How do I explain to my 6yo son in the order of circumcision?
Our good friends are what for the weekend. Until monday night. They have a son who is 6, the age of our son. The two boys are friends, so we establish that there son could be with us. Instead of hireling a babysitter so they would not have a stranger or a teen looking after in attendance son for that long amount of time or in there house. Both moms (my wife, and his mother) both thought that it would be a good belief if I gave the boys a bath because they thought that boys, (not really mine, his mother has obviously seen him nude before, but more of his friend) would feel more comfortable if an other mannish bathed them. Any ways my son is not circumcise (nor am I) but his friend is last night they just looked at respectively other and thought it was kind of funny. But tonight when i was bathing them my son asked why be Sam's pee pee different then his. I did not know how to answer.
SIDE NOTE: His family is also Jewish. While my wife who was brought up contained by a reform jewish ( same as his friend), and I was not brought up in any religious environment. We have decide to bring our son up with the belief within a higher power with no real one and solely region. So how do I do it without touching on that either.
I was baby sitting my bestfriends brother and he asked me why his dad's penis looked different than his. (his father be circumcised and he is not). I told him that people used to think it was improved if doctors snipped a little bit of skin off the penis, but now they know that it's not improved so they didn't do it to you, so you still have that peice.
He bought it and never asked about it again, maybe you could detail him the same thing.
-Connor Source(s): I think it's wonderful you give your son the choice of what to do with his own body.
I never had that choice and think it's reat you did that. Goodluck beside the conversation!
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About what the second answerer said about telling him like you would any other soul, if you do that DO NOT do it with the other little boy around. I was 7 when I found out I was circumcised and my mother did that and honestly I be terrified of my parents for a while, I would sleep with my door locked because I was afraid they would sneek contained by my bedroom and right and cut more parts of my body off. At 6 it's not exactly the best age to be learning about this adjectives thing. Your son shouldn't have an issue but it might freak the other little boy out.
The best article to do id keep it simple,
All you have to right to be heard is "Sam's mum and dad are jewish, and that is just part of individual jewish"
Kids tend to accept simple answers, if he asks anymore questions on it just maintain it simple.
Answers: There is nothing better that to clear the line of communication with your little dude as early as possible and today would be the first door to be open. At 6 it may be too early to get technical but explain to him that that is to say the way he was born and that some parents when their little boys are born have the doctor cut away the skin on their penises. it is call circumcision. Not all boys get it done for example my mom and dad did not have it done to me, and i did not hold it done to you. You can show him that his looks like his friends under the skin by pulling it back as your doing that explain to him how to verbs it when he is taking a bath. (start the hygiene talk). After explaining and being open near your son ask him if he has any questions and that if he EVER has any question about his body or anything that you are there to answer his questions and never be afraid to ask you anything.
Dude if you enjoy the open line of communication your son will come to you when he needs recommend or has a problem. This will be the first of many talks you hold with your son about life, love, sex, and relationships. It is never to young-looking to start communicating with him you both will have a better relationship for it
use the correct names for the parts of his body
Peace dude
curtdude
no need to explain in detail.
Next time freshly say that some boys are circumcised and some are not and that it is inappropriate to look at other people's private places.
good luck!
He is six and it has to do with the male body. Just relate him the truth. Explain it to him how you would any other person.
"All penises are different. His just looks different than yours/ours."
Just utter his foreskin is missing, because his religion requires that babies lose their foreskin.
thats messed up
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SIDE NOTE: His family is also Jewish. While my wife who was brought up contained by a reform jewish ( same as his friend), and I was not brought up in any religious environment. We have decide to bring our son up with the belief within a higher power with no real one and solely region. So how do I do it without touching on that either.
I was baby sitting my bestfriends brother and he asked me why his dad's penis looked different than his. (his father be circumcised and he is not). I told him that people used to think it was improved if doctors snipped a little bit of skin off the penis, but now they know that it's not improved so they didn't do it to you, so you still have that peice.
He bought it and never asked about it again, maybe you could detail him the same thing.
-Connor Source(s): I think it's wonderful you give your son the choice of what to do with his own body.
I never had that choice and think it's reat you did that. Goodluck beside the conversation!
----------------
About what the second answerer said about telling him like you would any other soul, if you do that DO NOT do it with the other little boy around. I was 7 when I found out I was circumcised and my mother did that and honestly I be terrified of my parents for a while, I would sleep with my door locked because I was afraid they would sneek contained by my bedroom and right and cut more parts of my body off. At 6 it's not exactly the best age to be learning about this adjectives thing. Your son shouldn't have an issue but it might freak the other little boy out.
The best article to do id keep it simple,
All you have to right to be heard is "Sam's mum and dad are jewish, and that is just part of individual jewish"
Kids tend to accept simple answers, if he asks anymore questions on it just maintain it simple.
Answers: There is nothing better that to clear the line of communication with your little dude as early as possible and today would be the first door to be open. At 6 it may be too early to get technical but explain to him that that is to say the way he was born and that some parents when their little boys are born have the doctor cut away the skin on their penises. it is call circumcision. Not all boys get it done for example my mom and dad did not have it done to me, and i did not hold it done to you. You can show him that his looks like his friends under the skin by pulling it back as your doing that explain to him how to verbs it when he is taking a bath. (start the hygiene talk). After explaining and being open near your son ask him if he has any questions and that if he EVER has any question about his body or anything that you are there to answer his questions and never be afraid to ask you anything.
Dude if you enjoy the open line of communication your son will come to you when he needs recommend or has a problem. This will be the first of many talks you hold with your son about life, love, sex, and relationships. It is never to young-looking to start communicating with him you both will have a better relationship for it
use the correct names for the parts of his body
Peace dude
curtdude
no need to explain in detail.
Next time freshly say that some boys are circumcised and some are not and that it is inappropriate to look at other people's private places.
good luck!
He is six and it has to do with the male body. Just relate him the truth. Explain it to him how you would any other person.
"All penises are different. His just looks different than yours/ours."
Just utter his foreskin is missing, because his religion requires that babies lose their foreskin.
thats messed up
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