11yr.aged within love beside 22?
My friend is 11 and shes in love with this 22 year old..he tell her he loves her and he treats her like a queen...what do u think about it...is it wrong or...I know he wont rape her or anything so..
yeah that's what you all chew over.so naive
It's incredibly wrong! I'm guessing you're also around 11. If you were older you'd likely realize how sick and twisted this situation is.
It's not wrong for her to own a crush on an adult. Plenty of kids get crushes on teachers, coaches, and elder kids.
But it's criminally wrong for an adult to date, kiss, or touch a child inappropriately. This isn't love, it's manipulation on his part. If what you're saying is the truth, he's a pedophile plain and simple. And as much as you "know" he won't rape her, don't bet on it. He probably will if he hasn't already.
You necessitate to tell someone what's going on. Tell your parents or another trusted adult and have them phone call the cops. Or tell your friend's parents what's going on. They need to know. If you don't want to tell your parents or your friends parents give an account a teacher, doctor, or other trusted adult.
Edit: Okay, so a little elder than I thought, so you should definatley recognize this is not okay right?
I don't care how "Jesus loving" he claims to be. He's still sick and your friend still needs protection.
He wishes to be arrested. That is jail bait.
He is sick and should not be around that young child. Where is her mother ?
Aw young-looking love how sweet am I really in the wrong to not see how this is any different or more wrong that say a 33 year old and a 44 year weak being together. However their could be some issues because many well designation people in the 22 shoes would have pushed their mental state aside because of socal laws. I think their our a few issues if they were to hold sex tho. At her age it could be very confusing not to mention that everyone will being telling her to be exact wrong and this will have a huge effect on her aswell. Best to stay friends and hopefully the guy is respectful and smart enough to know in most cases it's the best route to budge.
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ok this 22 year old guy has mental problems he is sick and disturbed normal peoploe don't resembling pre pubescent children. DOn't worry he'll go to jail so you should report him they butt rape guys resembling that. Everyday!
Look, 11 year olds and 22 year olds don't fall contained by love. In fact, I don't believe an 11 year old can even comprehend what romantic love truly is. I'm not trying to make fun of your friend, but it's merely the truth.
Furthermore, you don't KNOW what he will and won't do. How many news stories have we hear where people who knew a murderer said "He be the nicest person ever, I can't believe he shot that person."
Finally, does he or your friend know that he could be labeled as a sex offender and sent to put inside in many states for what he's doing? If your friend's parents don't know about this, you'd be doing your friend a huge favor to recount them. Even if it makes your friend mad.
Amber, seriously. Listen to what everyone here is telling you. You HAVE to recount an adult. Her parents, your parents, it doesn't matter. I'm 24 years old. That's solitary 2 years older than that guy and I promise you this isn't normal even if the guy seems safe. I don't know anyone my age who would want to be in a relationship with an 11 year old. Something's up and your friend requirements your help.
"jesus loving *"
i loved that!
but yeah, as long as she's beneath 16 (in most states) it's wrong for them to be dating. if they have sex, its still considered rape because she is under the legal age of consent. ive hear of couples getting married when they're 11 years apart in age, but she is far too young for that to happen in a minute.
i've been there, done that kind of piece, and even if he is a jesus loving *, he should know better than to "be in love" with an 11 year old. Even if they don't do anything, a man that much elder than her that young is going to mess her up if someone doesn't put a stop to it now. Source(s): something similar happened to me. :/
It is very wrong. Being 11 is not easy enough and it's one thing to have a crush. But to voice she's in love is WAY different. I think it's very difficult to know the difference love and crush. Him as a 22 year dated man should know that he has crossed a very large flash in the dirt of being appropriate. He is an adult and should know that sensitive of a relationship is not possible. If it is even genuine, he should wait until she is 18 until he even think about any kind of relationship with her. They are both playing beside fire!
NOT COOL!
Yeah you guys don't know what he can or might do. So why do you say that he WILL hurt this girl. We don't know that at all. Anyone no matter what their age or the other those age has the same chance of anyone hurt as she does right now. Would you say no to any other couple because there is other that slight chance they might hurt them. I sure hope not or you yourself will have a hard time finding love.
Now I hold studied the effects of a relationship like this. The biggest problem is that the girl is still delevoping both physical and mentally. She is most likely not ready for sex and have a realtionship with a 22 year old even without sex can still be criminal in some cases and is seen as a socal crime. A young child as herself may enjoy a hard time coping with the hate and cruetly that will be forced apon her and the 22 year matured because of their realionship. This is the biggest differ between her dating someone closer to her age. Besides that the 22 year old has had time to socal developed himself. Tho people are just in their worries because have sex with minors is a crime and many respectful adults would not risk it.
Well first of all, it's illegal. So it shouldn't be stirring at all until she's 18. Second it's grose. At those ages they have NOTHING in adjectives. My parents are eleven years apart but when you get out of highschool and college youll see more that age doesn't matter. Right now though it's a big operate and AGAINST THE LAW so that guy could end up spending a lot of time in put in prison and he may be taking advantage of her in ways you or her wouldnt understand even so. Rape or sex isnt the only thing.
11 and 22, yes this is very wrong and illegal surrounded by most states. Inappropriate verbal behavior with a child is still abuse. This is most predictable you that you are talking about am I right? Please stay clear of this man, it is natural to be curious but unpleasantly wrong and will affect your whole life, I promise. It isn't worth it.
I see pedo and rape written all over this, help your friend out since she gets tangled in that guys net. Tell her parents and tell her to snap out of it. You are her friend and you should look out for her. Don't let her go down the pathway to self destruction with him.
Good luck
*** disgusting i wanna kick that guys ***!
I guess that if this is a true story (which I doubt), then you need to inform her parents because it is wrong, sick, and harmful. No intelligent, well-intentioned full-grown would do this.
Answers: Tell your parents forthwith.
umm to like be in love thats too diff i think!
im 13 and ive have sex with older guys then that BUT i dont assume i could love them!
my age limit for like going out is prob like 18?
hope that help!
i think that she is too young and he needs to find someone of his own age
That's disgusting. He is a pedophile! You should tell her parents or another adult that you trust ASAP! He requests to be reported to the police.
tell her to wait until she is 18 to wish if she really loves this guy- she is too young to even slightly tell a crush apart from love. and the guy needs to amount himself out too- when you are 22, it is not right to like someone that isnt even a teenager yet.
yes, that is terribly wrong within every way. That dude should go to prison, that's just sick.
It is VERY wrong. Explain to your friend how wrong that is, tell the dude to stay away and if he doesnt then notify your parents or teachers
omg i think thats sick...he could gain arrested if he does anything, no no wait he NEEDS to go to jail.. eww ruthless
um...ok well she can't sustain weather she likes him like i think im falling for someone who is 16 and im 13 and he like me but i don't know think of what it's like to be in her shoes. it's confusing and you own no idea what to do you should let her make her own dessicions you should only be by her side no matter what
thats not just wrong its sick she is still a *** kid bank
If i were in this situation, I would tell the friends parents fast. Maybe he wont rape her now, but what about when she turns 15? Honestly, I think this guy is sick. She is singular 11! It doesn't matter how he treats her, there is something wrong here, no 22 year old should enjoy any interest in a child.
Gross he needs to be locked up..
Isn't that illegal..?..Well you should tell her parents..
ewwwww..he needs to go to reformatory!! NOW!!
well, even though he won't rape her that is still illegal. I f he really loves her consequently he can wait for 7 years till shes 18.
in good health that is just fucked for a sec thought u were bull shittin guess not
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yeah that's what you all chew over.so naive
It's incredibly wrong! I'm guessing you're also around 11. If you were older you'd likely realize how sick and twisted this situation is.
It's not wrong for her to own a crush on an adult. Plenty of kids get crushes on teachers, coaches, and elder kids.
But it's criminally wrong for an adult to date, kiss, or touch a child inappropriately. This isn't love, it's manipulation on his part. If what you're saying is the truth, he's a pedophile plain and simple. And as much as you "know" he won't rape her, don't bet on it. He probably will if he hasn't already.
You necessitate to tell someone what's going on. Tell your parents or another trusted adult and have them phone call the cops. Or tell your friend's parents what's going on. They need to know. If you don't want to tell your parents or your friends parents give an account a teacher, doctor, or other trusted adult.
Edit: Okay, so a little elder than I thought, so you should definatley recognize this is not okay right?
I don't care how "Jesus loving" he claims to be. He's still sick and your friend still needs protection.
He wishes to be arrested. That is jail bait.
He is sick and should not be around that young child. Where is her mother ?
Aw young-looking love how sweet am I really in the wrong to not see how this is any different or more wrong that say a 33 year old and a 44 year weak being together. However their could be some issues because many well designation people in the 22 shoes would have pushed their mental state aside because of socal laws. I think their our a few issues if they were to hold sex tho. At her age it could be very confusing not to mention that everyone will being telling her to be exact wrong and this will have a huge effect on her aswell. Best to stay friends and hopefully the guy is respectful and smart enough to know in most cases it's the best route to budge.
<3
ok this 22 year old guy has mental problems he is sick and disturbed normal peoploe don't resembling pre pubescent children. DOn't worry he'll go to jail so you should report him they butt rape guys resembling that. Everyday!
Look, 11 year olds and 22 year olds don't fall contained by love. In fact, I don't believe an 11 year old can even comprehend what romantic love truly is. I'm not trying to make fun of your friend, but it's merely the truth.
Furthermore, you don't KNOW what he will and won't do. How many news stories have we hear where people who knew a murderer said "He be the nicest person ever, I can't believe he shot that person."
Finally, does he or your friend know that he could be labeled as a sex offender and sent to put inside in many states for what he's doing? If your friend's parents don't know about this, you'd be doing your friend a huge favor to recount them. Even if it makes your friend mad.
Amber, seriously. Listen to what everyone here is telling you. You HAVE to recount an adult. Her parents, your parents, it doesn't matter. I'm 24 years old. That's solitary 2 years older than that guy and I promise you this isn't normal even if the guy seems safe. I don't know anyone my age who would want to be in a relationship with an 11 year old. Something's up and your friend requirements your help.
"jesus loving *"
i loved that!
but yeah, as long as she's beneath 16 (in most states) it's wrong for them to be dating. if they have sex, its still considered rape because she is under the legal age of consent. ive hear of couples getting married when they're 11 years apart in age, but she is far too young for that to happen in a minute.
i've been there, done that kind of piece, and even if he is a jesus loving *, he should know better than to "be in love" with an 11 year old. Even if they don't do anything, a man that much elder than her that young is going to mess her up if someone doesn't put a stop to it now. Source(s): something similar happened to me. :/
It is very wrong. Being 11 is not easy enough and it's one thing to have a crush. But to voice she's in love is WAY different. I think it's very difficult to know the difference love and crush. Him as a 22 year dated man should know that he has crossed a very large flash in the dirt of being appropriate. He is an adult and should know that sensitive of a relationship is not possible. If it is even genuine, he should wait until she is 18 until he even think about any kind of relationship with her. They are both playing beside fire!
NOT COOL!
Yeah you guys don't know what he can or might do. So why do you say that he WILL hurt this girl. We don't know that at all. Anyone no matter what their age or the other those age has the same chance of anyone hurt as she does right now. Would you say no to any other couple because there is other that slight chance they might hurt them. I sure hope not or you yourself will have a hard time finding love.
Now I hold studied the effects of a relationship like this. The biggest problem is that the girl is still delevoping both physical and mentally. She is most likely not ready for sex and have a realtionship with a 22 year old even without sex can still be criminal in some cases and is seen as a socal crime. A young child as herself may enjoy a hard time coping with the hate and cruetly that will be forced apon her and the 22 year matured because of their realionship. This is the biggest differ between her dating someone closer to her age. Besides that the 22 year old has had time to socal developed himself. Tho people are just in their worries because have sex with minors is a crime and many respectful adults would not risk it.
Well first of all, it's illegal. So it shouldn't be stirring at all until she's 18. Second it's grose. At those ages they have NOTHING in adjectives. My parents are eleven years apart but when you get out of highschool and college youll see more that age doesn't matter. Right now though it's a big operate and AGAINST THE LAW so that guy could end up spending a lot of time in put in prison and he may be taking advantage of her in ways you or her wouldnt understand even so. Rape or sex isnt the only thing.
11 and 22, yes this is very wrong and illegal surrounded by most states. Inappropriate verbal behavior with a child is still abuse. This is most predictable you that you are talking about am I right? Please stay clear of this man, it is natural to be curious but unpleasantly wrong and will affect your whole life, I promise. It isn't worth it.
I see pedo and rape written all over this, help your friend out since she gets tangled in that guys net. Tell her parents and tell her to snap out of it. You are her friend and you should look out for her. Don't let her go down the pathway to self destruction with him.
Good luck
*** disgusting i wanna kick that guys ***!
I guess that if this is a true story (which I doubt), then you need to inform her parents because it is wrong, sick, and harmful. No intelligent, well-intentioned full-grown would do this.
Answers: Tell your parents forthwith.
umm to like be in love thats too diff i think!
im 13 and ive have sex with older guys then that BUT i dont assume i could love them!
my age limit for like going out is prob like 18?
hope that help!
i think that she is too young and he needs to find someone of his own age
That's disgusting. He is a pedophile! You should tell her parents or another adult that you trust ASAP! He requests to be reported to the police.
tell her to wait until she is 18 to wish if she really loves this guy- she is too young to even slightly tell a crush apart from love. and the guy needs to amount himself out too- when you are 22, it is not right to like someone that isnt even a teenager yet.
yes, that is terribly wrong within every way. That dude should go to prison, that's just sick.
It is VERY wrong. Explain to your friend how wrong that is, tell the dude to stay away and if he doesnt then notify your parents or teachers
omg i think thats sick...he could gain arrested if he does anything, no no wait he NEEDS to go to jail.. eww ruthless
um...ok well she can't sustain weather she likes him like i think im falling for someone who is 16 and im 13 and he like me but i don't know think of what it's like to be in her shoes. it's confusing and you own no idea what to do you should let her make her own dessicions you should only be by her side no matter what
thats not just wrong its sick she is still a *** kid bank
If i were in this situation, I would tell the friends parents fast. Maybe he wont rape her now, but what about when she turns 15? Honestly, I think this guy is sick. She is singular 11! It doesn't matter how he treats her, there is something wrong here, no 22 year old should enjoy any interest in a child.
Gross he needs to be locked up..
Isn't that illegal..?..Well you should tell her parents..
ewwwww..he needs to go to reformatory!! NOW!!
well, even though he won't rape her that is still illegal. I f he really loves her consequently he can wait for 7 years till shes 18.
in good health that is just fucked for a sec thought u were bull shittin guess not
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