I'm upset of Childbirth?
No I'm not pregnant and not trying either. And yes I'm very fertile. But I saw a photo of a woman giving birth and I started to panic. Can anyone describe the aching? I have a zero threshold for pain and I am thinking of adopt instead. My mum told me not to even think about not having my own kids. But I don't presume I could go through the pain of it all. Please support. I'm so scared. If I did get pregnant later on surrounded by future, I can so see myself panic and being anxious right from the word step which would not help me or the baby. Please advice adjectives mothers!
Yes it hurts. Alot. And its scary. Oddly enough I be more scared before my second daughter was born than the first (maybe wreak I remembered how bad it hurt? lol)But its a pain that you forget in a heartbeat. I remember when my first be born saying to my mother while I was in toil "WHY ON EARTH WOULD ANYONE DO THIS MORE THAN ONCE?!" Yet here I am with baby number two :) And the next hours of daylight when people asked how bad it was I hear myself sayng "Oh not at all". Its one of those things that once its done, its done. The pain is gone and the reward is SO worth it!
Also, I had completely natural childbirth near both (no meds, no epidural) and from what I hear the epidural makes a HUGE difference. My sister said she didn't feel ANY pain after she have it :)
I have a not anything threshold to pain as well. I am currently 31wks with my first child. My midwife say that she has seen many women deliver next to a zero pain threshold and be fine and see many women who are great next to pain and not do so well with it comes to the aching of child birth.
I also suffer from anxiety attacks (also having a fear of hospital doesn't help) but I've been fine through the integral thing. Yes, I've been to hospital more than most pregnant woman mostly because of my zero discomfort threshold but that's what the midwives are there for. =]
You can't really ask to describe the pain because it will be different for everyone.
There is great pain involved with child birth but at hand are things they can give you against the pain. Like an epidural, which numbs you from the waist down.
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There really is no way to describe the pain. Every entity is different. My best friend didn't have much pain at all. I otherwise had lots of pain with my first, but not as much near my second. I wouldn't recommend you going all natural though, get the epidural. It works. In the appendage the kids are so worth the pain you went through. Just remember the pain doesn't closing long, but the kids and the love you will have forever.
Mm... yes it hurts... a lot. How old-fashioned are you?
When I was younger I was terrified of childbirth and thought I'd never have kids for this reason. The fear lessened when I conceived our son at 20. I gave birth at 21... I chose to do so in need pain relief (to avoid side effects and to fully experience the process). Sure, it was bloody... but I would it do it all again.
I had a 13 hour labor, but terminated up having an emergency c-section.
The labor contractions were really, really painful. It feel like you are being electrocuted. I was really afraid of what the spasm would feel like too, but once it starts, you just give the impression of being to be able to cope with it, it's very strong to explain.
But if you are that afraid of the pain, you could easily have an epidural, I have one to prep me for the c-section and the pain went away instantly, I felt nil...it was soooo good, lol.
I newly had my 1st baby and I was fearful, let me tell you I never believed when they said that you forget the pain, but yes you do, my tot is only 2 weeks and I couldnt even tell you what I went thru.
It be painful yes, but after you get the epidural you dont feel as much
trust me if I did it, anyone could do it!
own a baby, you will be stronger than you ever thought you could. I didnt fainted and I handle it noiseless good.
trust me, it's not as bad as deeply of people say. i was contained by lbaor for 19 ours and pushed for one and I would do it all again in a heartbeat. it's like unpromising diarrhea cramps for the contractions and the baby coming out isn't as bad as those, just a burning. you can also catch the epidural to block the pain
My baby was breech position and I have a caesarean, so I can't comment on a vaginal birth (although I wish I could). I really expected a lot of pain and it DID hurt after as I recovered, but I recovered slightly quickly and it wasn't as bad as I had built it up to be. I deliberate once it has happened you learn to matter with it because you have to. It does hurt, but so many women shift back for more so we have the coping mechanisms to matter with it. But yeah, it is scary!
It is different for everyone. But the reward of holding that beautiful baby surrounded by your arms afterward makes you forget any pain you might endure. Don't verbs.. and when you are ready, if you have a good doctor, he or she will be glad to answer any questions you have.
I was anxious about it, for sure.
But from the moment I saw the + on the pregnancy tryout, I made NO qualms about getting an epidural. Haha.
I am kind of a wuss when it comes to pain. And I'm not going to fake, it was pretty effing painful. I was have contractions for about 16 hours before I got my epidural and after roughly 10 minutes of getting it I was fully dilated. It's really hard to describe. Your big giant belly gets really really thorny during a contraction. Like someone has a huge rubber band around your stomach and it just keep getting tighter and tighter.
Breathing really does help manage the pain. I did not brand a single peep, let alone any screams during adjectives of that. I just gripped the bar on the side of the bed like a crazy party and tried to breathe my way through them.
I was scared, but the prospect of have my baby girl made it all more than worth it.
you could get a surrogate mother to carry your toddler to term like Angela Bassett did, Me and my wife did it, My Wife died last year, Its the best item I ever did in my life. God bless you all
even the annoying mothers within here that think they know everything
Answers: For me the contractions were painful i will not lie but when you are giving birth adjectives i thought of was the baby at the end and tolerated the dull pain then got an epidural
its painless if u get to hold the drugs, if not its like taking ur lower lip and forcing it over ur head lol but once the tot is out the pain is gone
Who do you want to help dear, your little baby darling or yourself? Your pet baby also have to make highest efforts to work its way out. By using painkillers it makes it more smooth for you. but your contractions will be less strong, that makes it more hard on your toddler.
But.. it is an option. Especially in the USA where they use painkillers frequently when giving birth. In The Netherlands [my home land] they present birth as naturally as possible. But if you are scared for pain.. yes you might do it the American agency. Pain is relative, how much you would bear in case to hide away your very life, ... your baby's life? So if you know that it is singular for a short period [a few hours] the reward will be tremendous. You can inform your OB-GYNE so she/he will make sure that you feel smaller number discomfort. Your baby darling though needs to step through it all without painkillers. The pain is untaught and has a purpose,. you will push harder. to get it over with. My direction is. go all the way and you will be so bullish to have helped your little darling infant to come out as fast as possible.! After labor there is a huge reward!
yes it hurts - but thats what the spasm relief drugs are for and anyway - it might seem impossible but after you forget all nearly the pain and its so worth it!
Indescribable! imagine sh!ting a bowling ball.
It's painful, but you must think of it as productive pain. And, once that child is born and surrounded by mom's arms, there is no pain that disappears as quickly and completely.
It ends... and it ends contained by a wonderful reward for your labor most of the time. My mantra for my natural births was, "billions of women, for millions of years have given birth this mode -- I can too."
What you need to do, when you are ready, is start to learn more around birth and see some wonderful births. There are so many out there that women have chosen to share near us... one incredible film is Orgasmic Birth.
You'll begin to see it as a miraculous process, and begin to devise: "I can too!"
How do you know you're fertile? It takes more than having period to be able to carry a child for 9 months.
Anyway, once you get pregnant, you will (should) want the best for your kid which involves delivering as safely as possible and ignore that niggle, or scream for painkillers.
You can always find an epidural for pain. I had both of my girls without one..and it does hurt slightly a bit while they are being born (sort of a burning feeling) but when it is all over you forget about it. The misery is instantly gone. Plus you get a big rush of endorphins. I think that the videos that they show of women giving birth can be for a while dramatic. Not everyone has such a hard time as they show in the video. If you stay quite active throughout your pregnancy...the baby is born plentifully easier and you recover much faster. Having a baby is nothing to be startled about. It is something incredible and should be celebrated, not dreaded.
The pain is similar to a intense burning pain does it hurt hell yes it does (well worse without pain meds I did both untaught and epi), I am telling you it is nothing you cannot handle, I be scared the second time around once it is time to push you forget your fears and just do it, please do not let this stand surrounded by the way of having your own children.
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Yes it hurts. Alot. And its scary. Oddly enough I be more scared before my second daughter was born than the first (maybe wreak I remembered how bad it hurt? lol)But its a pain that you forget in a heartbeat. I remember when my first be born saying to my mother while I was in toil "WHY ON EARTH WOULD ANYONE DO THIS MORE THAN ONCE?!" Yet here I am with baby number two :) And the next hours of daylight when people asked how bad it was I hear myself sayng "Oh not at all". Its one of those things that once its done, its done. The pain is gone and the reward is SO worth it!
Also, I had completely natural childbirth near both (no meds, no epidural) and from what I hear the epidural makes a HUGE difference. My sister said she didn't feel ANY pain after she have it :)
I have a not anything threshold to pain as well. I am currently 31wks with my first child. My midwife say that she has seen many women deliver next to a zero pain threshold and be fine and see many women who are great next to pain and not do so well with it comes to the aching of child birth.
I also suffer from anxiety attacks (also having a fear of hospital doesn't help) but I've been fine through the integral thing. Yes, I've been to hospital more than most pregnant woman mostly because of my zero discomfort threshold but that's what the midwives are there for. =]
You can't really ask to describe the pain because it will be different for everyone.
There is great pain involved with child birth but at hand are things they can give you against the pain. Like an epidural, which numbs you from the waist down.
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There really is no way to describe the pain. Every entity is different. My best friend didn't have much pain at all. I otherwise had lots of pain with my first, but not as much near my second. I wouldn't recommend you going all natural though, get the epidural. It works. In the appendage the kids are so worth the pain you went through. Just remember the pain doesn't closing long, but the kids and the love you will have forever.
Mm... yes it hurts... a lot. How old-fashioned are you?
When I was younger I was terrified of childbirth and thought I'd never have kids for this reason. The fear lessened when I conceived our son at 20. I gave birth at 21... I chose to do so in need pain relief (to avoid side effects and to fully experience the process). Sure, it was bloody... but I would it do it all again.
I had a 13 hour labor, but terminated up having an emergency c-section.
The labor contractions were really, really painful. It feel like you are being electrocuted. I was really afraid of what the spasm would feel like too, but once it starts, you just give the impression of being to be able to cope with it, it's very strong to explain.
But if you are that afraid of the pain, you could easily have an epidural, I have one to prep me for the c-section and the pain went away instantly, I felt nil...it was soooo good, lol.
I newly had my 1st baby and I was fearful, let me tell you I never believed when they said that you forget the pain, but yes you do, my tot is only 2 weeks and I couldnt even tell you what I went thru.
It be painful yes, but after you get the epidural you dont feel as much
trust me if I did it, anyone could do it!
own a baby, you will be stronger than you ever thought you could. I didnt fainted and I handle it noiseless good.
trust me, it's not as bad as deeply of people say. i was contained by lbaor for 19 ours and pushed for one and I would do it all again in a heartbeat. it's like unpromising diarrhea cramps for the contractions and the baby coming out isn't as bad as those, just a burning. you can also catch the epidural to block the pain
My baby was breech position and I have a caesarean, so I can't comment on a vaginal birth (although I wish I could). I really expected a lot of pain and it DID hurt after as I recovered, but I recovered slightly quickly and it wasn't as bad as I had built it up to be. I deliberate once it has happened you learn to matter with it because you have to. It does hurt, but so many women shift back for more so we have the coping mechanisms to matter with it. But yeah, it is scary!
It is different for everyone. But the reward of holding that beautiful baby surrounded by your arms afterward makes you forget any pain you might endure. Don't verbs.. and when you are ready, if you have a good doctor, he or she will be glad to answer any questions you have.
I was anxious about it, for sure.
But from the moment I saw the + on the pregnancy tryout, I made NO qualms about getting an epidural. Haha.
I am kind of a wuss when it comes to pain. And I'm not going to fake, it was pretty effing painful. I was have contractions for about 16 hours before I got my epidural and after roughly 10 minutes of getting it I was fully dilated. It's really hard to describe. Your big giant belly gets really really thorny during a contraction. Like someone has a huge rubber band around your stomach and it just keep getting tighter and tighter.
Breathing really does help manage the pain. I did not brand a single peep, let alone any screams during adjectives of that. I just gripped the bar on the side of the bed like a crazy party and tried to breathe my way through them.
I was scared, but the prospect of have my baby girl made it all more than worth it.
you could get a surrogate mother to carry your toddler to term like Angela Bassett did, Me and my wife did it, My Wife died last year, Its the best item I ever did in my life. God bless you all
even the annoying mothers within here that think they know everything
Answers: For me the contractions were painful i will not lie but when you are giving birth adjectives i thought of was the baby at the end and tolerated the dull pain then got an epidural
its painless if u get to hold the drugs, if not its like taking ur lower lip and forcing it over ur head lol but once the tot is out the pain is gone
Who do you want to help dear, your little baby darling or yourself? Your pet baby also have to make highest efforts to work its way out. By using painkillers it makes it more smooth for you. but your contractions will be less strong, that makes it more hard on your toddler.
But.. it is an option. Especially in the USA where they use painkillers frequently when giving birth. In The Netherlands [my home land] they present birth as naturally as possible. But if you are scared for pain.. yes you might do it the American agency. Pain is relative, how much you would bear in case to hide away your very life, ... your baby's life? So if you know that it is singular for a short period [a few hours] the reward will be tremendous. You can inform your OB-GYNE so she/he will make sure that you feel smaller number discomfort. Your baby darling though needs to step through it all without painkillers. The pain is untaught and has a purpose,. you will push harder. to get it over with. My direction is. go all the way and you will be so bullish to have helped your little darling infant to come out as fast as possible.! After labor there is a huge reward!
yes it hurts - but thats what the spasm relief drugs are for and anyway - it might seem impossible but after you forget all nearly the pain and its so worth it!
Indescribable! imagine sh!ting a bowling ball.
It's painful, but you must think of it as productive pain. And, once that child is born and surrounded by mom's arms, there is no pain that disappears as quickly and completely.
It ends... and it ends contained by a wonderful reward for your labor most of the time. My mantra for my natural births was, "billions of women, for millions of years have given birth this mode -- I can too."
What you need to do, when you are ready, is start to learn more around birth and see some wonderful births. There are so many out there that women have chosen to share near us... one incredible film is Orgasmic Birth.
You'll begin to see it as a miraculous process, and begin to devise: "I can too!"
How do you know you're fertile? It takes more than having period to be able to carry a child for 9 months.
Anyway, once you get pregnant, you will (should) want the best for your kid which involves delivering as safely as possible and ignore that niggle, or scream for painkillers.
You can always find an epidural for pain. I had both of my girls without one..and it does hurt slightly a bit while they are being born (sort of a burning feeling) but when it is all over you forget about it. The misery is instantly gone. Plus you get a big rush of endorphins. I think that the videos that they show of women giving birth can be for a while dramatic. Not everyone has such a hard time as they show in the video. If you stay quite active throughout your pregnancy...the baby is born plentifully easier and you recover much faster. Having a baby is nothing to be startled about. It is something incredible and should be celebrated, not dreaded.
The pain is similar to a intense burning pain does it hurt hell yes it does (well worse without pain meds I did both untaught and epi), I am telling you it is nothing you cannot handle, I be scared the second time around once it is time to push you forget your fears and just do it, please do not let this stand surrounded by the way of having your own children.
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