My 8-year older child found porn DVDs beside symbolic pics on the rear. How do I explain this?
My daughter and friend found two porn DVDs in our closet. The back cover had incredibly graphic images. I am freaked out and don't know how to explain what she saw. She has however to say anything, but my friend's daughter already mentioned their discovery. We had intended on having the "healthy" sex reach a deal some time next year but now I don't know how to explain the graphic similes that don't look so "healthy." I know this could have been prevented but immediately that the damage is done I don't know what to say. A conversation about the pornographic descriptions obviously has to take place instantly. Does anyone have any experience with this?
Tell your daughter that adults do a special hoedown to make children, and some adults like to watch other adults doing this special hop.
How old is she?
Older that 10 would probably know what Porn is. Tell her that Porn is Women who decided to cassette their "Healthy" Sex and distribute it. I suggest having your talk now?
and you have pron DVD's why??
I keep telling my husband to lock ours up or put them away somewhere they can't be found yet he still hasn't so presently I'm just waiting for this to happen to us.
Answers: My mom started me on the differences between boys and girls as soon as she realized I notice the difference, which was around 4 or 5. They do make kids books about sex, so try to find one and read it beside her, explaining things along the way. In this day and age, the chances of her knowing around sex already are pretty high, but you still need to have the have a chat with her. Does she know about periods however? Even if she doesn't quite understand what it is, she should know that almost all women find them, especially because girls are getting their periods so much younger now. If your friends daughter said something but your daughter didn't, she's probably embarrassed. Even if she most feasible doesn't understand what the pictures were, she knows that those culture were up to something, and it's definitely not something she sees everyday (hopefully not at adjectives yet!).
Let her know that you know she saw them, but don't accuse her of anything. Let her know that your room is your space, and unless you or her dad are in within, she can't be in there without green light. Let her ask any questions she has. If need be by what she asks, afterwards have the talk with her in a minute. If she doesn't have too many questions very soon, then save the talk, but start her slowly starting very soon, so it's not just one long, awkward talk a year from now. Believe me, it will be so much easier that passageway. Source(s): 18 and went through it.
ummm YEAH... myself!! im 15 in a minute but when i was around 8 i found the same things in my parents room...… sometimes i still wonder something like it. WHY, OH WHY??!
Out of sight, out of mind -- don't dredge it up unless your child mentions it, and find a better hiding spot, for Pete's sake!
Chances are she probable already knows more than you think she does, but agree to her keep those to herself for right now if you would rather own the talk with her in just about a year or so. I understand wanting to wait to have the verbalize. You do want to make sure they are old enough and grown enough to handle what is being told. As for the DVD, I would only just say that those are mommy and daddy's personal things and that the stuff in your room needs to stay mommy and daddy's personal things. Then I would ask her if she have any questions at all to ask them. Try to answer them as much as possible without going into detail. Good luck to you.
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Tell your daughter that adults do a special hoedown to make children, and some adults like to watch other adults doing this special hop.
How old is she?
Older that 10 would probably know what Porn is. Tell her that Porn is Women who decided to cassette their "Healthy" Sex and distribute it. I suggest having your talk now?
and you have pron DVD's why??
I keep telling my husband to lock ours up or put them away somewhere they can't be found yet he still hasn't so presently I'm just waiting for this to happen to us.
Answers: My mom started me on the differences between boys and girls as soon as she realized I notice the difference, which was around 4 or 5. They do make kids books about sex, so try to find one and read it beside her, explaining things along the way. In this day and age, the chances of her knowing around sex already are pretty high, but you still need to have the have a chat with her. Does she know about periods however? Even if she doesn't quite understand what it is, she should know that almost all women find them, especially because girls are getting their periods so much younger now. If your friends daughter said something but your daughter didn't, she's probably embarrassed. Even if she most feasible doesn't understand what the pictures were, she knows that those culture were up to something, and it's definitely not something she sees everyday (hopefully not at adjectives yet!).
Let her know that you know she saw them, but don't accuse her of anything. Let her know that your room is your space, and unless you or her dad are in within, she can't be in there without green light. Let her ask any questions she has. If need be by what she asks, afterwards have the talk with her in a minute. If she doesn't have too many questions very soon, then save the talk, but start her slowly starting very soon, so it's not just one long, awkward talk a year from now. Believe me, it will be so much easier that passageway. Source(s): 18 and went through it.
ummm YEAH... myself!! im 15 in a minute but when i was around 8 i found the same things in my parents room...… sometimes i still wonder something like it. WHY, OH WHY??!
Out of sight, out of mind -- don't dredge it up unless your child mentions it, and find a better hiding spot, for Pete's sake!
Chances are she probable already knows more than you think she does, but agree to her keep those to herself for right now if you would rather own the talk with her in just about a year or so. I understand wanting to wait to have the verbalize. You do want to make sure they are old enough and grown enough to handle what is being told. As for the DVD, I would only just say that those are mommy and daddy's personal things and that the stuff in your room needs to stay mommy and daddy's personal things. Then I would ask her if she have any questions at all to ask them. Try to answer them as much as possible without going into detail. Good luck to you.
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