My child have a bit of?

My son is very advanced for his age and he has been reading since he be 4. He often asks adult questions and is concerned give or take a few all sorts of health stuff, he has asthma and I am amazingly protective of him and I myself am a germphobe, only trying to keep him well. I imagine I ruined him!!

I am really concerned cause he has had a constant tummy hurt since july 2nd and he says he is worried about feeling funny? took him to the dr twice and he said its purely a slight case of anxiety and it will pass??

We went to sandiego via a 7 hour road trip and he sports car a lil carsick on the way home. He didnt throw up but felt ickky! Every since then he panic and the mere thought of throwing up. He even says he "thinks he is worrying too much"

I am so sad and I dont want him to live within constant fear / anxiety any suggestions for a child so youg experiencing this?
Tell him that he is doing fine.
Stop being a germ-o-phobe.
Body has its own protecting system and its normal to feel sick sometimes. You have be to the Dr and he checked your little one so things are okay.
You don't have to worry about him so much. Let him play outside near kids or engage in other healthy endeavours.
Find a accurate child/family therapist and make appointments for both of you. You both need to revise some ways to cope with your anxieties and relax and a counselor will be able to give you some option and figure out what works for each of you. Having a few family sessions can also backing you both communicate better and talk to each other about your worries in need working the other person into a frenzy.
Answers:    Try to relax. You know he is physically fine.
Try reminding him that you are there for him. Ask him what he thinks will surface IF he throws up. Remind him it wouldn't be the end of the world.
Teach him about his Powerful immune system and how it does its job. There are plenty of children's books on the subject. Let him know that throwing up or running a restlessness is his body at work and kicking germs in the behind. Here is a good book for example but find one at his stratum!

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1410918…

It is called :Defend yourself: the immune system for elementary school kids.

If he is anxious about heaps things and they are stopping him from doing normal things for his age then see someone specifically about the anxiety.
I have said this quite a few times on here, but there is a book call "what to do when I worry too much" it is an interactive workbook that has been a tremendous relieve for my daughter and her anxiety issues. I got it off Amazon for about $17, it have a girl and a tomato plant on the front. She is also super smart and thinks and worries about everything. It teaches them techniques/coping skills that kids can really relate to. We read 1 or 2 chapter every night at bed time. The only thing is in attendance is one sentence, maybe two, that says worries pray on weak individuals, so I simply blacked out that sentence with a Sharpie before we read it together.

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