Young mothers around 22 years infirm, answer this please?
To the "young" moms out there (although i must ask, why does society think 22 is young to reproduce, its the hilltop time to make babies, so i thought...) how do you do it? ;) Devoting your life to baby, husband (or b/f, partner, whatever), working full time, keeping the house up, still keeping a somewhat usual social life/ social interaction with others, and still stay sane?
Darlin, I am 22 and I work (and the tot goes with me to work so its far from a break), keep up the house, run the errands, earnings the bills, deal with my 30 years old going on 12 boyfriend, treaty with the dog, etc etc. Its tough, but I am far from sane anymore...
I'm 20 and my baby is 4 months matured. I haven't had to deal with cleaning the house and working on the other hand, but I'm returning to work next week. And we're moving into a new place at the end of the month. But, my fiancee is SO supportive and great. He helps with everything and I counted on him a lot simply after the baby was born. It's hard to return to a social energy. Having a baby around and no babysitter has put going to the movies as a very unusual event. My friends have all moved about 45 miles away inside the last year. I've gotten over it though, expeciallly since I'll be returning to work and have plenty of people at hand to talk to.
I am 22.
I am a SAHM mom, so this helps me keep my house clean. As far as devoting my vivacity to my son and husband, I dunno, kinda comes naturally.
I do have days I feel approaching I am gonna loose it, I think all mothers, despite any age, have days close to these.
As far as a social life, well, I still have one of those as ably. Obviously not as active as it was before have a baby, but none the less, it does still exist.
A couple of my friends do have kids. So this is nice, because we can vent and chat, and analysis were we are coming from.
I still do out on occasion too, as well as my husband. But, its usually, I stir out with girls one evening well hubby stays home with our son, and later we switch off.
Our son goes down to bed at 8:00, so after 8, we let respectively other go out when the mood strikes either one of us.
I'm not 22, I'm 29, but as a full time working mom I must tell you it is VERY rock-hard to do everything. And I've had to learn to "ask for help"
you don't have to do it adjectives and you don't have to do everything perfect either.
I ask my husband to help out out w/ the dishes or laundry (heck he helped make the mess he can help)
So I'm not insane (yet) but I am exhausted!
Well I hope this doesn't sound too pessimistic, but I don't think anybody can do adjectives that, regardless of ones age. The biggest thing I had to decide is how to prioritize. That intended basically cutting out most of the "social life" that I had. Now, anybody I sway out with, when I do, has kids around the same age as mine and the "social" quantity of my day is also the "social" part of my kids' day. I.e. a play date.
I'm elder now, 27, but I had my first at 18 and managed to clutch care of the household chores, go to school full time, and work chunk time.
So anyway, somethings gotta give. You can't live life the same path as before you had kids. Do you slack on the housework? Cut out the Saturday shopping and movies with friends? Only work factor time? It's a personal decision that every mother must make.
I am not sane. so I can't answer that interrogate :)
I'm 23 and I think I'm relatively young I guess -- none of my friends have babies. I earn a bit of money charitable for my grandmother but my boyfriend works full time to support us all. I have learned that anything I want to do for myself needs to be done quickly and efficiently and if it's not, it won't seize done. I don't get a lot of social interaction, but I take my babe out for walks and we have our friends over every so often. I also shift out for 2 or 3 hours once a week when my baby is down and daddy is in charge :) that helps greatly.
i'm 29, stay at home, don't work, don't clean the house, just try to keep up near laundry and dishes, my hubby works overnights. there is no way to be sane after you have a babe-in-arms. i figure once she starts to walk my life will grasp easier. i thought being a stay at home mom would be easier than working.. i'm not so sure that's the case anymore
i don't know either why nation say when you are in your 20's and you have a tot they say we are young. like hello we are path above teenage age. i guess they think 30's is the time you are not considered to be young. which i guess that is so wrong. i am 21 years old and my baby is 2 months matured. for me thank god i am a house wife because i wouldn't be able to work take care of the infant and clean up the house. but being a house wife can get awfully lonely. i hate it sometimes i wish i worked. what i suggest is do a little of everything everyday and help yourself to it slow. just make sure you enjoy your babe more than anything. time goes by really quick and you have to appreciate those moments. right earlier you know it they are already toddlers
Answers: I was just turned 20 when I have my first, and about to turn 22 when I had my second. I am 23, and 18 weeks with number three, and couldn't be happier! I be ready to get married, we dated for around 2 years, were affianced for 9 months, and it has been a trip!
I never wanted a job, I love my kids, I want to homeschool, I teach at a homeschool co-op, we go on trips, My husband is a police officer, and I go next to him every now and then as a ride along, (that is a blast!). We have a pretty big circle of friends who are also infantile couples with kids. That helps. I am a stay at home mom, but that just method we can go to the park, the beach, (we live near one) or really somewhere we want. We have worked hard to train our kids to be respectful, kind and to play gently if we need them to.
We go on dates, both of us own parents who live close, and I get along great with my mother in regulation, so we can leave the kids and be adults again.
Since we are friends with people who are within the same category as us, socializing isn't hard.
But in adjectives truth the biggest reason is because of God, and both me and my husband loving Him more than each breath. He makes sure our requirements are met on a single income, and we are still best friends with each other. We never fell of of love, and I know I am young, but I own been married for almost 5 years, so I know a thing or two about keeping a well brought-up mans interest and affection. =) Source(s): Love God, and do your best. Every thing else will fall into place.
And not to nouns sappy, everyone has wretched days when they cry alot. But the good days are far more.
Just got to swot to let things go, Social interaction will return once your baby learn to speak but by then your conversations will consist of the toy of the moment. As for the sanity? I think mine is any in the toy box or sand box but either way it is long gone LOL.
I'm 22, I've been married for 2 years and be a nurse for a year and a half. I have a 4 mth old newborn boy, along with 2 cats and 2 dogs. I changed my work schedule to working nights so my husband would be next to him at night and I could be with him during the day, he be born 2 months early and I wasn't comfortable with daycare. So with the prematurity we enjoy had TONS of doctors appointments. My husband and I work really well together and share ALOT of the responsibilities. We don't do the whole "man's stuff" "woman's stuff" We work together to bring it done so we can get rest! For the first little bit we took shifts watching our son, I'd be up with him for a 6 hours or so then he'd receive up while i rested. But, the older he gets the easier it gets... so far! i know he will start running around and such but not one fed as often, not as many doctors appointments etc. will surely sustain! Good Luck! Source(s): Wife.
Mom to Mark, my beautiful 16 wk old baby boy
i just do it. it's a life i chose, and i love it. i enjoy the most caring husband, and most beautiful baby girl, IMO obviously. :)
it's not for everyone though. Source(s): navy wife & mama!
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Darlin, I am 22 and I work (and the tot goes with me to work so its far from a break), keep up the house, run the errands, earnings the bills, deal with my 30 years old going on 12 boyfriend, treaty with the dog, etc etc. Its tough, but I am far from sane anymore...
I'm 20 and my baby is 4 months matured. I haven't had to deal with cleaning the house and working on the other hand, but I'm returning to work next week. And we're moving into a new place at the end of the month. But, my fiancee is SO supportive and great. He helps with everything and I counted on him a lot simply after the baby was born. It's hard to return to a social energy. Having a baby around and no babysitter has put going to the movies as a very unusual event. My friends have all moved about 45 miles away inside the last year. I've gotten over it though, expeciallly since I'll be returning to work and have plenty of people at hand to talk to.
I am 22.
I am a SAHM mom, so this helps me keep my house clean. As far as devoting my vivacity to my son and husband, I dunno, kinda comes naturally.
I do have days I feel approaching I am gonna loose it, I think all mothers, despite any age, have days close to these.
As far as a social life, well, I still have one of those as ably. Obviously not as active as it was before have a baby, but none the less, it does still exist.
A couple of my friends do have kids. So this is nice, because we can vent and chat, and analysis were we are coming from.
I still do out on occasion too, as well as my husband. But, its usually, I stir out with girls one evening well hubby stays home with our son, and later we switch off.
Our son goes down to bed at 8:00, so after 8, we let respectively other go out when the mood strikes either one of us.
I'm not 22, I'm 29, but as a full time working mom I must tell you it is VERY rock-hard to do everything. And I've had to learn to "ask for help"
you don't have to do it adjectives and you don't have to do everything perfect either.
I ask my husband to help out out w/ the dishes or laundry (heck he helped make the mess he can help)
So I'm not insane (yet) but I am exhausted!
Well I hope this doesn't sound too pessimistic, but I don't think anybody can do adjectives that, regardless of ones age. The biggest thing I had to decide is how to prioritize. That intended basically cutting out most of the "social life" that I had. Now, anybody I sway out with, when I do, has kids around the same age as mine and the "social" quantity of my day is also the "social" part of my kids' day. I.e. a play date.
I'm elder now, 27, but I had my first at 18 and managed to clutch care of the household chores, go to school full time, and work chunk time.
So anyway, somethings gotta give. You can't live life the same path as before you had kids. Do you slack on the housework? Cut out the Saturday shopping and movies with friends? Only work factor time? It's a personal decision that every mother must make.
I am not sane. so I can't answer that interrogate :)
I'm 23 and I think I'm relatively young I guess -- none of my friends have babies. I earn a bit of money charitable for my grandmother but my boyfriend works full time to support us all. I have learned that anything I want to do for myself needs to be done quickly and efficiently and if it's not, it won't seize done. I don't get a lot of social interaction, but I take my babe out for walks and we have our friends over every so often. I also shift out for 2 or 3 hours once a week when my baby is down and daddy is in charge :) that helps greatly.
i'm 29, stay at home, don't work, don't clean the house, just try to keep up near laundry and dishes, my hubby works overnights. there is no way to be sane after you have a babe-in-arms. i figure once she starts to walk my life will grasp easier. i thought being a stay at home mom would be easier than working.. i'm not so sure that's the case anymore
i don't know either why nation say when you are in your 20's and you have a tot they say we are young. like hello we are path above teenage age. i guess they think 30's is the time you are not considered to be young. which i guess that is so wrong. i am 21 years old and my baby is 2 months matured. for me thank god i am a house wife because i wouldn't be able to work take care of the infant and clean up the house. but being a house wife can get awfully lonely. i hate it sometimes i wish i worked. what i suggest is do a little of everything everyday and help yourself to it slow. just make sure you enjoy your babe more than anything. time goes by really quick and you have to appreciate those moments. right earlier you know it they are already toddlers
Answers: I was just turned 20 when I have my first, and about to turn 22 when I had my second. I am 23, and 18 weeks with number three, and couldn't be happier! I be ready to get married, we dated for around 2 years, were affianced for 9 months, and it has been a trip!
I never wanted a job, I love my kids, I want to homeschool, I teach at a homeschool co-op, we go on trips, My husband is a police officer, and I go next to him every now and then as a ride along, (that is a blast!). We have a pretty big circle of friends who are also infantile couples with kids. That helps. I am a stay at home mom, but that just method we can go to the park, the beach, (we live near one) or really somewhere we want. We have worked hard to train our kids to be respectful, kind and to play gently if we need them to.
We go on dates, both of us own parents who live close, and I get along great with my mother in regulation, so we can leave the kids and be adults again.
Since we are friends with people who are within the same category as us, socializing isn't hard.
But in adjectives truth the biggest reason is because of God, and both me and my husband loving Him more than each breath. He makes sure our requirements are met on a single income, and we are still best friends with each other. We never fell of of love, and I know I am young, but I own been married for almost 5 years, so I know a thing or two about keeping a well brought-up mans interest and affection. =) Source(s): Love God, and do your best. Every thing else will fall into place.
And not to nouns sappy, everyone has wretched days when they cry alot. But the good days are far more.
Just got to swot to let things go, Social interaction will return once your baby learn to speak but by then your conversations will consist of the toy of the moment. As for the sanity? I think mine is any in the toy box or sand box but either way it is long gone LOL.
I'm 22, I've been married for 2 years and be a nurse for a year and a half. I have a 4 mth old newborn boy, along with 2 cats and 2 dogs. I changed my work schedule to working nights so my husband would be next to him at night and I could be with him during the day, he be born 2 months early and I wasn't comfortable with daycare. So with the prematurity we enjoy had TONS of doctors appointments. My husband and I work really well together and share ALOT of the responsibilities. We don't do the whole "man's stuff" "woman's stuff" We work together to bring it done so we can get rest! For the first little bit we took shifts watching our son, I'd be up with him for a 6 hours or so then he'd receive up while i rested. But, the older he gets the easier it gets... so far! i know he will start running around and such but not one fed as often, not as many doctors appointments etc. will surely sustain! Good Luck! Source(s): Wife.
Mom to Mark, my beautiful 16 wk old baby boy
i just do it. it's a life i chose, and i love it. i enjoy the most caring husband, and most beautiful baby girl, IMO obviously. :)
it's not for everyone though. Source(s): navy wife & mama!
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