No sure what to do beside 15/16 month matured when i administer birth to number 2?
I am due on november the 18th. If i giving birth before 19 november my son will be 15 months if i give birth after he will be 16 months.
My fiance has no family circle where we live and i only have my parents or my cousin that i would possibly trust to let look after my son. But my parents want to be at hospital when i give birth and i am thinking of asking my mum to be in the workforce room with me. I woudlnt trust my dad to look after him on his own as i dont think he is too comfortable around litle kids. I am thinking about asking my cousin but she doesnt want to stay at our house as we enjoy 2 dogs which she is scared of. He has never been to her house and he doesnt know her adjectives that well. he sees her once a month. So we only own 2 other options, my fiance stays at home with our son and i just hold my mum in the labour room but my fiance said he doesnt want to miss out on the birth. The other option is to enjoy him come to the hospital with us and wait in the waiting room near my mum and dad and possibly fiances mum if she makes it in time. If he was to linger in the waiting room i would have an epidural so i wasnt yelling and screaming approaching i was with my son. So did any of you have any of your siblings around when you give birth? whether it was a home birth or they waited in the hospital room? If so what be it like?
Dont you think its kind of selfish of your parents to want to be within the room with you and make your fiance stay at home with your son instead of assist you out during that special time in your life and let you share that moment beside your fiance?
I would ask your parents to stay with your son so you and your fiance can be together during this once in a lifetime moment. You can never get that time final. If they wont do that, ask your cousin to do it at her house. In the mean time, start getting your son comfortable being at her house and being around her more.
i would trust your dad to do it because he raised you, didn't he?
and having anybody other than your fiance and your mother within the labor room would be too wierd
Answers: I only have one child but most of my relatives members left their children in the meticulousness of a family meber at their home and then had the siblings come to stop by after the birth.
He is still really young and would become bored easily in a waiting room. You don't know how long the distribution might take, I was in labor beside my son for over 48 hours.
When I have secong my son will be around 4-5 so at that age he might be okay to be in a waiting room for extended periods but your son is a short time too young to sit in a waiting room for an indefinite amount of time.
But you know your son and what he is or isn't capable of and if you give attention to he would do okay then go for it!
It sounds like if you truly want your parents and hubby in attendance the best option is having him go to your cousins house.
But I would never ever permit my hubby miss out on the birth of his own child.
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My fiance has no family circle where we live and i only have my parents or my cousin that i would possibly trust to let look after my son. But my parents want to be at hospital when i give birth and i am thinking of asking my mum to be in the workforce room with me. I woudlnt trust my dad to look after him on his own as i dont think he is too comfortable around litle kids. I am thinking about asking my cousin but she doesnt want to stay at our house as we enjoy 2 dogs which she is scared of. He has never been to her house and he doesnt know her adjectives that well. he sees her once a month. So we only own 2 other options, my fiance stays at home with our son and i just hold my mum in the labour room but my fiance said he doesnt want to miss out on the birth. The other option is to enjoy him come to the hospital with us and wait in the waiting room near my mum and dad and possibly fiances mum if she makes it in time. If he was to linger in the waiting room i would have an epidural so i wasnt yelling and screaming approaching i was with my son. So did any of you have any of your siblings around when you give birth? whether it was a home birth or they waited in the hospital room? If so what be it like?
Dont you think its kind of selfish of your parents to want to be within the room with you and make your fiance stay at home with your son instead of assist you out during that special time in your life and let you share that moment beside your fiance?
I would ask your parents to stay with your son so you and your fiance can be together during this once in a lifetime moment. You can never get that time final. If they wont do that, ask your cousin to do it at her house. In the mean time, start getting your son comfortable being at her house and being around her more.
i would trust your dad to do it because he raised you, didn't he?
and having anybody other than your fiance and your mother within the labor room would be too wierd
Answers: I only have one child but most of my relatives members left their children in the meticulousness of a family meber at their home and then had the siblings come to stop by after the birth.
He is still really young and would become bored easily in a waiting room. You don't know how long the distribution might take, I was in labor beside my son for over 48 hours.
When I have secong my son will be around 4-5 so at that age he might be okay to be in a waiting room for extended periods but your son is a short time too young to sit in a waiting room for an indefinite amount of time.
But you know your son and what he is or isn't capable of and if you give attention to he would do okay then go for it!
It sounds like if you truly want your parents and hubby in attendance the best option is having him go to your cousins house.
But I would never ever permit my hubby miss out on the birth of his own child.
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