law section too.
I think that what your curious here is putting WAY too much stress on yourself. I understand that you have times and places for pick up and drop off and they should be adhere as much as possible. Being that your son is 9, he understands everything that is going on. I feel by what your axiom here that you and your ex don't like each other much and you don't trust him. If he has be a decent father and a horrible other half, let that jump. It will do you no good to stress about it because you personally don't approaching him. The whole story above is a little confusing, from what I understand he be supposed to come home 9pm or am it didn't say on Sunday and leave again on Monday at 2. I understand your disappointment that he isn't returning home but it wasn't even for a integral day. I have a lot of trouble beside my ex and him taking my daughter but you have to be a little flexible because some day you might stipulation that flexibility yourself. Also if you let your child go on vacation beside his dad, the police will not be able to do anything at least until the child was due final home from vacation.
I know it is hard when you don't get along to be an propose for the other side but blowing things out of proportion will make your son feel the same state of mind you have towards his dad, and that is not fair to him.
Calling the police when your positive he will be returned and your lately disagreeing on the time to be returned, is wasting police resources and taking someone off the street that might be needed in a real kidnap situation. I don't mean to treat this lightly, I just discern like you may be letting your emotions and fears of your child going away for 2 weeks cause you to spawn this a bigger issue than it really is. Good luck, I hope your son has a wonderful time and I hope you and his father can work out the pick up and drop off without you getting more upset around it. Don't sweat the small stuff, he will be home soon enough (and eating you out of house and home if he is like my son be at 9!)
Answers: if your sons father is to have him for the weekend and you don't get him back the hours of daylight he is supposed to be home i know where i am from the police consider it kidnapping no matter ego he has visitation or not i'm going through something similar with my 1 year old when it comes to his dad too it.. the police within should consider it kidnapping you are the custodial parent and what your custody order says go no matter what the circumstances.. on sunday go to the police station and take your custody demand with you and show them what the visitation schedule says hope this help
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