What do u expect from a kid whos mum be kill by, *shudder* rape?
my step mum and aba (other dad) are adopting two kids. one of them is from Haiti. she's very pretty, with brown eyes and hair. her mother was killed when her master raped her. (she be a slave) and i want to know or get an idea of how Chelsea-Michelle, (that's her name) will act around three pubescent boys, a few preteen girls and a lot of little kids? just, if any of you have be in this situation, advice please.
First of adjectives, what is the point of putting personal information in your question? We don't need to know her autograph. Even if someone has been in a similar situation, in that is no way to know for sure how this girl will react. You can help her by anyone patient with her and not pushing her to talk or share anything personal. Maybe sometime she will open up once she trusts you, but don't push her. It sounds like she has already have a tough life.
well it depends some girls who go through the trauma of rape or watching it happen to someone will grain very uncomfortable around boys in broad.on the other hand some will just feel discomfited around men that are the age of the rapist.so i would just ease her into it.ask her&&say hey do you want to budge play with those boys&&if she doesnt want to then you have to contentment her into it&&show her that all men arent bad.but dont rush her because thats the worst thing to do. hope i be of some help
to be shy
The age is momentous to know when talking about children, but in common, a child who has suffered trauma and loss will have trust issues, and a lot of grief. It is key that the people in her life be trustworthy, heat, patient, and reliable. Try to understand her feelings, but never push her to depart up. If she acts out in negative ways, do not cancel your affection or become angry, but do maintain firm limits. Try to be loving, stable, and to model healthy boundaries.
I really enjoy no idea :P
But if she see's a old man she probs be hard core panicky, or teen dude,
I dunno but she'll defo be scar'd for life.
Well thats if shes like 7 yrs old :P
Blake your life buddy it complicated mean no offense step mom & dad (other dad) but anyway almost this little girl.
1. did she saw what was happening in her mom?
2. where on earth she was staying before?
3. did she had someone to chat to?
4. she was abused before?
5. did she ever had friends to play near as a child?
whatever answer maybe just be a accurate friend love her more she will love you back & forget about the past.
I imagine that she would be very shy and low at first, but once she has been with your line for a while she will get better and get to know you guys.
I think she would become more friendly next to the ones that are friendly to her when she first came to live with you.
Don't think she'll hold much to do with the teenagers but she might get to like you and the preteen girls.
btw that be a very good thing your parents did :-)
That is a wonderful thing your parents are doing...
She will be a little quiet at first but once she get to know you she will loosen up to you!
Answers: It's hard to influence how she will act. Coming from where she does there is no unfolding what she has been a witness to or if she herself has be a victim of abuse. Just Google Haiti and abuse together and you will be miserable by the stories. She may be very resilient and can move on now that she will be out of that situation or she may only just need to talk to someone or she may need extensive psychiatric help. She could experience anxiety, lack of concentration, insecurity, depression, performing badly in conservatory and a number of other things. If I were in your situation I would probably find a local psychiatric therapist or psychologist, let them know what has happened within this girls life and what you might expect once she is here. I'm sure they will be able to tell you exactly what you should look for surrounded by her behavior that would tell you she is in trouble and needs give support to.
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First of adjectives, what is the point of putting personal information in your question? We don't need to know her autograph. Even if someone has been in a similar situation, in that is no way to know for sure how this girl will react. You can help her by anyone patient with her and not pushing her to talk or share anything personal. Maybe sometime she will open up once she trusts you, but don't push her. It sounds like she has already have a tough life.
well it depends some girls who go through the trauma of rape or watching it happen to someone will grain very uncomfortable around boys in broad.on the other hand some will just feel discomfited around men that are the age of the rapist.so i would just ease her into it.ask her&&say hey do you want to budge play with those boys&&if she doesnt want to then you have to contentment her into it&&show her that all men arent bad.but dont rush her because thats the worst thing to do. hope i be of some help
to be shy
The age is momentous to know when talking about children, but in common, a child who has suffered trauma and loss will have trust issues, and a lot of grief. It is key that the people in her life be trustworthy, heat, patient, and reliable. Try to understand her feelings, but never push her to depart up. If she acts out in negative ways, do not cancel your affection or become angry, but do maintain firm limits. Try to be loving, stable, and to model healthy boundaries.
I really enjoy no idea :P
But if she see's a old man she probs be hard core panicky, or teen dude,
I dunno but she'll defo be scar'd for life.
Well thats if shes like 7 yrs old :P
Blake your life buddy it complicated mean no offense step mom & dad (other dad) but anyway almost this little girl.
1. did she saw what was happening in her mom?
2. where on earth she was staying before?
3. did she had someone to chat to?
4. she was abused before?
5. did she ever had friends to play near as a child?
whatever answer maybe just be a accurate friend love her more she will love you back & forget about the past.
I imagine that she would be very shy and low at first, but once she has been with your line for a while she will get better and get to know you guys.
I think she would become more friendly next to the ones that are friendly to her when she first came to live with you.
Don't think she'll hold much to do with the teenagers but she might get to like you and the preteen girls.
btw that be a very good thing your parents did :-)
That is a wonderful thing your parents are doing...
She will be a little quiet at first but once she get to know you she will loosen up to you!
Answers: It's hard to influence how she will act. Coming from where she does there is no unfolding what she has been a witness to or if she herself has be a victim of abuse. Just Google Haiti and abuse together and you will be miserable by the stories. She may be very resilient and can move on now that she will be out of that situation or she may only just need to talk to someone or she may need extensive psychiatric help. She could experience anxiety, lack of concentration, insecurity, depression, performing badly in conservatory and a number of other things. If I were in your situation I would probably find a local psychiatric therapist or psychologist, let them know what has happened within this girls life and what you might expect once she is here. I'm sure they will be able to tell you exactly what you should look for surrounded by her behavior that would tell you she is in trouble and needs give support to.
http://www.connectforkids.org/node/180
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