Discipline for stealing & lying to cover it up?
how many swats, with what instrument, and should corporal punishment be followed up by grounding in this skin?
Punishment will not work. If the child have not internalized proper moral
values, then grounding for ever and spanking every day will not help.
Find out why he or she does not believe that stealing is wrong, and why he/she would lie back rather than fess up.
Maybe you can emphasize the moral lesson by give three biddable swats, then the option of a three week grounding or three more swats.
This punishment would only be righteous for letting the kid KNOW that you are very serious about no stealing, and that whne you do wrong you must tell the truth.
When I be little and stole from the store, I got good ten good lick with the strap. I got spanked not only until I cried, but while I cried.
Once my bottom heal, I resolved to steal again just to spite
my stepdad and prove to my mom that he would not break me like I was a squally stallion. I needed firm moral instruction, not the strap.
Of course, I was raised in a time and place where on earth hard spanking for major wrongdoing was not questioned- it be done and that was it.
No cops or social service people would have be involved.
If I were to strap my kid like that today, aneighbor would call 911. Source(s): Kevin Leman THE BIRTH ORDER BOOK
I think that swatting is an influential form of punishment, but only if not done in excess. I would verbs the child over your lap, keep all clothes on, and use an unseal hand to swat maybe 4 times. I really don't think it take much, and in my experience, usually just the embarrassment of one swatted is enough punishment, rather than hitting with like mad of force.
It is also important that the child and you have a serious discussion about stealing and lying, why it is wrong, and why it be done in the first place. If it is possible, I would take the child back to the 'crime scene' and hold him/her apologize to someone there, while returning the item. This will show that there are outside consequences.
Grounding is definitely an picking, but it's effectiveness is directly related to how old the child is. If they are outdated enough to have play dates, or travel out and do things, then I would definitely rule for a grounding of at least a week. And within are different scales of grounding. Ban watching TV, playing video games, and maybe even add an extra chore!
Hope this helps! Good Luck! Source(s): Personal Experience
Answers: Pardon moi?
First of all, DON'T SPANK! Intentionally hurting another living being is very, immensely wrong in my personal opinion. My parents taught me that and I am growing up contained by a very pain-free environment (well, except when I run into things =])
Talk to your child, ask them why they stole, and explain to them that it is very wrong. Ask them how they would feel if they be stolen from. Ground them for 2-3 weeks, and see if they learned their lesson. Give them a bit of time to reflect on what they did.
this is how i spank, put the child over your nouns, pull down the pants and underwear and then start the spanking, offer them at least 2 swats for every year old they are, with an instigate hand. after the spanking talk it over with the child, why they must not steal ect.
i would unequivocally follow the spanking with a 2 week grounding
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Punishment will not work. If the child have not internalized proper moral
values, then grounding for ever and spanking every day will not help.
Find out why he or she does not believe that stealing is wrong, and why he/she would lie back rather than fess up.
Maybe you can emphasize the moral lesson by give three biddable swats, then the option of a three week grounding or three more swats.
This punishment would only be righteous for letting the kid KNOW that you are very serious about no stealing, and that whne you do wrong you must tell the truth.
When I be little and stole from the store, I got good ten good lick with the strap. I got spanked not only until I cried, but while I cried.
Once my bottom heal, I resolved to steal again just to spite
my stepdad and prove to my mom that he would not break me like I was a squally stallion. I needed firm moral instruction, not the strap.
Of course, I was raised in a time and place where on earth hard spanking for major wrongdoing was not questioned- it be done and that was it.
No cops or social service people would have be involved.
If I were to strap my kid like that today, aneighbor would call 911. Source(s): Kevin Leman THE BIRTH ORDER BOOK
I think that swatting is an influential form of punishment, but only if not done in excess. I would verbs the child over your lap, keep all clothes on, and use an unseal hand to swat maybe 4 times. I really don't think it take much, and in my experience, usually just the embarrassment of one swatted is enough punishment, rather than hitting with like mad of force.
It is also important that the child and you have a serious discussion about stealing and lying, why it is wrong, and why it be done in the first place. If it is possible, I would take the child back to the 'crime scene' and hold him/her apologize to someone there, while returning the item. This will show that there are outside consequences.
Grounding is definitely an picking, but it's effectiveness is directly related to how old the child is. If they are outdated enough to have play dates, or travel out and do things, then I would definitely rule for a grounding of at least a week. And within are different scales of grounding. Ban watching TV, playing video games, and maybe even add an extra chore!
Hope this helps! Good Luck! Source(s): Personal Experience
Answers: Pardon moi?
First of all, DON'T SPANK! Intentionally hurting another living being is very, immensely wrong in my personal opinion. My parents taught me that and I am growing up contained by a very pain-free environment (well, except when I run into things =])
Talk to your child, ask them why they stole, and explain to them that it is very wrong. Ask them how they would feel if they be stolen from. Ground them for 2-3 weeks, and see if they learned their lesson. Give them a bit of time to reflect on what they did.
this is how i spank, put the child over your nouns, pull down the pants and underwear and then start the spanking, offer them at least 2 swats for every year old they are, with an instigate hand. after the spanking talk it over with the child, why they must not steal ect.
i would unequivocally follow the spanking with a 2 week grounding
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