Why have our family changed?
since the birth of our daughter,both sides of our families have changed, they allways complain that they never get to see their grandaughter satisfactory or no longer ask how we are, or how our daughter is, its like she is an object to every body. Also they think they own a right to just turn up unexpectedly what ever time of day is is its soooo annoting...
Thats the approach our families are too. We moved 4 hours away just to get away from it adjectives. Life is so much better now.
Our families did that - essentially it's because the kid is a combination of you and your partner: so whilst your parents can't really love your partner as they're not blood relations, and vice versa, the baby IS a blood relation and by proxy, they feel the baby is almost directly theirs.
Couple that next to two sets of parents, and you're under the cosh for a long while.
if you think it's bad in a minute, wait until Christmas when both sets of parents will expect the baby for Christmas Day, and whichever one doesn't get the privilege of the light of day will feel slighted and affect your relationships.so you need to decide very soon: either host Christmas at yours, or make sure both sets of parents know that Christmas is sacrosanct for you and your partnet and the baby ONLY.
Sadly, if you dont put your foot down NOW and insist on your rights, they will ride roughshod over you forever...
Answers: My family and my husband's ancestral were so intrusive our marriage went through really rough times. In between their behavior and my husband loosing his available job (thus making our families think they could run our lives when they bought us something), nearly caused us to divorce.
If I have another baby, I would be a lot different from day one.
We also moved 800 miles away and even though we live surrounded by a state we're not thrilled about, we are in HEAVEN!
Join the club...we've got shirts lol. It's a new baby and their excited. It will slow down as the babe gets older. Let them know though that they CAN NOT and WILL NOT be showing up univited places! Put your foot down...its your baby! Believe me they won't want to brand you mad cause then they wouldn't return with to see the baby as much if your fighting! Good luck...I know how your feeling!
The showing to your home unexpectedly I'm next to you on, I hate when people do that even before I have kids. I always tell people to nickname first.
but the attention thing, my family is like that. I other say that I'm surprised they remember our names. But I love that they are so attentive and doting, makes me satisfied.
I don't like alot of attention anyway, I got all that I needed when I be pregnant. It's their turn
This happens to everyone, sorry I don't know why!
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Thats the approach our families are too. We moved 4 hours away just to get away from it adjectives. Life is so much better now.
Our families did that - essentially it's because the kid is a combination of you and your partner: so whilst your parents can't really love your partner as they're not blood relations, and vice versa, the baby IS a blood relation and by proxy, they feel the baby is almost directly theirs.
Couple that next to two sets of parents, and you're under the cosh for a long while.
if you think it's bad in a minute, wait until Christmas when both sets of parents will expect the baby for Christmas Day, and whichever one doesn't get the privilege of the light of day will feel slighted and affect your relationships.so you need to decide very soon: either host Christmas at yours, or make sure both sets of parents know that Christmas is sacrosanct for you and your partnet and the baby ONLY.
Sadly, if you dont put your foot down NOW and insist on your rights, they will ride roughshod over you forever...
Answers: My family and my husband's ancestral were so intrusive our marriage went through really rough times. In between their behavior and my husband loosing his available job (thus making our families think they could run our lives when they bought us something), nearly caused us to divorce.
If I have another baby, I would be a lot different from day one.
We also moved 800 miles away and even though we live surrounded by a state we're not thrilled about, we are in HEAVEN!
Join the club...we've got shirts lol. It's a new baby and their excited. It will slow down as the babe gets older. Let them know though that they CAN NOT and WILL NOT be showing up univited places! Put your foot down...its your baby! Believe me they won't want to brand you mad cause then they wouldn't return with to see the baby as much if your fighting! Good luck...I know how your feeling!
The showing to your home unexpectedly I'm next to you on, I hate when people do that even before I have kids. I always tell people to nickname first.
but the attention thing, my family is like that. I other say that I'm surprised they remember our names. But I love that they are so attentive and doting, makes me satisfied.
I don't like alot of attention anyway, I got all that I needed when I be pregnant. It's their turn
This happens to everyone, sorry I don't know why!
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