Why dont i similar to children?
I was the same way. I despicable children. Until I had my own. Now I love mine but could still give or take others.
"do be like"? haha i only just had to laugh at that but anyways my cousin is the same course but he does love his nieces which are my kids..idk some people are just like that
EDIT also i dont really close to kids that much either but i have 2 going on 3 and i like my kids and love them to extermination and would harm someone who messes with them so yea sometimes its different when you have your own
No, you will probably never like children. I don't any. I am 46 years old and have one child. I love him to pieces but I cannot stand other kids. Especially little ones make me unsettled with their runny noses and loud screeching voice! And the older they get the more annoying they get. There is nil wrong with not liking kids - there would be something wrong near you (or me) if we would hurt a kid. But staying away from them is not a problem. It takes all kinds of race!
Maybe you will. If you actually find a child that's different from the other children you've seen you might transfer your perspective of them.
You probably only want everything to be about you. Children want everything to be about them. That sounds like a desperate combo to me. You might start liking kids a bit more when you get older and more grown. Just make sure you are on birth control AND using condoms.
eh its ok only just dont have a kid then
Some people are lately like that, and don't get along with children. I hold friends who see eye to eye with you. They think kids just cry to attain what they want. And in all reality, they do. They're manipulative, boisterous, selfish, and love only conditionally. But that love that they give is the sweetest little entry. They don't judge people like grown-ups do, and they're amused by the simplest of things. That intrigues me.
I do manifestly think you have NO CHOICE but to fall within love with your own child. My neighbor didn't want any children because he didn't know how to react to them. He didn't think they be cute, he just found them as little handfuls. He was absolutely furious when he found out that his wife be pregnant, but he loves his 2 daughters to death now.
So, don't think you're chance. You're normal. Some people are just approaching that. I find children adorable, but the conditional loving gets to me a bit. Sure they love you.but only if you give them what they want. And when they don't win it, they're nobody's friend. But boy can they make you proud. :)
If it's any consolation I don't like children much either, or people for that thing. Lol.
However, my husband is the eldest of eight and the youngest will be five in September, I have known her since she be 8 months old and my heart melts whenever I see her.
But whenever I think if have my own baby I swell with joy (figuratively speaking) at the notion of being a mum and having that baby to spend the rest of my vivacity making happy and loving.
Weird I think.
Some people change,others don't but children are not compulsory and if you never want them there is nil wrong with that,as long as you aren't cruel to other people's kids i don't see the problem.
I have 6 and love it but i respect that it would be another person's worst nightmare,just see how you quality later in life.
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