10 yr. outmoded son have stomach issues when face next to stress or trial change?
My 10 yr. old son always needs to use the bathroom any once or several times during the day when he faces something new. We have this problem at school and some of the kids were starting to make fun at him because he be using the bathroom so much and taking a long time too. When he started camp he had to run to a public restroom right before the bus be to get him. He almost missed the bus. Has anyone's child had this issue and did they ever take anything for it? My son worries very soon that he would get that stomach pain around a new situation and would hold to run to the bathroom. When he is at home around the family this would never happen.
When asked which area of the body contains the cells that help out in dealing with emotion, most culture know they lie in our brain but few are aware that they are also contained in the stomach bin liner! No wonder so many of us have digestive reaction when facing stressful situations.
You can prepare your boy (and yourself) free and easy methods to deal with stress through weighty breathing, imagery, etc. Find a book at the library or specialty book dealer that teaches topics such as self-hypnosis/imagery/visualization for relaxation. If you enjoy the money, you can find a qualified hypnotherapist for starting at around $100 to teach your son these life-coping skills!
(Please don't start your little one on drug therapy...watch the documentary GenerationRX for a upsetting look at what is happening to the youth in our country.)
PS ~ Remember to avoid the "don't" scenario when helping your child. The mind ignores the "not" bit and focuses on exactly what you are trying to avoid. Example" "Don't think of a purple cow". Instead, teach him to think within positives, i.e.: "I feel relaxed and healthy.", "I am a strong person."
Good luck. Source(s): I am a certified hypnotherapist.
My daughter sometimes get this and she is 8. When she eat too much, something at doesn't agree with her or she's nervous she have the runs. She takes pepto bismol or 2 tums. I guess they work because she doesn't complain much after.
Answers: My sons, my husband, and my in law are all like that. I guess they 'internalize' their emotions and it comes out, resourcefully, in the bathroom. It has become a family trick of sorts, but it can be embarrassing.
It got so bad next to one of my sons when he was about 9, that we had him sermon with the school counselor. Turns out, he was putting seriously of stress on himself and worrying about things that he did not need to worry in the order of. He finally got to where he could 'let go' of absolute things and that caused a lot less trips to the bathroom.
We did hold some medical testing done on him to make sure there be no physical issues, like food allergies or ulcers. All the medical tests come back normal, so we know it is a 'mental' thing.
Now if my sons know they are roughly speaking to be faced with something that might cause them to 'go' they run a half dose of an anti-diarheal (like Imodium.) It is enough to prevent emergencies, but not plenty to 'stop them up.'
My advice, doctor visit first to see if there are food allergies. Then discussion with a counselor, then preventative measures like the Imodium.
Good luck!
This isn't righteous. He needs to learn to handle adaptation better. Change most of the time ends up benefiting and its for the good, so him getting stomach pains every time something new comes around, yeah that isn't good. Change is a cut of life.
Stress? He is 10 year old boy?! What stress could a 10 year old boy possibly own? Im a 30 almost 31 year old man and I don't stress over nothing. Most males and that includes boys, don't stress all that much and not over duplicate thing, nor to the same degree that pubescent girls and you women do.
This isn't good as far as your son. He needs to get facilitate for this. This isn't normal.
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When asked which area of the body contains the cells that help out in dealing with emotion, most culture know they lie in our brain but few are aware that they are also contained in the stomach bin liner! No wonder so many of us have digestive reaction when facing stressful situations.
You can prepare your boy (and yourself) free and easy methods to deal with stress through weighty breathing, imagery, etc. Find a book at the library or specialty book dealer that teaches topics such as self-hypnosis/imagery/visualization for relaxation. If you enjoy the money, you can find a qualified hypnotherapist for starting at around $100 to teach your son these life-coping skills!
(Please don't start your little one on drug therapy...watch the documentary GenerationRX for a upsetting look at what is happening to the youth in our country.)
PS ~ Remember to avoid the "don't" scenario when helping your child. The mind ignores the "not" bit and focuses on exactly what you are trying to avoid. Example" "Don't think of a purple cow". Instead, teach him to think within positives, i.e.: "I feel relaxed and healthy.", "I am a strong person."
Good luck. Source(s): I am a certified hypnotherapist.
My daughter sometimes get this and she is 8. When she eat too much, something at doesn't agree with her or she's nervous she have the runs. She takes pepto bismol or 2 tums. I guess they work because she doesn't complain much after.
Answers: My sons, my husband, and my in law are all like that. I guess they 'internalize' their emotions and it comes out, resourcefully, in the bathroom. It has become a family trick of sorts, but it can be embarrassing.
It got so bad next to one of my sons when he was about 9, that we had him sermon with the school counselor. Turns out, he was putting seriously of stress on himself and worrying about things that he did not need to worry in the order of. He finally got to where he could 'let go' of absolute things and that caused a lot less trips to the bathroom.
We did hold some medical testing done on him to make sure there be no physical issues, like food allergies or ulcers. All the medical tests come back normal, so we know it is a 'mental' thing.
Now if my sons know they are roughly speaking to be faced with something that might cause them to 'go' they run a half dose of an anti-diarheal (like Imodium.) It is enough to prevent emergencies, but not plenty to 'stop them up.'
My advice, doctor visit first to see if there are food allergies. Then discussion with a counselor, then preventative measures like the Imodium.
Good luck!
This isn't righteous. He needs to learn to handle adaptation better. Change most of the time ends up benefiting and its for the good, so him getting stomach pains every time something new comes around, yeah that isn't good. Change is a cut of life.
Stress? He is 10 year old boy?! What stress could a 10 year old boy possibly own? Im a 30 almost 31 year old man and I don't stress over nothing. Most males and that includes boys, don't stress all that much and not over duplicate thing, nor to the same degree that pubescent girls and you women do.
This isn't good as far as your son. He needs to get facilitate for this. This isn't normal.
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