Angry 7 and partly year antediluvian and refuse to grant surrounded by?
My son is 7 and a half super smart and a very social good kid MOST of the time. As of tardy he has been extremely angry for no reason, over react to little things and then yelling like a silly man. There is just no reasoning with him when he is like this. IT's be over the past 2 weeks and I see no reason why he is like this. How do I promise with him.
Also, all of his life, he have never been able to take responsibility for the things he have done. If he tripped over his own 2 feet he would create a story that my younger daughter (who was not home) came out and tripped him. When I would say-so that isn't true he would sooner go to time out than admit the truth. He will catch a report show on tv about a paralyzed person and how they overcame it and suddenly he is parlyzed for 30 minutes and won't admit he is fine. I shame him & eventually forgets he is doing it. It's the same for all "white lies". Will never admit the truth. My husband and I thought he would develop out of it but as he gets older he gets more persevering about him "not lying" because at this point we tell him he is lying or refer to him as peter from peter in the wolf. Which incites him more. HELP!
Answers: He is a spoiled brat plain and simple plus he is solely seven and a half! Kids that age are prone to whinning, screaming and pitching a fit from time to time. Just remember everything you say and do will stick in his mind so if he is seeing this odd/bad behavior from someone else digit out who, where and why and put a stop to it.
Explain to your son, that a lie involves two people.
When you feign to someone, you believe they are stupid enough to believe that lie.
Illustrate that being call stupid hurts your feelings. Chances are he is lying to avoid hurt feelings as well and he will (hopefully) read between the lines both sides.
The other way is to illustrate. If you are good people, he have probably lived a fairly charmed life of not being lied to. Ask him how he would touch if you told him it was time to go to Disney Land, and later found out your we're lying. Don't illustrate by in truth doing it... only illustrate through explanation.
Ask him also if he has friends who lie to him repeatedly. These kinds of habits can often show up if they manufacture new friends etc. Explain that just because some people lounge, doesn't make it ok. Like all rules in go, there will be those who think they are not important.
Always do your best to be version. We are just little computers, and often one bad piece of information can head to some funny places. It's your job to find that piece of information and help him through understanding he may enjoy things wrong.
*hugs*
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Also, all of his life, he have never been able to take responsibility for the things he have done. If he tripped over his own 2 feet he would create a story that my younger daughter (who was not home) came out and tripped him. When I would say-so that isn't true he would sooner go to time out than admit the truth. He will catch a report show on tv about a paralyzed person and how they overcame it and suddenly he is parlyzed for 30 minutes and won't admit he is fine. I shame him & eventually forgets he is doing it. It's the same for all "white lies". Will never admit the truth. My husband and I thought he would develop out of it but as he gets older he gets more persevering about him "not lying" because at this point we tell him he is lying or refer to him as peter from peter in the wolf. Which incites him more. HELP!
Answers: He is a spoiled brat plain and simple plus he is solely seven and a half! Kids that age are prone to whinning, screaming and pitching a fit from time to time. Just remember everything you say and do will stick in his mind so if he is seeing this odd/bad behavior from someone else digit out who, where and why and put a stop to it.
Explain to your son, that a lie involves two people.
When you feign to someone, you believe they are stupid enough to believe that lie.
Illustrate that being call stupid hurts your feelings. Chances are he is lying to avoid hurt feelings as well and he will (hopefully) read between the lines both sides.
The other way is to illustrate. If you are good people, he have probably lived a fairly charmed life of not being lied to. Ask him how he would touch if you told him it was time to go to Disney Land, and later found out your we're lying. Don't illustrate by in truth doing it... only illustrate through explanation.
Ask him also if he has friends who lie to him repeatedly. These kinds of habits can often show up if they manufacture new friends etc. Explain that just because some people lounge, doesn't make it ok. Like all rules in go, there will be those who think they are not important.
Always do your best to be version. We are just little computers, and often one bad piece of information can head to some funny places. It's your job to find that piece of information and help him through understanding he may enjoy things wrong.
*hugs*
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