I enjoy a custody agreement and he's demanding to own our child the 4th?
Our agreement states that we trade off every other year. However, he knows I'm flat broke and is using it against me because I can't sue to get her for this holiday.
He have her last year. I can't call police right? Should I just consent to it go? We just keep conflict and arguing over the holiday thru texts and I'm sick of it. He bought 100 dollars worth of fireworks and is saying things like "you don't hold fireworks do you? Well then I should take her because she won't have fun near you."
I'm pretty heartbroken because she is 4 and I live alone with her and have primary custody.
Thoughts?
freshly don't let him have her. if it is your turn, keep her no concern what he wants. if he spent all that money, too bad, agree to him do the fireworks. and hey, who says you have to listen to his rants, do not read his text and delete the e-mails and let the phone ring. enjoy your 4th your way. not his.
i say go to the town fireworks show, pack a picnic dinner and explain to him to shove it. He had no right, regardless of the fact that you can't afford 100 dollars of fireworks. if he was that worried something like his daughter, he would be giving you money, instead of trying to cause a war between the two of you. Say no, and leave it at that.
If it's not his year as stated within the agreement then YES you CAN call the police. Tell them he had her concluding year and this is your year. They won't make you give her to him unless the agreement says it's his year. It's not his time. Don't permit him bully you. If he sends you anymore text about it tell him it's not his year and if he shows up you will beckon the police. Don't answer the door when he gets there. Just peek out and if it's him telephone call the police or better yet don't even be there. It doesn't matter if he bought a truckload of fireworks and she will hold more fun. The time isn't his. You don't have to sue him for the holiday. Once the police get there they will look at the agreement and report to him it's not his day and tell him to leave. If he make a scene they may arrest him. Source(s): Landon's Mommy.
Expecting Ellie any day.
Dealing with my fiance's ex for over 2 years now almost visitation. We just called the police on HER last weekend basis it was his time and she was playing games.
you could try to spend it as a home... have him come to where you live or you go within and spend it together... whatever you do don't let your daughter see you fighting.
Answers: Actually, you can christen the police but only when he shows up and tries to take her. You legally own the right to have her on the 4th if that is what your agreement says. You don't own to sue him. You just need to have your divorce agreement within hand.
The downside is that you will have to make a scene contained by front of your daughter when he shows up and he has probably already made her promises too.
First off it is impressively dangerous for him to want to set off fireworks when he should be watching his daughter.
Secondly you dont have to tolerate her see him for the fourth. There are plenty of free family festivals and fireworks displays.
Thirdly as a former child of parents who constantly fought over who got to see me when; it sucks. I never wane to go anywhere with either for shock of betraying or upsetting the other parent. Your daughter if only 4 but she can sense the tension.
Also if you have custody and he lift her without your permission thats considered noncustodial parent child abduction. Its kidnapping. Call the police.
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He have her last year. I can't call police right? Should I just consent to it go? We just keep conflict and arguing over the holiday thru texts and I'm sick of it. He bought 100 dollars worth of fireworks and is saying things like "you don't hold fireworks do you? Well then I should take her because she won't have fun near you."
I'm pretty heartbroken because she is 4 and I live alone with her and have primary custody.
Thoughts?
freshly don't let him have her. if it is your turn, keep her no concern what he wants. if he spent all that money, too bad, agree to him do the fireworks. and hey, who says you have to listen to his rants, do not read his text and delete the e-mails and let the phone ring. enjoy your 4th your way. not his.
i say go to the town fireworks show, pack a picnic dinner and explain to him to shove it. He had no right, regardless of the fact that you can't afford 100 dollars of fireworks. if he was that worried something like his daughter, he would be giving you money, instead of trying to cause a war between the two of you. Say no, and leave it at that.
If it's not his year as stated within the agreement then YES you CAN call the police. Tell them he had her concluding year and this is your year. They won't make you give her to him unless the agreement says it's his year. It's not his time. Don't permit him bully you. If he sends you anymore text about it tell him it's not his year and if he shows up you will beckon the police. Don't answer the door when he gets there. Just peek out and if it's him telephone call the police or better yet don't even be there. It doesn't matter if he bought a truckload of fireworks and she will hold more fun. The time isn't his. You don't have to sue him for the holiday. Once the police get there they will look at the agreement and report to him it's not his day and tell him to leave. If he make a scene they may arrest him. Source(s): Landon's Mommy.
Expecting Ellie any day.
Dealing with my fiance's ex for over 2 years now almost visitation. We just called the police on HER last weekend basis it was his time and she was playing games.
you could try to spend it as a home... have him come to where you live or you go within and spend it together... whatever you do don't let your daughter see you fighting.
Answers: Actually, you can christen the police but only when he shows up and tries to take her. You legally own the right to have her on the 4th if that is what your agreement says. You don't own to sue him. You just need to have your divorce agreement within hand.
The downside is that you will have to make a scene contained by front of your daughter when he shows up and he has probably already made her promises too.
First off it is impressively dangerous for him to want to set off fireworks when he should be watching his daughter.
Secondly you dont have to tolerate her see him for the fourth. There are plenty of free family festivals and fireworks displays.
Thirdly as a former child of parents who constantly fought over who got to see me when; it sucks. I never wane to go anywhere with either for shock of betraying or upsetting the other parent. Your daughter if only 4 but she can sense the tension.
Also if you have custody and he lift her without your permission thats considered noncustodial parent child abduction. Its kidnapping. Call the police.
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