Disciplining someone Else child okay?
okay so i live in a ghetto area and people basically let their children from birth go outside and play . when i take my son to the park i other watch him . there was for a moment boy about 4 and he was playing with my 5 year outmoded son.
The child was telling me about his toys an elder boy about 8 and 2 times his size grabbed the lil boys toy and was smashing it against the barrier and broke it . I felt bad and the little boy wanted me to serve him , i did not say anything to the other child because he is not my son . would i be out of line to say something ? ( i am within a neighbor hood where i am one of the only white people and im not sure how someone would take action to me asking their child to behave ) Anyways i helped the little boy take his toys to his house because he could not even carry them and told his step dad . he said Aigghht bye jr jump have fun (8pm at the park ). anyway is it okay to tell someones child to stop doing something innaporate ?
I understand that you're trying to do good by helping the little boy out, but the best thing to do would be not to utter anything to the boy because you never know what his parents reaction could be. Like you said, you live in a ghetto area and ably, you never know what could happen. Good luck!
Sure. I would have took the toy from the 8 year old if it be possible. Don't be afraid because you're white. Discipline goes too far when you lay your hands on someone else's child. If there parent isn't around, afterwards it's fair game in my inference. You may end up with a little shadow contained by the process(the kid seeking you out more often).
jus leave it b racism takes an effect mayb build a call secetly to child services but dont like do anything big cuz if u do b ready for period of war
You are right in the sense that he is not your kid, therefore not responsible for punishment.BUT, you could own went and asked the boy for the toy, that it's not polite to break other peoples toys.
Answers: Okay if the kid is rite in front of you doing this you enjoy by all means a rite to say to the big kid stop. But if he run off to another part of the park don't go chasing after him!! I wouldn't move about any further than that however. I mean the big kid may have a really crappy life at home and not hold gotten taught about basic appropriate behavior, regardless if surrounded by the ghetto or not.
Also it was the rite thing to do to help the little kid bring his stuff posterior home and tell the parent about what happened. Great chore!!
Hope this helps
I will not say anything. I will tell the boy to tell his mother. Because if you speak something, the parents might get furious.
Yes,thats teaching him that his behavior was indecorous. Someone has to teach children if their parents won't. or can't.'
Sounds like you call for to change neighborhoods.I don't think that is a undamaging place for you or your son.
It kind of makes me mad that you didn't stick up for that little boy. Yes as a parent and as an full-grown, you should have helped that child. He obviously needed someone and you a short time ago turned your back on him. He will remember that lesson when he is eight picking on the younger kids too. How grown ups are too scared or don't care and won't stop him. Crazy how you are brave satisfactory to live in the ghetto and take your child to the park at 8pm but not brave enough to stand up to an 8 year antiquated child.
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The child was telling me about his toys an elder boy about 8 and 2 times his size grabbed the lil boys toy and was smashing it against the barrier and broke it . I felt bad and the little boy wanted me to serve him , i did not say anything to the other child because he is not my son . would i be out of line to say something ? ( i am within a neighbor hood where i am one of the only white people and im not sure how someone would take action to me asking their child to behave ) Anyways i helped the little boy take his toys to his house because he could not even carry them and told his step dad . he said Aigghht bye jr jump have fun (8pm at the park ). anyway is it okay to tell someones child to stop doing something innaporate ?
I understand that you're trying to do good by helping the little boy out, but the best thing to do would be not to utter anything to the boy because you never know what his parents reaction could be. Like you said, you live in a ghetto area and ably, you never know what could happen. Good luck!
Sure. I would have took the toy from the 8 year old if it be possible. Don't be afraid because you're white. Discipline goes too far when you lay your hands on someone else's child. If there parent isn't around, afterwards it's fair game in my inference. You may end up with a little shadow contained by the process(the kid seeking you out more often).
jus leave it b racism takes an effect mayb build a call secetly to child services but dont like do anything big cuz if u do b ready for period of war
You are right in the sense that he is not your kid, therefore not responsible for punishment.BUT, you could own went and asked the boy for the toy, that it's not polite to break other peoples toys.
Answers: Okay if the kid is rite in front of you doing this you enjoy by all means a rite to say to the big kid stop. But if he run off to another part of the park don't go chasing after him!! I wouldn't move about any further than that however. I mean the big kid may have a really crappy life at home and not hold gotten taught about basic appropriate behavior, regardless if surrounded by the ghetto or not.
Also it was the rite thing to do to help the little kid bring his stuff posterior home and tell the parent about what happened. Great chore!!
Hope this helps
I will not say anything. I will tell the boy to tell his mother. Because if you speak something, the parents might get furious.
Yes,thats teaching him that his behavior was indecorous. Someone has to teach children if their parents won't. or can't.'
Sounds like you call for to change neighborhoods.I don't think that is a undamaging place for you or your son.
It kind of makes me mad that you didn't stick up for that little boy. Yes as a parent and as an full-grown, you should have helped that child. He obviously needed someone and you a short time ago turned your back on him. He will remember that lesson when he is eight picking on the younger kids too. How grown ups are too scared or don't care and won't stop him. Crazy how you are brave satisfactory to live in the ghetto and take your child to the park at 8pm but not brave enough to stand up to an 8 year antiquated child.
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