How would you perceive around this?

My fiances birthday is this Saturday. His mom planned on coming in tomorrow and staying the whole weekend to visit near us and the baby and finish helping us decorate our new house. At the concluding minute, her husband decides to take a mini vacation to the Grand Canyon or something. I talk to her earlier and she was torn between the two-to stick with her plans and come see us- or jump with her husband and other son.

She ended up picking going with her husband eventhough she didn't really want to. She newly didn't want him to be mad at her I guess? Now I am waiting for my SO to call me back and break the report to him. I know his feelings are going to be hurt.

This isn't the first time shes bailed out on us. What are some things I can do for my SOs birthday? I want to make it extra special and make him perceive loved since his mom isn't going to come now lol
If she's done it before then he probably won't be too hurt. Find a babysitter so you and him can stir out and have a dinner alone, unless you'd like you LO there. Give him backrubs, anything little that he like like that.
Have someone take a picture of you and baby and then form him a card with the picture inside and write how much you both love him.
Take him somewhere special like his favorite restaurant and have it be a own flesh and blood thing. Or you could even have like a cookout and invite adjectives his friends over to help him celebrate. Just remind him that you and baby are here and still love him and try not to let him get too upset about it.
Answers:    Well, since this isn't the first time, he probably wont be surprised although is feelings will still be hurt. I'd just utter to him that, regardless of who's there, he's a very loved person. Be sure to trade name it very special for him. Honestly, you care enough roughly him that his birthday will be just as fun as it would have been next to her.
First off I wouldn't tell him. I'd call his mom & make clear to her it's not your job to tell him & she needs to call upon him herself. Then maybe have a family afternoon doing things he loves. Take him to his fav restaurant or cook his fav meal.
You and Brayden can cook him something extra special or if your not the greatest cook, appropriate him eat out and embarrass him and make the waiters sing the "blissful birthday" song to him haha. I wish I had a good view for you.

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