My 9 year outmoded daughter and I can't give the impression of being to procure along. What should I do?
its very simple...
stop thinking like an adult and behave next to her as if u were a kid aged 9..
sound stupid bt its the best possible way to draw from into a child's heart...
if she shouts .. shout louder than her ...as would be b done by a kid her age.
if she throws sumthing pick up that thing and throw it harder.this way she would get comfotrtable wid u..
Get a handle on it, before she turns 14!
But seriously, have a heart to heart beside her, find out if she has issues that maybe you can help near. Make sure she knows you love her more than life itself, and just be merciful.
Answers: I teach fourth grade, so I work with nine year olds almost every year of the year! She is approaching the age where kids are going to start to turn more toward their friends than their parents (which you are probably aware of). I would try to be assertive, not aggressive...also, maybe start some kind of "mother daughter" log so you can communicate your concerns and aggrivations in a safe, confidential space. (Sometimes it's just too intricate for kids to talk about things that anger them, and writing allows them to be more free_. I also highly recommend reading "Queen Bees and Wannabes" by Rosalind Wiseman. Since she is pre-adolescent, you can expect this gentle of behavior b/t you and your daughter to escalate. This book is an excellent tool to help cope with that, as well as prepare the parent for adjectives of the other aspects of life your daughter will endure. (It's the book that inspired "Mean Girls".) Also, make sure you treat her near respect. You can still be in charge and authoritative and treat her with respect. Communicate to her that you care going on for her and want to help her make the best decisions. If she starts throwing a tantrum (or if you do as well), steal a break and come back and talk later. Also, be sure to be an stirring listener. Before you have discussions, maybe set some ground rules, like no interrupting. Good luck! I hope it get better. Source(s): Experience, and the book I mentioned :c)
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