5 year out-of-date is OUT OF CONTROL?
You might suggest that she take her daughter in for an allergy check. It is possible that her daughter is allergic to certain food additives. She's simply 5 and she can't just tell mommy she's irritable. Everyone thinks it's only a quick fix for mom to just spank her but coming from experience I bet it's just going to piss her rotten that much more and then you would be teaching her that hitting is how you get things done. Spanking may serve with certain kids but not with a child to be exact having a problem with anger. I had my son tested for allergies and found out he be allergic to casein. Doc took him off dairy, food dyes & additives and his whole demeanor changed and he was competent to focus better. He was 3 at the time. He is now 6 & half and I hold introduced some things back into his diet. Get her to a pediatrician. Other possibilities can be ADHD, autism, early onset childhood bipolar disorder. The concluding thing I suggest would be meds but if your doctor said she was suffering from a disorder then at least possible you can look into alternative treatment like aromatherapy. We used lavender & neroli. Also used fish oil supplements. There are tons of safe & inherent things you can do to help. Good luck. Source(s): Been there done that.
She can stop trying things and simply take control and be the mother that she is supposed to be. There is beyond doubt no excuse for a 5 year old to be running the show. She is doing these things because she is being taubht to do them. A child will know when the parent actually process what they say ... they will know when the parent is actually in control and not at a complete loss. This mother requirements to buck up and be confident and strong, firm and consistant.
Show her to a psychiatrist.
Yes 5 is too young for boot camp, this is not the child's quirk it is your friends. At age 5 there is no one else to point a finger at than the one who allowed the child to become that way.
Read Lins answer it is exactly what I would enjoy said.
Tell her if she does that to anyone else she will get a naked butt spanking infront of everyone in the room!
psychiatrist
wow i thought my daughter was extensive but i feel bad for ya i hope everything goes all right
or take things away from the child until they learn.
The real answer is consistency. Yes she may have tried everything but for how long. No empty threats, other follow through and immediately. No matter where they are or who is around you other stay consistent. Time out on a naughty spot is good but only if it is done impossible to tell apart consistently. Trying not to show that her behaviour is causing such a negative effect, staying calm down and mono toned, not raising her voice or giving her the reaction that she is seeking. Do not get into arguments beside the child. simply state what is happening and then DO IT!
I'm not usually one to endorse this, but this girl needs to be spanked. She'll revise then.
Unfortunately there is nothing that you can do. Your friend is going to want to seek back and until she does, she will have a miserable life.
SPANK HER, it works, people have be doing it for hundreds of years.
The next time she has a "spell", don't take her away or dally until it is a more convenient time, even if you are in the middle of a huge crowd. Tell her, "No hitting, screaming, fighting, biting, etc. And spank 2 or 3 times with a firm paw! Dont worry what the other people around you might think, or around hurting the child! If it does hurt her, well then maybe she will swot a lesson! Just dont abuse her!
Have a heart to heart talk next to the child in order to calm them down.
Then, ICE CREAM!
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