Does anyone know how to matter near a soon-to-be kindergartener who still sucks on a pacifier?

My little sister is 5 years old and she is going to enroll into elementary school on August 24th.I'm a little worried nearly her and how she is going to be able to interact with other kindergarteners let alone kids her age. She is still have problems speaking in full sentences (talks like how a 3-year-old would talk) and she refuses to munch through, so we always have to spoon feed her. She go to the restroom by herself, but she always wants someone to come with her. I am somewhat worried that maybe my parents do not know how to help her grow up a little, not helping her to grow smaller number dependent, and maybe they might be spoiling her a bit too much.

How should I react as her oldest sister? Sugestions and insights would help deeply.

Thank you. :-)
Really this all lays on your parents. They need to stop treating her like a child. Talk with your parents on how you feel she will be ridiculed at Kinder and that you are concerned for her. She is 5 not 1 and is quite fit of doing things by herself
my step brother used to... when he be like 7 or 8.
i dont know if he ever did at school though, i didnt really know him then.

instil her just to use it at home?
Answers:    Wow, did she go to pre-school? Definitely does not sound ready for Kindergarten, and yes, she may enjoy some kind of developmental delay, speech delay, or other problem. The teacher should be able to pick up on this fairly early. What your own flesh and blood can do in the meantime is stop spoon feeding her. She will throw fits, but she will not let herself starve. She'll eventually guzzle. Tell her she gets to trade in her pacifier for a big girl backpack and lunch box. Bathroom: Tell her firmly you will wait outside the door and unhurriedly phase this out too (unless of course it's a public place, then go contained by with her). Do all this now so she can adjust to these change before school begins- another major amend! You are a good sister. Also, kids learn a lot from respectively other and the best thing for your sister will be to be around other kids who are more mature than her. She will learn from them. Source(s): Teacher
take it away make a contribution her a lolly pop instead find a replacement
Tell her, "Listen, your going to bring back the **** beaten out of you if you don't stop sucking on that thing. It looks like a dick. You can definitely feed yourself you useless little asshole so start. Do you really want your TEACHER to see your privates? I mean grow up. Get a life."

Hope this help :)
She might have a disorder or some sort of unknown disability. I don't mean to call her stupid, but she may own needed a diagnosis way before 5 year's old. My brother wasn't doing as much things a 3 should enjoy learned, and he was diagnosed with high-function autism. He didn't start trying to pace till he was 2 and he couldn'tspeak well so he was qualified certain sign lalanguagef he wanted something. (Though his first word was Yay or Cookie which is pretty impressive) Im sorry but your parents should own noticed something was wrong. My brother had a sturdy time giving up on the pacifier along when I was little, train her to ONLY have it during night-time. If she whine about it threaten 3 minutes in the time-out chair. If you obligation to take it to the next level try making a sticker chart of some sort.
No idea what to do about the child but I would close to to have a few words with the parents of this child.

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