Daughter's pierced ears - do you mull over my ex is merely self awkward or does he own a pure grievance near me?
My youngest daughter got her ears pierced for her sixth birthday. At the time, my oldest daughter didn't want hers done.
On Saturday we went shopping, and she spied a pair of earrings she really like, they are kind of like a similar style to a belly ring (although with a much thinner, more circular and smaller bar), and when worn dispense the appearance of a tiny small silver ball stud in the ear with a flower lifeless on the bar below the ear. She remarked that they would be worth having her ears pierced for and asked if she could get them.
I didn't consult next to my ex. I didn't see the point, since he agreed to our then 5 year old 's request to get them for her 6th birthday, I be sure that our almost 9 year old having hers done would be a non-issue.
He says that near our youngest it was different because she had wanted them continuously for a long time. He say I should have made our oldest take a "time-out" for a couple of days to give her a unsystematic to think it through.
He also doesn't like the idea of her wearing the earrings she'll move into after they heal. He has the notion in his herald that, even though they were designed to be worn in ears, kids wearing "body jewellery" sends out the wrong message - and he's worried that if she is allowed to wear "body jewellery" style earrings, she's going to want the belly ring to match.
You probably should have consulted him first and consent to your daughter think about it. But now its over. If she decide later she doesn't want them anymore they will close up. I got a pair of those earings when i be 10, they aren't bad. i love them. Actually when i wear them i get a lot of compliments from friends, even a instructor once lol. But i'm sure will be fine with pierced ears. Even if she doesn't want to wear earings she doesnt have to because most of the time they don't close up unless you have sensitive ears similar to my friends lol :) have fun Source(s): b
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Maybe you should have asked him, but given that the other wasn't an issue, I would have thought it okay. SO, I'd of late apologize and let him know what happened. As for the earring themselves, this will be a good lesson how sometimes things are okay for mom's house and not dad's.
You probably should own asked her to wait a few days, just to make sure, so I can follow him being grumpy. But what's done is done. And no REAL big deal... he'll get over it and is probably more upset that he wasn't involved near the decision.
As for the body jewelry, what the heck are earrings? Jewelry you wear on your body. Hmmm. As long as your rules about piercings beyond ears are clear and firm there shouldn't be an issue.
No, he is being stupid. It is an ear piercing. Thousands of little girls have their ears pierced and piercings are also not long-lasting. If she takes them out then it will heal right up. It shouldn't be an issue.
Answers: Oh Geeze, Give me a break. Whats flawless enough for one should be good enough for both. Besides, She did enjoy time to think about it. Im sure after her sister got hers done she thought going on for it and wanted hers done. As far as wanting a belly ring to match a simple no will work. I think he's newly trying to tick you off and make it seem close to you did some horrible thing.
When it comes to things next to your kids, I think you should have talked to your ex. Only because they are his kids as economically. I understand your point and why you would think that... most people (male or female) would focus that way because it is the common sense thinking. On the other hand, he is right around letting her think about it for a few days.
Well considering the younger one get it done than I personally think it was okay. But the body jewelery earrings, I can kinda see. My dad is for a time paranoid about thinks like that too. Like I get an airbrush tattoo and he's worried that I'd want a real one.
don't forget that this is your child wear talking around ,
you carried her in your womb for 9 months .
maybe your ex is just looking for a road to get to you or is feeling a bit left out ,because ear piercings are really not a big concordat !
little girls like to feel like little girls its a unprocessed part of life.
i really dont see the big issue, she got her ears pierced,a nd is three years elder then her sister, if she changes her mind she can take them out. it sounds to me resembling he is just being difficult.i dont see anything wrong with what you did, its not similar to you hid it from him, you were out with her she saw it and needed it done so there you go.
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On Saturday we went shopping, and she spied a pair of earrings she really like, they are kind of like a similar style to a belly ring (although with a much thinner, more circular and smaller bar), and when worn dispense the appearance of a tiny small silver ball stud in the ear with a flower lifeless on the bar below the ear. She remarked that they would be worth having her ears pierced for and asked if she could get them.
I didn't consult next to my ex. I didn't see the point, since he agreed to our then 5 year old 's request to get them for her 6th birthday, I be sure that our almost 9 year old having hers done would be a non-issue.
He says that near our youngest it was different because she had wanted them continuously for a long time. He say I should have made our oldest take a "time-out" for a couple of days to give her a unsystematic to think it through.
He also doesn't like the idea of her wearing the earrings she'll move into after they heal. He has the notion in his herald that, even though they were designed to be worn in ears, kids wearing "body jewellery" sends out the wrong message - and he's worried that if she is allowed to wear "body jewellery" style earrings, she's going to want the belly ring to match.
You probably should have consulted him first and consent to your daughter think about it. But now its over. If she decide later she doesn't want them anymore they will close up. I got a pair of those earings when i be 10, they aren't bad. i love them. Actually when i wear them i get a lot of compliments from friends, even a instructor once lol. But i'm sure will be fine with pierced ears. Even if she doesn't want to wear earings she doesnt have to because most of the time they don't close up unless you have sensitive ears similar to my friends lol :) have fun Source(s): b
a
y
l
i
e
Maybe you should have asked him, but given that the other wasn't an issue, I would have thought it okay. SO, I'd of late apologize and let him know what happened. As for the earring themselves, this will be a good lesson how sometimes things are okay for mom's house and not dad's.
You probably should own asked her to wait a few days, just to make sure, so I can follow him being grumpy. But what's done is done. And no REAL big deal... he'll get over it and is probably more upset that he wasn't involved near the decision.
As for the body jewelry, what the heck are earrings? Jewelry you wear on your body. Hmmm. As long as your rules about piercings beyond ears are clear and firm there shouldn't be an issue.
No, he is being stupid. It is an ear piercing. Thousands of little girls have their ears pierced and piercings are also not long-lasting. If she takes them out then it will heal right up. It shouldn't be an issue.
Answers: Oh Geeze, Give me a break. Whats flawless enough for one should be good enough for both. Besides, She did enjoy time to think about it. Im sure after her sister got hers done she thought going on for it and wanted hers done. As far as wanting a belly ring to match a simple no will work. I think he's newly trying to tick you off and make it seem close to you did some horrible thing.
When it comes to things next to your kids, I think you should have talked to your ex. Only because they are his kids as economically. I understand your point and why you would think that... most people (male or female) would focus that way because it is the common sense thinking. On the other hand, he is right around letting her think about it for a few days.
Well considering the younger one get it done than I personally think it was okay. But the body jewelery earrings, I can kinda see. My dad is for a time paranoid about thinks like that too. Like I get an airbrush tattoo and he's worried that I'd want a real one.
don't forget that this is your child wear talking around ,
you carried her in your womb for 9 months .
maybe your ex is just looking for a road to get to you or is feeling a bit left out ,because ear piercings are really not a big concordat !
little girls like to feel like little girls its a unprocessed part of life.
i really dont see the big issue, she got her ears pierced,a nd is three years elder then her sister, if she changes her mind she can take them out. it sounds to me resembling he is just being difficult.i dont see anything wrong with what you did, its not similar to you hid it from him, you were out with her she saw it and needed it done so there you go.
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