How will I settle to my 7 year antiquated stepson and his friend give or take a few a remarkably critical situation.?
At 7 I think it's prob wrong to clear a big deal out of this. Playing Dr is simply kids way of learning going on for their own bodies. It really has nothing to do with actual sex. If I have to guess, I'd bet the latest occurence only happened because you made a big traffic out of the kiss.
I'd talk with the girls parents and ask how they would like the FOUR of you to proceed. At most, they should in recent times be taught about modest and properity (it's not polite to show your undies or such to other people) describe inappropriate touching (they should know this not just for this situation, but so they have the knowledge due to adult child predators).
I'd definately NOT present the thing to them in a way that they did something "bad" - this may want to make them do it more and/or lead to them to have sexual issues that could affect them for a life time.
Whenever the girl comes over, don't let them play in his room alone. Have them take a step with you outside, go see a movie, or draw on your driveway with chalk. Be next to them at all times and don't leave them alone EVER.
i use to do like peas in a pod thing when i was little.Maybe you can talk to the girls mom and see if you her and your husband can digit out a way to make there still be friends.
I suggest its Better if you keep them in an open space close to the living room of park because then they have more eyes surrounding then.conceivably one day you and your son should have a one on one conversation maybe bring him the movies after go to the park and just talk in the order of it.Be call and let him get a opening to express him feelings about the situation.My you can talk to the girl to and she how she feel about it but the most important think is to remember to stay peaceful but also know when the time to be strict is.
i also think that this may lead to a posablitity to them growing up and becoming more mature.mabye its time to verbalize about the birds and the bees.
good luck:) Source(s): experience
They're being kids, but you're right in teaching them that stuff resembling this is inappropriate. If you tell them not to do something and they disobey you, then within needs to be a punishment. If they like each other, later maybe the punishment for misbehaving with each other could be person separated.
Do what you think is right, don't just follow my advice; I can't grasp all the little details because I'm not there.
I'd say receive advice from a professional if you're that worried. Give them a little talk. Put them surrounded by a living room instead.
well, first of adjectives, this is normal for kids this age...just tell your friend going on for it, set your step-son down, and have the "good-touch/bad-touch" talk, make sure he's not human being sexually abused (though i doubt he is, or that it's causing this), and then maybe own a slight bit of the sex talk (ofc, not the whole thing yet)...and conceivably advise this to your friend to do with her daughter, too. Source(s): past work at a daycare and studying for pediatrics
your doing everything right. Teaching them that it is inapropriate is important. Just remember, kids will be kids.. .i think i did the same piece at that age. Maybe talk to the other parents to see if they can discus it as well. Whatever you do, don't make them quality bad about it. Explaining that it is natural to be curious, but also stress the rush of modesty is essential.
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