Hubby get overprotective when I own to breast nurture the toddler?
This is our first baby, sometimes when we're having sex the baby will cry and I own to go attend to her or feed her. We're still trying to get her on a rota. My hubby even though he wont say it I can tell her feels sort of disappeared out. Since I can't always give him everything he needs since I'm tired. He say he understands but we didn't have that huge of a sex life back we got married since i remained a virgin till our wedding night and a few months latter we got pregnant.
He's also a breast man and sometimes mine are really sore and I don't want them touched and I can tell this sometimes is frustrating for him.
Tell him to receive over it. You're the one that has to suffer so he should just try and help you, You shouldn't hold to look after him
once the calendar gets down and things get into a better routine things will get better
basically make sure that he knows that its not him and that you know he is being great and supportive etc.
Answers: So, you got 2 babies? ;-)))
Just consent to him help more with the baby, and he will touch how you feel:
TIRED<TIRED< TIRED! - maybe this will change his attitude toward you. This is his tot as well, so don't feel guilty about giving him some responsibility.
Good luck!
Please DO NOT try to put your baby on a schedule. Let me ask you this. How would you feel if:
*You be hungry and food was withheld from you because you had already eaten an hour ago and have to wait another hour to eat?
*You were within the middle of eating and your food was taken from you and you were forced to hang around another 2 hours to eat?
If you needed to double your weight in the subsequent 3 months, how would you go about doing that?
A. Eat constantly and stay inactive?
or
B. Stop ingestion before you're ready and eat low portions on a calendar every couple of hours?
Yes, the answers are obvious. Since you are breast feeding (which I commend you GREATLY for doing! YAY! Good mommy!) your baby will call for to feed more often then what seem "normal". The milk is thin and it digests quickly. You must feed that little one whenever she is hungry. Whether its every 30 minutes or two hours, whatever. She may need more breast milk from you because she is sick or going through a growth spurt. Do not withhold her precious nutrients simply to stick to a schedule. That's the worst article you can do for a growing baby. It's been proven that schedule feed is not effective for developing infants. Many doctor's still preach this outdated philosophy of schedule feeding. It's not successful, not good for the baby. It's only convenient for the mother. And that's not worth sacrifice your babies health.
As for you husband, I just don't get why men quality this way. That is his child too. You're breast are designed to breast feed. They were not created for sexual gratification. He should be proud that you are doing such a inborn, loving and healthy thing for your daughter. I don't understand this contemporaries of men now a days being jealous of the attention their wives, girlfriends, whoever are giving to their children. Your little one needs your attention 24/7. If hubby has an issue with that after he needs to either get over, achieve therapy, or get packin'. Sorry for the lack of sympathy, but I a short time ago don't feel sorry for a man who is wallowing in self pity because "Oh no, my wife has to use my sex toy to nurture our starving child again. I'm so alone. So sad. She doesn't love me anymore." Boo f*cking hoo! That baby comes back him ALL DAY EVERY DAY. He needs to suck it up if he wants to be a good father. Did he forget that he also CHOSE to own this baby too? It comes with the territory. MOVE ON.
Don't grain sorry for him and his sexual needs. Feel for your helpless baby girl who needs you to survive. He can masturbate if he wants the release. Or you make time for him at night or when the baby is napping to preserve your sex life alive. But if the baby interrupts your love making, you tend to that beautiful little existence form you BOTH created and he can wait patiently. and GET OVER IT. Source(s): My 2c.
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He's also a breast man and sometimes mine are really sore and I don't want them touched and I can tell this sometimes is frustrating for him.
Tell him to receive over it. You're the one that has to suffer so he should just try and help you, You shouldn't hold to look after him
once the calendar gets down and things get into a better routine things will get better
basically make sure that he knows that its not him and that you know he is being great and supportive etc.
Answers: So, you got 2 babies? ;-)))
Just consent to him help more with the baby, and he will touch how you feel:
TIRED<TIRED< TIRED! - maybe this will change his attitude toward you. This is his tot as well, so don't feel guilty about giving him some responsibility.
Good luck!
Please DO NOT try to put your baby on a schedule. Let me ask you this. How would you feel if:
*You be hungry and food was withheld from you because you had already eaten an hour ago and have to wait another hour to eat?
*You were within the middle of eating and your food was taken from you and you were forced to hang around another 2 hours to eat?
If you needed to double your weight in the subsequent 3 months, how would you go about doing that?
A. Eat constantly and stay inactive?
or
B. Stop ingestion before you're ready and eat low portions on a calendar every couple of hours?
Yes, the answers are obvious. Since you are breast feeding (which I commend you GREATLY for doing! YAY! Good mommy!) your baby will call for to feed more often then what seem "normal". The milk is thin and it digests quickly. You must feed that little one whenever she is hungry. Whether its every 30 minutes or two hours, whatever. She may need more breast milk from you because she is sick or going through a growth spurt. Do not withhold her precious nutrients simply to stick to a schedule. That's the worst article you can do for a growing baby. It's been proven that schedule feed is not effective for developing infants. Many doctor's still preach this outdated philosophy of schedule feeding. It's not successful, not good for the baby. It's only convenient for the mother. And that's not worth sacrifice your babies health.
As for you husband, I just don't get why men quality this way. That is his child too. You're breast are designed to breast feed. They were not created for sexual gratification. He should be proud that you are doing such a inborn, loving and healthy thing for your daughter. I don't understand this contemporaries of men now a days being jealous of the attention their wives, girlfriends, whoever are giving to their children. Your little one needs your attention 24/7. If hubby has an issue with that after he needs to either get over, achieve therapy, or get packin'. Sorry for the lack of sympathy, but I a short time ago don't feel sorry for a man who is wallowing in self pity because "Oh no, my wife has to use my sex toy to nurture our starving child again. I'm so alone. So sad. She doesn't love me anymore." Boo f*cking hoo! That baby comes back him ALL DAY EVERY DAY. He needs to suck it up if he wants to be a good father. Did he forget that he also CHOSE to own this baby too? It comes with the territory. MOVE ON.
Don't grain sorry for him and his sexual needs. Feel for your helpless baby girl who needs you to survive. He can masturbate if he wants the release. Or you make time for him at night or when the baby is napping to preserve your sex life alive. But if the baby interrupts your love making, you tend to that beautiful little existence form you BOTH created and he can wait patiently. and GET OVER IT. Source(s): My 2c.
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