"i hold the cutest infant within the world" proverb hurts me?
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my sister has got 2 children and yes they are VERY cute, but when she say's "i have the most elegant babies in the world don't you agree" in front of my pregnant sister & other mum's i think its unnecessary, i can totally see why she would touch that way, i mean doesn't every mum think theirs is the most charming? but do they have to say it in front of others mums, its similar to a way of saying "my baby is WAY cuter than your baby" or I don`t know its just her that makes it come across that way? have this ever happened to you? do you agree its a little inappropriate?
I don't think it's inappropriate at all. She's purely proud of her babies. Doesn't mean she's calling other babies ugly.
I own no problem with moms thinking their child is amazing and perfect in every process. All moms SHOULD feel their child is the best, the most beautiful, etc. That is what unconditional love does. Your child could get maim by a wild dog and they would still be beautiful to you.
The "don't you agree" part is a bit much, but simply smile and nod. Your sister adores her kids and its a good thing.
I think maxim it in front of other children with their mother there, is wrong, and yes I wouldn't read out it in front of another mother, but for me its a habbit. Isn't Tristen the cutest baby you ever seen? And my parents will vote, no you were pretty cute yourself.
I think it's annyoing when the kid gets old ample to understand and then really thinks he/she is the cutest item ever. Then they go through hell in middle school when they find out otherwise. It's close to the parents who tell their kids they're so smart when they're not. No, you don't have to call your kid stupid or dreadful, but false hope is cruel. Source(s): Former ugly and only quasi-smart kid with an obnoxious mother
I dream up most moms know that every mom thinks that about their own child/ren, so they can shrug it off & not ruminate much of it. But you bring up a good point of being careful not to hurt other kids' sensations, because they don't understand that. I think you bring up a valid point, but it's not really a big deal worth bringing up near her.
yes, i do grain it is a bit insensitive. i'm sure those other mothers all feel the same style about their own children, though, and just shrug off what she is saw about her beautiful babies.
i wouldn't worry too much roughly it because as a mother, i know when i hear another mother say something like that, they're just affirming their love for their child. they love their children and i love mine.
the other mothers probably apprehend and just roll their eyes :)
hope this helps!
It doesn't bother me when someone else says they have the most attractive baby, because I know they're wrong. J/K, I just know that to every mother, her children *are* the most beautiful surrounded by the world.
I dont thinks so. Cause well mine are the most gorgeous to me just like hers are to her. I dont think its an insult basically something we say. Anyways mine are the most beautiful!!
They are all striking and we all know that but to a mom hers are.
I don't deem it's inappropriate. I think it's kind of sweet, in actuality, that she loves her kids so much. As for saying it in front of other moms/kids: other children understand more than you construe. And those moms can go ahead and tell their kids, "Actually, I think MY son is the cutest boy surrounded by the whole wide world." And smile at him. I see absolutely no problem surrounded by this, personally, even if somebody said this in front of my daughter at any age.
Okay, so she's bragging, but I think she's partly kidding, she's just so proud of her babies. I would be MUCH more upset at a mom who demeaned their child in front of others or made comments something like their appearance, weight, etc., or demeaned other kids :( I see that happen in public sometimes and it make me want to cry.
It's sweet that you're so concerned about the other kids but I really think that you don't give little ones satisfactory credit. they'll be okay.
:)
I am sure she doesn't mean anything hurtful by it at all. She is just a proud mommy. She is not axiom that your children or someone else's are less beautiful she is just maxim what EVERY mother does
Im pretty sure purely about every mom in the world thinks their child is the cutest kid in the world. But it sounds like your sister is going ott. Tell her how you feel, and transmit her to knock it off. It's immature to say that to another mom.
"do you agree its a little improper?"
I think it's ridiculous. MY baby is the world's cutest, so I hardly see how hers could be.
Answers: A lot of women use their children within "pissing" contests with other moms. My favorite is when they start talking about how "gifted" their children are. They get the impression its a reflection of what a perfect mom they are. I always find this type of attitude to be discontented and self serving, get a hobby already.
I love my kids and I think they are very special and wonderful, however I am not delusional plenty to think that everyone else is as interested in my kids as I am! Source(s): Mom of 3 and preggers with #4
Everyone says this so it's probably her personality that making the comment rub you the wrong way.
My sister be once at the playground and a woman approached her and said about her daughter "What a beautiful little girl! Are you the nanny?"
People say dumb stuff adjectives the time.
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my sister has got 2 children and yes they are VERY cute, but when she say's "i have the most elegant babies in the world don't you agree" in front of my pregnant sister & other mum's i think its unnecessary, i can totally see why she would touch that way, i mean doesn't every mum think theirs is the most charming? but do they have to say it in front of others mums, its similar to a way of saying "my baby is WAY cuter than your baby" or I don`t know its just her that makes it come across that way? have this ever happened to you? do you agree its a little inappropriate?
I don't think it's inappropriate at all. She's purely proud of her babies. Doesn't mean she's calling other babies ugly.
I own no problem with moms thinking their child is amazing and perfect in every process. All moms SHOULD feel their child is the best, the most beautiful, etc. That is what unconditional love does. Your child could get maim by a wild dog and they would still be beautiful to you.
The "don't you agree" part is a bit much, but simply smile and nod. Your sister adores her kids and its a good thing.
I think maxim it in front of other children with their mother there, is wrong, and yes I wouldn't read out it in front of another mother, but for me its a habbit. Isn't Tristen the cutest baby you ever seen? And my parents will vote, no you were pretty cute yourself.
I think it's annyoing when the kid gets old ample to understand and then really thinks he/she is the cutest item ever. Then they go through hell in middle school when they find out otherwise. It's close to the parents who tell their kids they're so smart when they're not. No, you don't have to call your kid stupid or dreadful, but false hope is cruel. Source(s): Former ugly and only quasi-smart kid with an obnoxious mother
I dream up most moms know that every mom thinks that about their own child/ren, so they can shrug it off & not ruminate much of it. But you bring up a good point of being careful not to hurt other kids' sensations, because they don't understand that. I think you bring up a valid point, but it's not really a big deal worth bringing up near her.
yes, i do grain it is a bit insensitive. i'm sure those other mothers all feel the same style about their own children, though, and just shrug off what she is saw about her beautiful babies.
i wouldn't worry too much roughly it because as a mother, i know when i hear another mother say something like that, they're just affirming their love for their child. they love their children and i love mine.
the other mothers probably apprehend and just roll their eyes :)
hope this helps!
It doesn't bother me when someone else says they have the most attractive baby, because I know they're wrong. J/K, I just know that to every mother, her children *are* the most beautiful surrounded by the world.
I dont thinks so. Cause well mine are the most gorgeous to me just like hers are to her. I dont think its an insult basically something we say. Anyways mine are the most beautiful!!
They are all striking and we all know that but to a mom hers are.
I don't deem it's inappropriate. I think it's kind of sweet, in actuality, that she loves her kids so much. As for saying it in front of other moms/kids: other children understand more than you construe. And those moms can go ahead and tell their kids, "Actually, I think MY son is the cutest boy surrounded by the whole wide world." And smile at him. I see absolutely no problem surrounded by this, personally, even if somebody said this in front of my daughter at any age.
Okay, so she's bragging, but I think she's partly kidding, she's just so proud of her babies. I would be MUCH more upset at a mom who demeaned their child in front of others or made comments something like their appearance, weight, etc., or demeaned other kids :( I see that happen in public sometimes and it make me want to cry.
It's sweet that you're so concerned about the other kids but I really think that you don't give little ones satisfactory credit. they'll be okay.
:)
I am sure she doesn't mean anything hurtful by it at all. She is just a proud mommy. She is not axiom that your children or someone else's are less beautiful she is just maxim what EVERY mother does
Im pretty sure purely about every mom in the world thinks their child is the cutest kid in the world. But it sounds like your sister is going ott. Tell her how you feel, and transmit her to knock it off. It's immature to say that to another mom.
"do you agree its a little improper?"
I think it's ridiculous. MY baby is the world's cutest, so I hardly see how hers could be.
Answers: A lot of women use their children within "pissing" contests with other moms. My favorite is when they start talking about how "gifted" their children are. They get the impression its a reflection of what a perfect mom they are. I always find this type of attitude to be discontented and self serving, get a hobby already.
I love my kids and I think they are very special and wonderful, however I am not delusional plenty to think that everyone else is as interested in my kids as I am! Source(s): Mom of 3 and preggers with #4
Everyone says this so it's probably her personality that making the comment rub you the wrong way.
My sister be once at the playground and a woman approached her and said about her daughter "What a beautiful little girl! Are you the nanny?"
People say dumb stuff adjectives the time.
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