My brother constantly tell everyone to shut up? He is extremely disrespectful and my mom doesnt guardianship?
He is 10 years old and within the past year he's get really nasty and will say "shut up", :"I don't care", "I hate you" and threaten to hurt anyone for any rationale. If someone says "dont say shut up", he will keep truism it. So I get annoyed by this and sometimes I sit down and tell him that its a disrespectful thing to do. He doesnt listen. The merely time that he listens is when I restrain him, like hold his hands so he cant hit me, but I never hurt him contained by any way, more like Im stopping his tantrum by restraining him and letting him cool down and talking to him within a calm voice.
But if I do this when my mom is around, she will tell me to not hurt him, same with my grandma, even though I am not hurting him at adjectives. They become enraged and yell at me if I do this, and when he says Shut Up, if I transmit him to stop, they yell at me and tell me to leave the room. It have got to the point where if I am sitting too close to him while hes being rude, they will holler at me and tell me to leave.
Long story short, he is their favorite child, and they put up with him individual disrespectful to everyone and even hitting people. When he hits me, if I even block his punches by holding his arms, they tell me to Stop hurting him. Im not at all! Here he is hitting me and but they yell at me like Im the bad one. They are so non-judgmental with him with everything. He literally plays video games from 8 AM to 8 PM, they feed him zilch but fast food, NEVER any vegetables, and they dont make him brush his teeth. I really dont want him raised this process because I was (but I was never angry or violent) and if Id had some chores Id be so much better within life. I feel like my mom messed up next to me and gave me no responsibilities or chores, and shes doing it again. He eats so terribly and get no exercise, I really want her to lay down some rules, but she doesnt and babies him. Buys him everything he wants, even though she cant pay bills. So how can my brother stop being so spoiled and given everything that he requests, and on top of that be rude and violent toward people? My hand are tied so is there anything I can do?
organise all your and his friends to go round and endow with him the most thorough, prolonged tickling ever
I think you should call child services, because that merely sounds ridiculous. He's going to get in a lot of trouble at college if he keeps that up.
Answers: He does it because you guys pay attention to him then ,
You even win into the restraining / wrestling thing which he loves .
if you REALLY want him to Stop , start ignoring him like he is NOT at hand .
Look in his direction but like he's invisible at something behind him .
Start conversation about anything But Not him .
The more you act like he is NOT contained by the room , Not there and you hear other stuff on TV or radio or someone else talking .
The faster He will Change his attitude , but as long as YOU feat like a sucker , he will Keep on playing you .
When he STOPS getting attention , he'll Stop doing the stuff that is rude but gets him adjectives the attention he wants now .
Try it , it works .
OK , you had such a long long lonnnnnggggggggg post ,
( which subsequent to NO one reads that much bla bla )
I missed the violence part but for that I would freshly yell
to your mom ,
" The baby needs his diaper changed " .
Start equating intimidation with wearing a baby diaper and maybe he'll go and get over it but given your parents , maybe not .
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But if I do this when my mom is around, she will tell me to not hurt him, same with my grandma, even though I am not hurting him at adjectives. They become enraged and yell at me if I do this, and when he says Shut Up, if I transmit him to stop, they yell at me and tell me to leave the room. It have got to the point where if I am sitting too close to him while hes being rude, they will holler at me and tell me to leave.
Long story short, he is their favorite child, and they put up with him individual disrespectful to everyone and even hitting people. When he hits me, if I even block his punches by holding his arms, they tell me to Stop hurting him. Im not at all! Here he is hitting me and but they yell at me like Im the bad one. They are so non-judgmental with him with everything. He literally plays video games from 8 AM to 8 PM, they feed him zilch but fast food, NEVER any vegetables, and they dont make him brush his teeth. I really dont want him raised this process because I was (but I was never angry or violent) and if Id had some chores Id be so much better within life. I feel like my mom messed up next to me and gave me no responsibilities or chores, and shes doing it again. He eats so terribly and get no exercise, I really want her to lay down some rules, but she doesnt and babies him. Buys him everything he wants, even though she cant pay bills. So how can my brother stop being so spoiled and given everything that he requests, and on top of that be rude and violent toward people? My hand are tied so is there anything I can do?
organise all your and his friends to go round and endow with him the most thorough, prolonged tickling ever
I think you should call child services, because that merely sounds ridiculous. He's going to get in a lot of trouble at college if he keeps that up.
Answers: He does it because you guys pay attention to him then ,
You even win into the restraining / wrestling thing which he loves .
if you REALLY want him to Stop , start ignoring him like he is NOT at hand .
Look in his direction but like he's invisible at something behind him .
Start conversation about anything But Not him .
The more you act like he is NOT contained by the room , Not there and you hear other stuff on TV or radio or someone else talking .
The faster He will Change his attitude , but as long as YOU feat like a sucker , he will Keep on playing you .
When he STOPS getting attention , he'll Stop doing the stuff that is rude but gets him adjectives the attention he wants now .
Try it , it works .
OK , you had such a long long lonnnnnggggggggg post ,
( which subsequent to NO one reads that much bla bla )
I missed the violence part but for that I would freshly yell
to your mom ,
" The baby needs his diaper changed " .
Start equating intimidation with wearing a baby diaper and maybe he'll go and get over it but given your parents , maybe not .
>
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