My untried stepbrother hate me and he bullies me?
I;m 9 and my mum died so now I have to live with my dad. I dont know him that okay because he has a wife and some kids and he lived really far away and my mum prefered it just to be the two of us and said I didnt need a dad cos I have her.(i had to move to his two weeks ago)
My dad is nice he says that he always considered necessary to see me and that it was mums choice and so is his wife and so are my half brothers and sisters they are 8 and 6 and 3 but my stepbrother who is 10 hates me.
He say Im just a charity case and noone wants me here and that everyione is only being nice to me because they feel sorry for me.
Everyone is allowed to play in his room and near his stuff except me coz im not family and sometimes he really scares me and sometimes he hits me when noone is looking.
Now he hates me even more because im species of clever for my age so i had to skip a year and i am going to be in his class.
I dont want to tell my dad i want to matter with it myself. what should I do?
Tell him he's just a nasty little 10 year feeble who is self conscious because his dad loves you, too. Also, tell him he's a big, fat, meanie jerkface!
You really should tell your father because your brother is basically a child and will continue acting like one. You are your fathers own flesh and blood regardless of how the brother feels. If your father cannot help, and you are not comfortable you should try to talk to him nearly another family member you could be with unless your father steps up and diciplines your brother for anyone so mean and rude.
Sorry but I don't think a 9 y/o wrote this or the other ones you posted.
Tell your Dad now, its different when its at university.
But because it's at home your Dad will always be around.
Answers: You have posted this same question various times.
I am assuming you are not getting the answer you are looking for. I'm sorry this is happening to you. I think most people are going to agree and you do stipulation to speak with your father. You are also going to need a counselor to help you treaty with your mum's death.
(hugs)
Your dad needs to know what's going on. Both you and your stepbrother could do next to counseling. Your brother is probably jealous of you and resents any time taken away from him by your dad in order ot reimburse attention to you. Dad needs to reassure him that his place in the family is safe and sound.
I had sort of the same problem with my stepdaughter when her mom and I get married, that she resented the time taken away from her by her mother so that her mother and I could be together, but I managed to convince her of the advantage of having two full-time parents fascinated to her, taking her places, doing things with her. Maybe eventually your brother will see the advantages of having a brother close to his age.
But until then, your dad and step mom are responsible for seeing to it that your brother understand that you ARE family and BELONG there.
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My dad is nice he says that he always considered necessary to see me and that it was mums choice and so is his wife and so are my half brothers and sisters they are 8 and 6 and 3 but my stepbrother who is 10 hates me.
He say Im just a charity case and noone wants me here and that everyione is only being nice to me because they feel sorry for me.
Everyone is allowed to play in his room and near his stuff except me coz im not family and sometimes he really scares me and sometimes he hits me when noone is looking.
Now he hates me even more because im species of clever for my age so i had to skip a year and i am going to be in his class.
I dont want to tell my dad i want to matter with it myself. what should I do?
Tell him he's just a nasty little 10 year feeble who is self conscious because his dad loves you, too. Also, tell him he's a big, fat, meanie jerkface!
You really should tell your father because your brother is basically a child and will continue acting like one. You are your fathers own flesh and blood regardless of how the brother feels. If your father cannot help, and you are not comfortable you should try to talk to him nearly another family member you could be with unless your father steps up and diciplines your brother for anyone so mean and rude.
Sorry but I don't think a 9 y/o wrote this or the other ones you posted.
Tell your Dad now, its different when its at university.
But because it's at home your Dad will always be around.
Answers: You have posted this same question various times.
I am assuming you are not getting the answer you are looking for. I'm sorry this is happening to you. I think most people are going to agree and you do stipulation to speak with your father. You are also going to need a counselor to help you treaty with your mum's death.
(hugs)
Your dad needs to know what's going on. Both you and your stepbrother could do next to counseling. Your brother is probably jealous of you and resents any time taken away from him by your dad in order ot reimburse attention to you. Dad needs to reassure him that his place in the family is safe and sound.
I had sort of the same problem with my stepdaughter when her mom and I get married, that she resented the time taken away from her by her mother so that her mother and I could be together, but I managed to convince her of the advantage of having two full-time parents fascinated to her, taking her places, doing things with her. Maybe eventually your brother will see the advantages of having a brother close to his age.
But until then, your dad and step mom are responsible for seeing to it that your brother understand that you ARE family and BELONG there.
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