Mummys would you do alike surrounded by my situation or be i wrong?
my 12 week old son had his second set of jags today and was really unsettled after them as he be already unsettled before them. I don't have a car so I own to rely on public transport. My son would not stop crying and I had tried feeding him seeing if he needed changed if he was to hot/cold but zilch I was doing would calm him down. even hugging him wasn't working. This one woman who was contained by her late 30's came up to me on the bus and said if you cant keep that brat silence could you get of at the next stop as I have a headache so I merely replied by saying im trying my best. Her response was well try harder that's when I lost it i have tried to be polite but her rudeness got to me so I just said why don't you get sour at the next stop and If you had a headache why travel on public transport where in that is bound to be noise and Im not putting my life on hold for an arrogant person ( wasn't as other put) like you. was I wrong. I felt extremely bad afterwards but she had crossed the line.
no i totally would have done the same. population see an upset baby and should understand that somethings wrong and be understanding not be a complete moron. so yes i believe that what you did be right in your situation
she definitely crossed the string - stupid b! You held it together and was quite nice about it i judge! Let someone call my baby a brat while im already quite flustered (as im sure you be!) don't worry about people close to that. you just do the best you can for your baby. if you take this public transport you are bound to own more days with a crying baby on there...
she should not be so rude. i would have done the same
Good for you! Wish I know which bus it was and I would have gladly made the trip to bug her even more!
Ignorant git!
Anyway, crying after jags is a apt sign as I would rather have that than a quiet little one not knowing if he was ok or not!
xx
that woman was rude i would unequivocally have done the same.
To be honest with you, I'd have said greatly worse; I'd have given her so much grief, honestly.
But you were NOT at all wrong, you be RIGHT! :D
Don't feel bad, she sounds like a complete arrogant bastard.
No approach.you had every right to get angry.
If anyone spoke to me like that after i would also lose my rag and say alot worse to her then you did!
You should have lately said "I have 2 words to say to you - they start with f and shutting down with f"
Ignorant childless bi**h I bet!
My grandson had his 12 week jabs today too, know how you feel x
self have been nasty as soon as she call my son a brat!!
what a cow, you did the right thing!
i hate stories like that, if she be put in that situation, then im pretty sure she wouldnt like someone chitchat to her rudely when shes making an effort. You dont speak baby! you dont know exectly what he needs
You have every right to tell her what you did. I'd have done exactly the same article, only with a lot more swearing lol.
It be in your right.
She Got Told!
But i would of covered the child's mouth to stop him crying, It would of saved you the hassle.
No!
You were not wrong!
I would have done exactly the same point!
Screw her headache stupid ignorant b1tch!
Sorry this had to come out :)
You did nothing wrong. There is nil HARDER then trying to comfort a baby that won't be comforted. You did your best and that's all that matter. She was rude beyond rude. It's PUBLIC transportation, just like you said.
Once you carry home and get baby settled, you take a nice bubble hip bath and calm down.
Ask your doctor if it's ok to give baby some Tylenol (I suppose you call it something different) about 1 hour before the subsequent set of shots. That really seems to help my children.
Good luck and have a right rest of the day!
How awful! You were not wrong at adjectives.
Answers: nope, not wrong at all. although i know it can be annoying when you're on the bus and in attendance is a baby/child crying, it is a hell of a lot more difficult for the parents who are trying to console their children. she deserved a mouthful - if you hav a headache you should get off and hoof it in the fresh air anyway!
only principle i get upset with parents on buses is if they hit/shout constantly at their children, or completely ignore them and dont try to comfort them. you prominently did none of these things and sound like a model parent!
Heck no you weren't wrong!! What a (expletive!) !
I would've asked the person within the seat next to her if they would mind switching with you so you could sit subsequent to her. Or I would've said well if she thinks it's so easy to unflustered him, she's welcome to try it herself, and until she does and succeeds, she had better keep her big mouth shut.
How much you wanna bet she doesn't hold kids.
What an old hag. She must live in a shoe.
I'm Going To Be Fair.
You Were All Stressed Out !
The Woman Probably Had A Splitting Headache And Probably No Other Way Of Getting Home. But She Shouldn't Have Called Your Baby A Brat :/
You Were Stressed Out To With No Other Way Home. You Said If She Had A Headache Why Use PT, But That Could Backfire. Why Would You Bring A Grumpy Baby Onto Public Transport ?
It's Just One Of Those Clashes When You Use Public Transport !
X Source(s): I Remember The School Buss ! You Can Get Pretty Nasty Wen Your Poorly And People Are Sreaming In Your Ears. :)
The Woman Probably Feels Really Guilty About It !!
X
Yes people make reverberation on the bus all the time like teenagers talking loud or playing loud music. Now im sure if your child had been asleep on the bus and people be playing music really loud which could wake your baby you would not of been in good spirits. So you have to understand where the other female was coming from. Yes people are always going to be making hum on the bus, but we are one community who need to work together to make a bus journey not so nice.
Now I can be particularly rude to people when needs be and if i had be any yourself of the other lady i would of been rude. Next time if you can afford it try to get a minicab or get a friend to give you a ride. Its not nice having to filch babies on the bus as im sure your aware their is not always space for buggies on the bus.
but don't feel terrible as you have given her a polite response at the start. remember as you said she could of got of the bus too. Try not to let people draw from to you. you was just being a honest mother!
I would hold squared up to the *!
seriously if any one called my child a brat i would have hard time restraining myself!.
you did the right entity! xx
no u were definitly right to stand up to her.i would of gone mental.my baby was really impossible afta his 3rd jab n i was worried tht the neighbours would complain but they both have childlike children so they now wat its like.some people jst own no sympathy.babies cry its normal especially after jabs because they get a shock they don't now wat is happenin.ok the woman myt not of agreed ur son had his jabs but she shudnt of said wat she did.some people r so inconsiderate makes me so cracked xx
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no i totally would have done the same. population see an upset baby and should understand that somethings wrong and be understanding not be a complete moron. so yes i believe that what you did be right in your situation
she definitely crossed the string - stupid b! You held it together and was quite nice about it i judge! Let someone call my baby a brat while im already quite flustered (as im sure you be!) don't worry about people close to that. you just do the best you can for your baby. if you take this public transport you are bound to own more days with a crying baby on there...
she should not be so rude. i would have done the same
Good for you! Wish I know which bus it was and I would have gladly made the trip to bug her even more!
Ignorant git!
Anyway, crying after jags is a apt sign as I would rather have that than a quiet little one not knowing if he was ok or not!
xx
that woman was rude i would unequivocally have done the same.
To be honest with you, I'd have said greatly worse; I'd have given her so much grief, honestly.
But you were NOT at all wrong, you be RIGHT! :D
Don't feel bad, she sounds like a complete arrogant bastard.
No approach.you had every right to get angry.
If anyone spoke to me like that after i would also lose my rag and say alot worse to her then you did!
You should have lately said "I have 2 words to say to you - they start with f and shutting down with f"
Ignorant childless bi**h I bet!
My grandson had his 12 week jabs today too, know how you feel x
self have been nasty as soon as she call my son a brat!!
what a cow, you did the right thing!
i hate stories like that, if she be put in that situation, then im pretty sure she wouldnt like someone chitchat to her rudely when shes making an effort. You dont speak baby! you dont know exectly what he needs
You have every right to tell her what you did. I'd have done exactly the same article, only with a lot more swearing lol.
It be in your right.
She Got Told!
But i would of covered the child's mouth to stop him crying, It would of saved you the hassle.
No!
You were not wrong!
I would have done exactly the same point!
Screw her headache stupid ignorant b1tch!
Sorry this had to come out :)
You did nothing wrong. There is nil HARDER then trying to comfort a baby that won't be comforted. You did your best and that's all that matter. She was rude beyond rude. It's PUBLIC transportation, just like you said.
Once you carry home and get baby settled, you take a nice bubble hip bath and calm down.
Ask your doctor if it's ok to give baby some Tylenol (I suppose you call it something different) about 1 hour before the subsequent set of shots. That really seems to help my children.
Good luck and have a right rest of the day!
How awful! You were not wrong at adjectives.
Answers: nope, not wrong at all. although i know it can be annoying when you're on the bus and in attendance is a baby/child crying, it is a hell of a lot more difficult for the parents who are trying to console their children. she deserved a mouthful - if you hav a headache you should get off and hoof it in the fresh air anyway!
only principle i get upset with parents on buses is if they hit/shout constantly at their children, or completely ignore them and dont try to comfort them. you prominently did none of these things and sound like a model parent!
Heck no you weren't wrong!! What a (expletive!) !
I would've asked the person within the seat next to her if they would mind switching with you so you could sit subsequent to her. Or I would've said well if she thinks it's so easy to unflustered him, she's welcome to try it herself, and until she does and succeeds, she had better keep her big mouth shut.
How much you wanna bet she doesn't hold kids.
What an old hag. She must live in a shoe.
I'm Going To Be Fair.
You Were All Stressed Out !
The Woman Probably Had A Splitting Headache And Probably No Other Way Of Getting Home. But She Shouldn't Have Called Your Baby A Brat :/
You Were Stressed Out To With No Other Way Home. You Said If She Had A Headache Why Use PT, But That Could Backfire. Why Would You Bring A Grumpy Baby Onto Public Transport ?
It's Just One Of Those Clashes When You Use Public Transport !
X Source(s): I Remember The School Buss ! You Can Get Pretty Nasty Wen Your Poorly And People Are Sreaming In Your Ears. :)
The Woman Probably Feels Really Guilty About It !!
X
Yes people make reverberation on the bus all the time like teenagers talking loud or playing loud music. Now im sure if your child had been asleep on the bus and people be playing music really loud which could wake your baby you would not of been in good spirits. So you have to understand where the other female was coming from. Yes people are always going to be making hum on the bus, but we are one community who need to work together to make a bus journey not so nice.
Now I can be particularly rude to people when needs be and if i had be any yourself of the other lady i would of been rude. Next time if you can afford it try to get a minicab or get a friend to give you a ride. Its not nice having to filch babies on the bus as im sure your aware their is not always space for buggies on the bus.
but don't feel terrible as you have given her a polite response at the start. remember as you said she could of got of the bus too. Try not to let people draw from to you. you was just being a honest mother!
I would hold squared up to the *!
seriously if any one called my child a brat i would have hard time restraining myself!.
you did the right entity! xx
no u were definitly right to stand up to her.i would of gone mental.my baby was really impossible afta his 3rd jab n i was worried tht the neighbours would complain but they both have childlike children so they now wat its like.some people jst own no sympathy.babies cry its normal especially after jabs because they get a shock they don't now wat is happenin.ok the woman myt not of agreed ur son had his jabs but she shudnt of said wat she did.some people r so inconsiderate makes me so cracked xx
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