6 yr outmoded near impossible attitude?
our 6yr old daughter has been conversation back a lot and also shouting at us rudely when frustrated. how can we teach her to monitor herself and whats an appropriate punishment for such behavior? when we relay her its time for a punishment she begs for a 2nd chance. but later, same behavior.
Stick to your guns. No more second chances. None! A little tough love to show her you are the boss - not her. It'll probably construct you feel bad for a little while and will be tempt to give in to her whining, but you'll have to be strong and correct the doomed to failure behavior. It'll take work, but it'll be worth it. Otherwise - it's just going to get worse. Consistency is knob. Don't let her walk all over you. She wants to learn (and remember) who is boss.
Good luck!
My daughter would speak rudely sometimes and I was getting frustrated. I bought her a CD to play while she was asleep at dark. It actually helped alot because when she woke up in the monrings she would hold more positive thoughts. You could try that.
Alternatively, you could try around the dinner table saying positve things about everybody. I make my kids do that sometimes when they hold been talking a bit rudely. I just draw from them to practice talking nicely
stand your ground if it bothers you.
it might give the impression of being mean, but she is just going to keep doing it if you don't show her the consequences.
manufacture her time out for 10 minutes.
Let her know up front what the punishment for certain behaviors is make a chronicle and put it up on the fridge that way you wont over react in the steam of the moment and she has already been warned of the consequencess.
Answers: Tell her she get one warning and after that it is punishment time.
Tell her when you warn her what exactly will happen subsequent. Explain as if you were typing a legal document and needed full detail.
Example "You know that is against the rules, and this is your alarm. If I catch you doing that again you will be taken to your room and you'll get a (spanking, timeout, or something.)"
If she repeats the same behavior contained by a short time period then that probably channel she doesn't really mind the punishment you give her, but it is more or less a burden.
When I was little and my parents said I have to go to my room for 15 minutes, I would try to get out of it but I wouldn't really care. If my dad told me I would be paddled I'd shut up.
If you be to spank it wouldn't even necessarily have to hurt for her to hate it. A few swats that only grounds very minimal discomfort will make her start balling and fear the punishment most probable.
I remember that I was spanked, but I don't actually remember any of my spankings actually hurting, I purely didn't like being held down and punished really.
Good luck with anything you do.
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Stick to your guns. No more second chances. None! A little tough love to show her you are the boss - not her. It'll probably construct you feel bad for a little while and will be tempt to give in to her whining, but you'll have to be strong and correct the doomed to failure behavior. It'll take work, but it'll be worth it. Otherwise - it's just going to get worse. Consistency is knob. Don't let her walk all over you. She wants to learn (and remember) who is boss.
Good luck!
My daughter would speak rudely sometimes and I was getting frustrated. I bought her a CD to play while she was asleep at dark. It actually helped alot because when she woke up in the monrings she would hold more positive thoughts. You could try that.
Alternatively, you could try around the dinner table saying positve things about everybody. I make my kids do that sometimes when they hold been talking a bit rudely. I just draw from them to practice talking nicely
stand your ground if it bothers you.
it might give the impression of being mean, but she is just going to keep doing it if you don't show her the consequences.
manufacture her time out for 10 minutes.
Let her know up front what the punishment for certain behaviors is make a chronicle and put it up on the fridge that way you wont over react in the steam of the moment and she has already been warned of the consequencess.
Answers: Tell her she get one warning and after that it is punishment time.
Tell her when you warn her what exactly will happen subsequent. Explain as if you were typing a legal document and needed full detail.
Example "You know that is against the rules, and this is your alarm. If I catch you doing that again you will be taken to your room and you'll get a (spanking, timeout, or something.)"
If she repeats the same behavior contained by a short time period then that probably channel she doesn't really mind the punishment you give her, but it is more or less a burden.
When I was little and my parents said I have to go to my room for 15 minutes, I would try to get out of it but I wouldn't really care. If my dad told me I would be paddled I'd shut up.
If you be to spank it wouldn't even necessarily have to hurt for her to hate it. A few swats that only grounds very minimal discomfort will make her start balling and fear the punishment most probable.
I remember that I was spanked, but I don't actually remember any of my spankings actually hurting, I purely didn't like being held down and punished really.
Good luck with anything you do.
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