A cross-examine something like my daughters daddy? Single mums out near?
I split with my daughters father the last December, and it wasnt left on great expressions. We still talk everyday, mostly about Mia, and we have also talk about getting back together a few times.
Although lately he has made his mind up and wishes to be on his own. I cant help but hate him for this decision.
I want him surrounded by our lives so bad, and i still love him dearly.
It wasnt a perfect relationship and it probably is for the best that we dont get wager on together but i still miss him like mad.
Everytime i look at my daughter i see him, and i constantly think more or less the good times and memories we shared...including our daughters birth.
I cant help but get mournful when i see dads playing with their kids, i just wish Mia have him in her life.
How can you get over someone who you shared so much near?
Did anybody else long for their kids father back into their life? How did you cope?
Any encouraging words will be much appreciated x
oh darling!..im in like peas in a pod situation we split when my son was 8 weeks, we talk all the time and get back together once but now were not but he requests to but he doesnt and he doesnt know what he wants but its soooo confusing and it hurts SO SO SO much bcuz i too have 4 years of memories and the birth of our son and the first precious weeks..I cant get over him no concern how hard I try..I long for it now still soo bad..if you want to yak u can email me...chrizzy_333@hotmail.com...or add me to msn if u have it...im glad to know im not the ONLY one in this situation and u can dispense me more details
Is he in Mia's life at all?
I hope so.
It's so average to feel like this.
I do live with my daughters father and we own our problems but I always think, omg, what if he wasn't around. I couldn't take the unharmed 'part time dad' thing.
You sound resembling a pretty strong person to keep yourself together in this gentle of circumstance.
You and you daughter's father will always share a bond, you made a child together so you will always have ties.simply try to make the best of them.
I disappeared my baby girl daddy when I was 20 weeks pregnant with her. i broke up near him because he wasn't respecting me or my two boys ( not his). When I dumped he said hurtful things and other stuff that wasn't true. Through that he shut me and his own unborn child out of his life. It almost a year no contact with him. Child support agency even trying to get contact next to him and he responding to it. A week later after dumping I found a wonderful new guy. He sweetest. He want to be the father to my baby girl and my other two boys. He desires adopt them when he can. He been keeping me calm and all. I do at times dream up about baby girl daddy. But he doesn't know want he missing out and I glad I left him. Of course when she get older and she asked about her will daddy. I tell her the truth.
wow. some of these comments are really mean! i am so sorry they spoke to you that agency.
my situation is slightly different. my boyfriend and i got pregnant when i was 18 and he was 20. he disappeared. i went through the whole pregnancy and birth without him. i even go through the first 14 months without him. it is hard. those people that make clear to you to get over it have never been through it. i take in that you want him in her life. think almost what is best for her though. im not saying she doesnt need a father but hear me out. you cant force him to be in her existence. and you dont want someone in her (or your) life that doesnt really want to be there. i would not agree to him come and go out of her life as he pleases. i would tell him that he is any in her life to stay or out of it. and this is going to sound rigorous, but he doesnt have to be with you to be in her energy. when we finally got back together there be many talks about this intensely issue. he can be her daddy without being anything to you. and yes, it is so hard, but you can do it. purely think of your little girl. i hope that this helped you a little.
Answers: First things first, I am sorry that your relationship didn't work out. Having said that, I know how very rugged it is to face that person that you had a child with and not be with them. The bottom line is, ably there are actually a few. 1-you can't make someone do or become something that they don't want to do. 2-only you and him, know the meat of your relationship. You said yourself that it wasn't a ideal relationship. IF you are fighting in front of MIA, you change her perception. You metamorphosis who they are when you fight. You shouldn't do that. If it isn't a good relationship as you stated, then your first priority should be her. If instead, you and he are still civil with each other, that is great too. His condition is to take care of her. If he is not in her life span, there are ways to go about making sure he pays his child cupport. You can rob him to court. She, as she gets older, will realize what kind of father he is. Hopefully a perfect one. You have to be strong for her. Don't be in a bad relationship a moment ago to not be by yourself.
Good luck, you are a mom. You can do this!
Time heal everything. You just have to think positive no event how hard it is right now. Remember that everything happens for a principle and you have a beautiful little girl now.
It's going to be tough for a while. Especially since he is still in your life and probably will be if he wants anything to do next to his daughter. So it's not going to be easy. YOU are the only one who can come to peace all of this. No one can support you. You have to be okay with it. Though you had right times, weren't there bad ones too? You can't dwell on the good times if nearby were more bad ones. And you will have even more better times near your next relationship.. He is not the only guy out there. Just because you own a daughter with him doesn't mean your life is coming to an ruin and you will not have these feelings towards another guy.
Easier said then done. Esp someone else helping you. My best advice- Time heal everything. I promise it will all be okay. :) It is still fairly new this arranged, correct? In time- it will all be ok.
F***k him, if he's not man enough to be a part of his daughter's existence, he's not worth s***t. Get over it and find yourself a real man and stop feeling sorry for yourself
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Although lately he has made his mind up and wishes to be on his own. I cant help but hate him for this decision.
I want him surrounded by our lives so bad, and i still love him dearly.
It wasnt a perfect relationship and it probably is for the best that we dont get wager on together but i still miss him like mad.
Everytime i look at my daughter i see him, and i constantly think more or less the good times and memories we shared...including our daughters birth.
I cant help but get mournful when i see dads playing with their kids, i just wish Mia have him in her life.
How can you get over someone who you shared so much near?
Did anybody else long for their kids father back into their life? How did you cope?
Any encouraging words will be much appreciated x
oh darling!..im in like peas in a pod situation we split when my son was 8 weeks, we talk all the time and get back together once but now were not but he requests to but he doesnt and he doesnt know what he wants but its soooo confusing and it hurts SO SO SO much bcuz i too have 4 years of memories and the birth of our son and the first precious weeks..I cant get over him no concern how hard I try..I long for it now still soo bad..if you want to yak u can email me...chrizzy_333@hotmail.com...or add me to msn if u have it...im glad to know im not the ONLY one in this situation and u can dispense me more details
Is he in Mia's life at all?
I hope so.
It's so average to feel like this.
I do live with my daughters father and we own our problems but I always think, omg, what if he wasn't around. I couldn't take the unharmed 'part time dad' thing.
You sound resembling a pretty strong person to keep yourself together in this gentle of circumstance.
You and you daughter's father will always share a bond, you made a child together so you will always have ties.simply try to make the best of them.
I disappeared my baby girl daddy when I was 20 weeks pregnant with her. i broke up near him because he wasn't respecting me or my two boys ( not his). When I dumped he said hurtful things and other stuff that wasn't true. Through that he shut me and his own unborn child out of his life. It almost a year no contact with him. Child support agency even trying to get contact next to him and he responding to it. A week later after dumping I found a wonderful new guy. He sweetest. He want to be the father to my baby girl and my other two boys. He desires adopt them when he can. He been keeping me calm and all. I do at times dream up about baby girl daddy. But he doesn't know want he missing out and I glad I left him. Of course when she get older and she asked about her will daddy. I tell her the truth.
wow. some of these comments are really mean! i am so sorry they spoke to you that agency.
my situation is slightly different. my boyfriend and i got pregnant when i was 18 and he was 20. he disappeared. i went through the whole pregnancy and birth without him. i even go through the first 14 months without him. it is hard. those people that make clear to you to get over it have never been through it. i take in that you want him in her life. think almost what is best for her though. im not saying she doesnt need a father but hear me out. you cant force him to be in her existence. and you dont want someone in her (or your) life that doesnt really want to be there. i would not agree to him come and go out of her life as he pleases. i would tell him that he is any in her life to stay or out of it. and this is going to sound rigorous, but he doesnt have to be with you to be in her energy. when we finally got back together there be many talks about this intensely issue. he can be her daddy without being anything to you. and yes, it is so hard, but you can do it. purely think of your little girl. i hope that this helped you a little.
Answers: First things first, I am sorry that your relationship didn't work out. Having said that, I know how very rugged it is to face that person that you had a child with and not be with them. The bottom line is, ably there are actually a few. 1-you can't make someone do or become something that they don't want to do. 2-only you and him, know the meat of your relationship. You said yourself that it wasn't a ideal relationship. IF you are fighting in front of MIA, you change her perception. You metamorphosis who they are when you fight. You shouldn't do that. If it isn't a good relationship as you stated, then your first priority should be her. If instead, you and he are still civil with each other, that is great too. His condition is to take care of her. If he is not in her life span, there are ways to go about making sure he pays his child cupport. You can rob him to court. She, as she gets older, will realize what kind of father he is. Hopefully a perfect one. You have to be strong for her. Don't be in a bad relationship a moment ago to not be by yourself.
Good luck, you are a mom. You can do this!
Time heal everything. You just have to think positive no event how hard it is right now. Remember that everything happens for a principle and you have a beautiful little girl now.
It's going to be tough for a while. Especially since he is still in your life and probably will be if he wants anything to do next to his daughter. So it's not going to be easy. YOU are the only one who can come to peace all of this. No one can support you. You have to be okay with it. Though you had right times, weren't there bad ones too? You can't dwell on the good times if nearby were more bad ones. And you will have even more better times near your next relationship.. He is not the only guy out there. Just because you own a daughter with him doesn't mean your life is coming to an ruin and you will not have these feelings towards another guy.
Easier said then done. Esp someone else helping you. My best advice- Time heal everything. I promise it will all be okay. :) It is still fairly new this arranged, correct? In time- it will all be ok.
F***k him, if he's not man enough to be a part of his daughter's existence, he's not worth s***t. Get over it and find yourself a real man and stop feeling sorry for yourself
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