My child go to her friends house today and misbehaved, what should I do?
This was her first time over to her friends house (age 8) and when I went to go pick her she be misbehaving. From the time I was there she was not minding me nor her friends mom. This is not similar to my daughter and I don't know what I should do. I know she was having fun and this was her first play date, but this behavior is uncalled for. What would you do?
Not allow her to play over at friends' house until she decide she's ready to act like a polite human mortal. My guess is she was trying to be "cool" in front of her friend.
When both of you are calm, have a homily with her about the way you expect her to behave when she visit at a friend's house. Make it clear that you're giving directions, not having a discussion. Then have her tell you, within her own words, what you've told her - so that you know she understands. Then call her friend's mother and have your daughter apologize for misbehaving at their house. Then you describe the mother, in your daughter's hearing, that if your daughter ever starts misbehaving at their house again, to please call you, and you will come and draw from your daughter immediately - you've had a little address with her and you don't think it'll happen again, but only just in case.
Being sent to her room is fine. One civilized punishment that works on most kids is an early bedtime - a wishy-washy, simple supper, a bath, and then right into bed by 7 pm, lights out. One night is plenty for a minor matter. If the kid has been repeating misbehavior or have a real meltdown, tell her that she is obviously too tired to function properly, so she is going to hold to get some extra rest until she can handle herself better. Remove any television, radio, stereo, computer, or other electronic entertainment from the bedroom and receive the kid bathed, fed, and into bed by the baby bedtime of 7 pm. Lights out, no attention, no arguments with Mom, nil to do but go to sleep. If she really is tired, it'll do her good. If she's not tired, it'll help her desire to control her behavior so that you won't be controlling it for her.
talk to your child and ground her if necessary speak about the mother that you and your child is very sorry.tell her that its your child's first play date and you have in a minute and clue why she's acting like this on less you got an answer from conversation to her
hope this works for you
hm.i expect your child is gullible don't worry i was the same(and pretty much the same now) but my mom keep me in line she tells me that if i shift even the sligthest bit she wont allowe me 2 my friends house
dont be to hard on her shes only 8 just let somebody know her how you feel talk it out with her
she's lately having fun but this un might change into something so act immediately or eles it would be to late her her you don't like what she did and you dont want to see it again no matter WHAT influence it like its a bigg sin Source(s): me
take away the privilege of going to herr friends house and maybe a immediate spanking over her panties as well to teach her that her behaviour be bad.
My daughter was similar. I just told her that unless she starts controlling herself and behave nicely she won't be going to her friend's house anymore.
That seemed to work. I also did the same when her friends come to our house and she'd play up and not listen, and speak rudely to me. You don't behave - you don't get to play.
tell her she has to behave subsequent time she go's to a friend house or else she won't ever go to there house again beside her friends again and that they can't come here trust me then they behave
Talk to her about why what she did was wrong, and try to find out why she misbehaved. She might have only just gotten excited because she had never been on a play date without you here. Then have her apologize to her friend's mom.
Lectures and repeated talks fall upon deaf ears after the first few minutes. You need to carry her to OWN her behavior. I would have her sit down and write a note to the Mom apologizing for her behavior. Not just "I am sorry I be being bad". Give her guidelines. Tell her at least 6 sentences. One has to be axiom she is sorry, the rest have to list things she did that were improper. Have her finish saying it won't happen again.
This makes her own to reflect and own her mistakes. If she doesn't "get it" provide an example like "ok - if you be at school and kept talking while the teacher be teaching and you got in trouble - your communiqu¨¦ might sound like this..(and then afford her an example).
We use this letter writing a lot. Sometimes, if the behavior was at home, my kids will write a few paragraph (they are 9 and 10) on what they did that was wrong and what more appropriate choices should have been. It does work. I notify them to save it and they share it at the dinner table, in front of DAD when he gets home. Source(s): experience
Go reach a deal to her about it how you like her having a social life span but she has to mind you. If not you can always take that privilege away
Discuss it with your daughter and ask why she acted up. She either have a reason for it or she was simply hyper or was influenced by her playdate.
She is 8 years old-fashioned so before she gets any worse with cussing and what not, you entail to make sure she knows that you are willing to enforce the directive with a belt in order to keep hold of her behaved. Doing so at an early age will keep them from going further when they're surrounded by their adolescent years.
Tell her what she did was wrong and you will not allow her to do this again.That until she learn and can promise you she will be good,she must stay home.
8 years old and her first play date...this is the problem. anyway, i would talk to her and explain the process she needs to act over others houses and if she doesnt mind that she will not be allowed to go.
tell her that you and the parent of the other child did not like it and subsequent time she won't be able to go if she behaves approaching that again or there will be a punishment
tell her
Tell her you ever act like that again! You wont move about back!
What a brat
discuss it with her!
Answers: You stipulation to fix it right now. If you let this happen the first time in need repercussion it's going to happen again.
Talk to her and tell her what she did wrong, she might not have prearranged she was doing anything wrong.
Slap her on the wrist, warn her not to do it again.
If it happens again, spank her. Not physically ill-treat the kid, but enough to let her know, she's the child and YOU'RE the adult.
You're a flawless mom to be worried, most parents wouldn't even care :)
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Not allow her to play over at friends' house until she decide she's ready to act like a polite human mortal. My guess is she was trying to be "cool" in front of her friend.
When both of you are calm, have a homily with her about the way you expect her to behave when she visit at a friend's house. Make it clear that you're giving directions, not having a discussion. Then have her tell you, within her own words, what you've told her - so that you know she understands. Then call her friend's mother and have your daughter apologize for misbehaving at their house. Then you describe the mother, in your daughter's hearing, that if your daughter ever starts misbehaving at their house again, to please call you, and you will come and draw from your daughter immediately - you've had a little address with her and you don't think it'll happen again, but only just in case.
Being sent to her room is fine. One civilized punishment that works on most kids is an early bedtime - a wishy-washy, simple supper, a bath, and then right into bed by 7 pm, lights out. One night is plenty for a minor matter. If the kid has been repeating misbehavior or have a real meltdown, tell her that she is obviously too tired to function properly, so she is going to hold to get some extra rest until she can handle herself better. Remove any television, radio, stereo, computer, or other electronic entertainment from the bedroom and receive the kid bathed, fed, and into bed by the baby bedtime of 7 pm. Lights out, no attention, no arguments with Mom, nil to do but go to sleep. If she really is tired, it'll do her good. If she's not tired, it'll help her desire to control her behavior so that you won't be controlling it for her.
talk to your child and ground her if necessary speak about the mother that you and your child is very sorry.tell her that its your child's first play date and you have in a minute and clue why she's acting like this on less you got an answer from conversation to her
hope this works for you
hm.i expect your child is gullible don't worry i was the same(and pretty much the same now) but my mom keep me in line she tells me that if i shift even the sligthest bit she wont allowe me 2 my friends house
dont be to hard on her shes only 8 just let somebody know her how you feel talk it out with her
she's lately having fun but this un might change into something so act immediately or eles it would be to late her her you don't like what she did and you dont want to see it again no matter WHAT influence it like its a bigg sin Source(s): me
take away the privilege of going to herr friends house and maybe a immediate spanking over her panties as well to teach her that her behaviour be bad.
My daughter was similar. I just told her that unless she starts controlling herself and behave nicely she won't be going to her friend's house anymore.
That seemed to work. I also did the same when her friends come to our house and she'd play up and not listen, and speak rudely to me. You don't behave - you don't get to play.
tell her she has to behave subsequent time she go's to a friend house or else she won't ever go to there house again beside her friends again and that they can't come here trust me then they behave
Talk to her about why what she did was wrong, and try to find out why she misbehaved. She might have only just gotten excited because she had never been on a play date without you here. Then have her apologize to her friend's mom.
Lectures and repeated talks fall upon deaf ears after the first few minutes. You need to carry her to OWN her behavior. I would have her sit down and write a note to the Mom apologizing for her behavior. Not just "I am sorry I be being bad". Give her guidelines. Tell her at least 6 sentences. One has to be axiom she is sorry, the rest have to list things she did that were improper. Have her finish saying it won't happen again.
This makes her own to reflect and own her mistakes. If she doesn't "get it" provide an example like "ok - if you be at school and kept talking while the teacher be teaching and you got in trouble - your communiqu¨¦ might sound like this..(and then afford her an example).
We use this letter writing a lot. Sometimes, if the behavior was at home, my kids will write a few paragraph (they are 9 and 10) on what they did that was wrong and what more appropriate choices should have been. It does work. I notify them to save it and they share it at the dinner table, in front of DAD when he gets home. Source(s): experience
Go reach a deal to her about it how you like her having a social life span but she has to mind you. If not you can always take that privilege away
Discuss it with your daughter and ask why she acted up. She either have a reason for it or she was simply hyper or was influenced by her playdate.
She is 8 years old-fashioned so before she gets any worse with cussing and what not, you entail to make sure she knows that you are willing to enforce the directive with a belt in order to keep hold of her behaved. Doing so at an early age will keep them from going further when they're surrounded by their adolescent years.
Tell her what she did was wrong and you will not allow her to do this again.That until she learn and can promise you she will be good,she must stay home.
8 years old and her first play date...this is the problem. anyway, i would talk to her and explain the process she needs to act over others houses and if she doesnt mind that she will not be allowed to go.
tell her that you and the parent of the other child did not like it and subsequent time she won't be able to go if she behaves approaching that again or there will be a punishment
tell her
Tell her you ever act like that again! You wont move about back!
What a brat
discuss it with her!
Answers: You stipulation to fix it right now. If you let this happen the first time in need repercussion it's going to happen again.
Talk to her and tell her what she did wrong, she might not have prearranged she was doing anything wrong.
Slap her on the wrist, warn her not to do it again.
If it happens again, spank her. Not physically ill-treat the kid, but enough to let her know, she's the child and YOU'RE the adult.
You're a flawless mom to be worried, most parents wouldn't even care :)
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