Okay, really, am I the just human being who used AP?
(after researching, lol, I figured out that's what I did.) with my oldest daughter. she is not 2 1/2 and stubborn and defiant and I own tried every method. I have read about people clich¨¦ how well behaved their child with which they used attachment parenting near is very well behaved. So I did what wrong?
But anyway, I purely don't think one way of parenting, even attachment parenting will have matching affects on every child, my lovely toddler, I do believe, is proof!
But did anyone else attachment parent and have a very "bad" toddler? I mean she is not impossible, but it's definitely a battle with her everyday!
I think all toddlers can be badly behaved and strong willed. That's not what I was talking in the region of. LOL
Believe me... my kids can be strong willed as any other.
It's just the mean factor. Does she bite, hit, do be set to things, have massssssive tantrums where she breaks everything she can touch?
Honestly, I think it's just her personality AND the reality that two year olds are often a bit stubborn and defiant. They are learning their boundaries and what is agreeable and what isn't. I also agree that one way of parenting doesn't work with all kids. I own twin boys and their personalities and how they act are totally different at times.
I practice AP and I swear by it... for in a minute, LOL! No, seriously, I believe it's why Avary and I have such an amazing bond. Even now, as she is becoming more and more ambitious and spirited every day, the bond continues to grow. We are so surrounded by tune with each other. I know there will be difficult times today and down the road but I have an idea that AP is the best way to build that strong foundation of unconditional love, respect and stability. AP isn't about creating perfect, little, angelic clones; its around creating strong, resilient, grounded young people. Those little people are still going to own their own personalities and strengths and weaknesses, etc. But AP will help contained by giving them the tools (they so very much need in today's world) to thrive as independent and confident children, after adults. I know with Avary's genes (between me and her father - OMG! I'm really gonna be in for it!) But hopefully my raising her through AP, will hold on to her grounded and trusting enough of me to come to me when she's having difficulties, face challenge head on with a grounded yet soaring spirit and trust herself plenty to feel confident in her decisions, values and beliefs.
I already see it surrounded by her. She is a very confident little chica! She has no fears of people or her surroundings and I really attribute a devout portion of that to the way I've chosen to parent her (AP). She is completely confident that I am always there 100% of the time to draw together her needs. That gives her the self-assurance to scheme out fearlessly and try new things without worrying that I am right behind her to enjoy her back. That's what it's all about. Just giving them the tools to believe within themselves and be the best little people they can be throughout life. I would recommend AP to anyone.
Re-reading this I see it sounds a little corny at times but its how I really touch about AP. I believe in it 100% and I truly believe it is one of the biggest reasons Avary is so immobilize and self-confident. Source(s): AP single mom to my 15 month old daughter, Avary.
It's just her personality...possibly dictated by her DNA.but if you did AP , that's pretty well-groomed. She had the experience of being around you constantly and such, and will more than likely own a good bond with you. But being an AP parent, as you know, doesn't guarantee a 'perfect' and resourcefully behaved child.
I did AP with both my daughters my oldest daughter be always well behaved still is (shes 7) HOWEVER my youngest is a firecracker she is rebellious and likes to battle! But I dont think it be AP its just the way she is cranky! But when she is good she is sooo sweet and still loves to snuggle! I doubt she will "grow out of it" but it will be a fun ride and noone will ever waddle all over her!
It is just because of her age. My 4 year feeble was perfect until he hit 2 and then he be awful. He only got worse at 3 and now at 4 I muse he's starting to get better. He's a child and that's what he acts like.
Answers: I used AP for both kids and i thought it be fool-proof.until the second baby became a toddler. My son, the firstborn, is great at following direction, he has be his entire life. he has always responded to no and time-outs are adjectives he needs. he never needed a sippy cup bc he was good at taking drinks and returning his cup to a table. i own never had to worry about him anyone mean or picking a fight.
His sister on the other hand, all right she is crazy. she takes no as a challenge, she doesnt care in the region of time-out, and everything is a joke to her. she HAS to have a sippy cup, something i once saw as useless, bc she is always bouncing bad the walls, and enjoys to see my reaction to her running with a cup.
I reflect u r right, all kids are different but remember, the whole point to ap is to create decent, responsible, well-attached adults, which is exactly what u r on your bearing to creating. u will see the benefits someday.
AP is def the way to shift! You have to consider that her "make-up" plays a huge role (if not bigger) in her personality and how she react and then the parenting style comes in a close 2nd... So think of it this instrument.. imagine if you didn't use AP how she would be acting (or maybe you don't want to imagine that! LOL) Also when for the most element AP children are more well-behaved its not a guaranteed thing... Basically you are providing that strong bond between you and your child and I'm sure this phase will pass over and dont get down on yourself if she isn't an angel! Source(s): mommy to a 5 month hoary beautiful baby girl, using AP with my daughter, and I am a Marriage, Family, Human Development Major (we focus a ton of Child Development and AP)
My baby's still 10-months, but I would bet it's lately her age. That's why the call it the "terrible twos" I guess.
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But anyway, I purely don't think one way of parenting, even attachment parenting will have matching affects on every child, my lovely toddler, I do believe, is proof!
But did anyone else attachment parent and have a very "bad" toddler? I mean she is not impossible, but it's definitely a battle with her everyday!
I think all toddlers can be badly behaved and strong willed. That's not what I was talking in the region of. LOL
Believe me... my kids can be strong willed as any other.
It's just the mean factor. Does she bite, hit, do be set to things, have massssssive tantrums where she breaks everything she can touch?
Honestly, I think it's just her personality AND the reality that two year olds are often a bit stubborn and defiant. They are learning their boundaries and what is agreeable and what isn't. I also agree that one way of parenting doesn't work with all kids. I own twin boys and their personalities and how they act are totally different at times.
I practice AP and I swear by it... for in a minute, LOL! No, seriously, I believe it's why Avary and I have such an amazing bond. Even now, as she is becoming more and more ambitious and spirited every day, the bond continues to grow. We are so surrounded by tune with each other. I know there will be difficult times today and down the road but I have an idea that AP is the best way to build that strong foundation of unconditional love, respect and stability. AP isn't about creating perfect, little, angelic clones; its around creating strong, resilient, grounded young people. Those little people are still going to own their own personalities and strengths and weaknesses, etc. But AP will help contained by giving them the tools (they so very much need in today's world) to thrive as independent and confident children, after adults. I know with Avary's genes (between me and her father - OMG! I'm really gonna be in for it!) But hopefully my raising her through AP, will hold on to her grounded and trusting enough of me to come to me when she's having difficulties, face challenge head on with a grounded yet soaring spirit and trust herself plenty to feel confident in her decisions, values and beliefs.
I already see it surrounded by her. She is a very confident little chica! She has no fears of people or her surroundings and I really attribute a devout portion of that to the way I've chosen to parent her (AP). She is completely confident that I am always there 100% of the time to draw together her needs. That gives her the self-assurance to scheme out fearlessly and try new things without worrying that I am right behind her to enjoy her back. That's what it's all about. Just giving them the tools to believe within themselves and be the best little people they can be throughout life. I would recommend AP to anyone.
Re-reading this I see it sounds a little corny at times but its how I really touch about AP. I believe in it 100% and I truly believe it is one of the biggest reasons Avary is so immobilize and self-confident. Source(s): AP single mom to my 15 month old daughter, Avary.
It's just her personality...possibly dictated by her DNA.but if you did AP , that's pretty well-groomed. She had the experience of being around you constantly and such, and will more than likely own a good bond with you. But being an AP parent, as you know, doesn't guarantee a 'perfect' and resourcefully behaved child.
I did AP with both my daughters my oldest daughter be always well behaved still is (shes 7) HOWEVER my youngest is a firecracker she is rebellious and likes to battle! But I dont think it be AP its just the way she is cranky! But when she is good she is sooo sweet and still loves to snuggle! I doubt she will "grow out of it" but it will be a fun ride and noone will ever waddle all over her!
It is just because of her age. My 4 year feeble was perfect until he hit 2 and then he be awful. He only got worse at 3 and now at 4 I muse he's starting to get better. He's a child and that's what he acts like.
Answers: I used AP for both kids and i thought it be fool-proof.until the second baby became a toddler. My son, the firstborn, is great at following direction, he has be his entire life. he has always responded to no and time-outs are adjectives he needs. he never needed a sippy cup bc he was good at taking drinks and returning his cup to a table. i own never had to worry about him anyone mean or picking a fight.
His sister on the other hand, all right she is crazy. she takes no as a challenge, she doesnt care in the region of time-out, and everything is a joke to her. she HAS to have a sippy cup, something i once saw as useless, bc she is always bouncing bad the walls, and enjoys to see my reaction to her running with a cup.
I reflect u r right, all kids are different but remember, the whole point to ap is to create decent, responsible, well-attached adults, which is exactly what u r on your bearing to creating. u will see the benefits someday.
AP is def the way to shift! You have to consider that her "make-up" plays a huge role (if not bigger) in her personality and how she react and then the parenting style comes in a close 2nd... So think of it this instrument.. imagine if you didn't use AP how she would be acting (or maybe you don't want to imagine that! LOL) Also when for the most element AP children are more well-behaved its not a guaranteed thing... Basically you are providing that strong bond between you and your child and I'm sure this phase will pass over and dont get down on yourself if she isn't an angel! Source(s): mommy to a 5 month hoary beautiful baby girl, using AP with my daughter, and I am a Marriage, Family, Human Development Major (we focus a ton of Child Development and AP)
My baby's still 10-months, but I would bet it's lately her age. That's why the call it the "terrible twos" I guess.
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