Would you vote something to your husband/SO's stalker?
I know I know...wrong section. I'd rather get suggestion from people that I know have legit advice and aren't a moment ago 15 year olds prancing around the Relationships section.
Anyhoo. So, like 5 or 6 years ago, my husband was dating this fairly crazy girl. They only dated 2 or 3 weeks and he broke up with her because she was simply psycho. To try to get him back, she lied and said she was pregnant. He demanded to see a interview and she refused so she finally admited to what she was doing and he hasn't talked to her since.
Well. A month or so ago she emailed him on his military Email. He's never given it out, it's not a public copy, the only way to get it is to enjoy someone who is also in the military that has the power to look it up get it. So she hired someone to receive his email. She emailed him saying that she got married and had a kid but duration isn't as good as it was with him. He delete it right after we read it. Now a couple weeks ago she emailed him again, this time on his facebook which she looked up, saying that she really missed him and wanted him to be friends with her on facebook. He never responded to that one any. Now a few days ago she emailed him on facebook saying that her marriage was falling apart, her mom be taking her son to England so he didn't have to be around his parents and she went on about how she have a "vivid dream" that would be innapropriot to go into, but she dreamt about him. She asked again to confirm her friend request because she really missed him and wanted to chitchat to him.
He is really freaked out that she managed to find his military email, then track him down on facebook and keeps messanging him even though he newly ignores her. He is way too nice to actually influence something to her, so I thought about messaging her telling her that my husband thinks she's crazy and simply wants to be left alone. I don't think it's my business to be within, but like I said.he is too nice to tell her what he really thinks.
What would you do?
Get a restraining order.
It may seem a little extreme but I am married to a cop and hold seen quite a bit things happen from crazy women resembling this.
If he has told her that he doesn't want to have anything to do with her and he would similar to to be left alone, then the only likelihood is the restraining order
ask this within the marriage/divorce section, i asked a similar question and got great answers. certainly you can go to my questions and read the answers i got. they be all awesome. good luck
Boy you asked for this...
I would not solely email her but call a lawyer about suing her for singling out.
He needs to talk to the Commander at his job and consent to them know someone hacked into the system to get the emails and now this individual is harassing him.
They can do a lot in the military...I know...my brothers are in and my father be in too.
Call the police and see if there is anything you can do. But the lawyer is a moral way to go, at least this agency you have copies of the email for just in suitcase she decides to get physical and try to hurt you, the baby or your husband.
I would inform her off.and let her know that she is not wanted. Not to contact him ever again...I'm only just mean at times..
good luck
eh. its your business since you are his wife. But it sounds like maybe shes just going through a rough time and reaching out to someone she remembers man happy with. Don't you do that?? I know i have from time to time. try to be nice to her when you email her but i do guess its good for you to let her know you and your husband are in a committed honest relationship contained by which he tells you when she contacts him and you both would appreciate her not try to get involved in your conjugal - or whatever you want to say :)
Good husband for telling you! My EX wasnt approaching that! hehe
I honestly believe she'll eventually go away. I be a sign of, yea she might keep emailing him for a while, you two will get a laugh out of it, I don`t know. But after a while, I would think she would go away...
That is what I would do. Keep igoring it for the time being. Also, it's not concrete to find someone on facebook. I see your point about the military, of course she could have friends contained by the military.
You could email her, but do you think she'll stop? Maybe all she wants is a rise out of one of you. I wouldn't administer her one.
this whole "too nice" thing is SUCH A COP OUT! You're his SO and I'm assuming the mother of his child. He wants to grow a sack and tell her to eff off.
Either that or he needs to a short time ago block her on every networking/email sight she tries to contact him on.
"he's too nice" ... get real!
he needs to tell her he's happily married.
i do infer you should stay out of it b/c then it could get real messy!-if she's really crazy-she might try to mar you or herself.
just keep ignoring her but if things attain really bad-like she finds your address or something-then you can get the police involved.
i thought once you'd refused someone on frontage book that was it? Is she making new accounts to keep sending requests?
I believe that the best thing to do is keep a record of her attempts to contact him. And also clear sure he TELLS you whenever she does. He should not respond to her at all, and neither should you. I know it's hard, but i think you should completely cut her. That way she doesn't have any fuel to keep her going. You know?
You should check and see if your state have 'alienation of affection' laws, and see if you can sue her for her behavior. :) Be sure to keep a good transcript of her contact, so that if things go pear shaped (not with hubby cheating, i mean beside her showing up on your doorstep etc) then you have lots of evidence to have her charged next to stalking etc.
Answers: first of adjectives it is your buisness
hes your husband i mean cmon!
Are you sure he didnt give her the email?
Well I would totally send her a message
cant you block her though?
resourcefully u let her know what you wanna tell her
and block her ***
but dont be nice about it any cause if shes really that crazy she'll try to befriend you to get to him
Goodluck!
hope that * goes away lol
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Anyhoo. So, like 5 or 6 years ago, my husband was dating this fairly crazy girl. They only dated 2 or 3 weeks and he broke up with her because she was simply psycho. To try to get him back, she lied and said she was pregnant. He demanded to see a interview and she refused so she finally admited to what she was doing and he hasn't talked to her since.
Well. A month or so ago she emailed him on his military Email. He's never given it out, it's not a public copy, the only way to get it is to enjoy someone who is also in the military that has the power to look it up get it. So she hired someone to receive his email. She emailed him saying that she got married and had a kid but duration isn't as good as it was with him. He delete it right after we read it. Now a couple weeks ago she emailed him again, this time on his facebook which she looked up, saying that she really missed him and wanted him to be friends with her on facebook. He never responded to that one any. Now a few days ago she emailed him on facebook saying that her marriage was falling apart, her mom be taking her son to England so he didn't have to be around his parents and she went on about how she have a "vivid dream" that would be innapropriot to go into, but she dreamt about him. She asked again to confirm her friend request because she really missed him and wanted to chitchat to him.
He is really freaked out that she managed to find his military email, then track him down on facebook and keeps messanging him even though he newly ignores her. He is way too nice to actually influence something to her, so I thought about messaging her telling her that my husband thinks she's crazy and simply wants to be left alone. I don't think it's my business to be within, but like I said.he is too nice to tell her what he really thinks.
What would you do?
Get a restraining order.
It may seem a little extreme but I am married to a cop and hold seen quite a bit things happen from crazy women resembling this.
If he has told her that he doesn't want to have anything to do with her and he would similar to to be left alone, then the only likelihood is the restraining order
ask this within the marriage/divorce section, i asked a similar question and got great answers. certainly you can go to my questions and read the answers i got. they be all awesome. good luck
Boy you asked for this...
I would not solely email her but call a lawyer about suing her for singling out.
He needs to talk to the Commander at his job and consent to them know someone hacked into the system to get the emails and now this individual is harassing him.
They can do a lot in the military...I know...my brothers are in and my father be in too.
Call the police and see if there is anything you can do. But the lawyer is a moral way to go, at least this agency you have copies of the email for just in suitcase she decides to get physical and try to hurt you, the baby or your husband.
I would inform her off.and let her know that she is not wanted. Not to contact him ever again...I'm only just mean at times..
good luck
eh. its your business since you are his wife. But it sounds like maybe shes just going through a rough time and reaching out to someone she remembers man happy with. Don't you do that?? I know i have from time to time. try to be nice to her when you email her but i do guess its good for you to let her know you and your husband are in a committed honest relationship contained by which he tells you when she contacts him and you both would appreciate her not try to get involved in your conjugal - or whatever you want to say :)
Good husband for telling you! My EX wasnt approaching that! hehe
I honestly believe she'll eventually go away. I be a sign of, yea she might keep emailing him for a while, you two will get a laugh out of it, I don`t know. But after a while, I would think she would go away...
That is what I would do. Keep igoring it for the time being. Also, it's not concrete to find someone on facebook. I see your point about the military, of course she could have friends contained by the military.
You could email her, but do you think she'll stop? Maybe all she wants is a rise out of one of you. I wouldn't administer her one.
this whole "too nice" thing is SUCH A COP OUT! You're his SO and I'm assuming the mother of his child. He wants to grow a sack and tell her to eff off.
Either that or he needs to a short time ago block her on every networking/email sight she tries to contact him on.
"he's too nice" ... get real!
he needs to tell her he's happily married.
i do infer you should stay out of it b/c then it could get real messy!-if she's really crazy-she might try to mar you or herself.
just keep ignoring her but if things attain really bad-like she finds your address or something-then you can get the police involved.
i thought once you'd refused someone on frontage book that was it? Is she making new accounts to keep sending requests?
I believe that the best thing to do is keep a record of her attempts to contact him. And also clear sure he TELLS you whenever she does. He should not respond to her at all, and neither should you. I know it's hard, but i think you should completely cut her. That way she doesn't have any fuel to keep her going. You know?
You should check and see if your state have 'alienation of affection' laws, and see if you can sue her for her behavior. :) Be sure to keep a good transcript of her contact, so that if things go pear shaped (not with hubby cheating, i mean beside her showing up on your doorstep etc) then you have lots of evidence to have her charged next to stalking etc.
Answers: first of adjectives it is your buisness
hes your husband i mean cmon!
Are you sure he didnt give her the email?
Well I would totally send her a message
cant you block her though?
resourcefully u let her know what you wanna tell her
and block her ***
but dont be nice about it any cause if shes really that crazy she'll try to befriend you to get to him
Goodluck!
hope that * goes away lol
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