Is 14 too childish to lose my virginity?
You are young. Even when you think you are ready you are really not. You will be disappointed after it anyway. And even may brake up beside your boyfriend. Kissing and foreplay is something different but actual intercourse is may be too much for you. Wait until cca 16, please.
I would give an account you to wait longer at least
Im 15 and i have a son . so i be got pregnant when i was 14 and i also thought that if i used protection i couldn't get pregnant but yeah
loaf longer until marriage is good but i know that probably won't happen because you regard you are in love and you have only gone out 4 months i required a year
Yes! It's illegal at 14 anyway. How old is your bf? You say aloud you are "deeply and truely in love with respectively other", but to be frank you are too young to know what love is. I'm not judging you on that though.
You say he is organized, but if YOU can't say "Yes I'm definitely ready". Then you aren't. Don't feel compelled to do it basically because he is ready. Wait a while, tell him you want to wait. If you are both as contained by love as you say then he will respect your choice, and trust me you will feel better for it when the time does come for you.
You're still immature, you have all the time in the world for that munificent of thing once you're a bit older.
Luck :)
I know you think you are soooo grown up, but believe me you are still a child. You just can give it away and spoil the surprise following. I am going to tell you the first words out of most people when they finally do it. "Was that it?" You are not missing anything, have fun and don't spoil your time like that.
look , first of all it depends on where on earth you live and what kinda' people you're surrounded by . I really believe if it's love it's absolutely okay to make love .
lose your virginity resembling you'll never forget and you'll never regret it.
I lost mine last month at the age of 24 . OMG
You don't own to wait until marriage. The most important piece is that you feel you are ready emotionally and with a partner who can also switch all the risks that could come along.
Just a word from the wise- the first time won't be good. It's going to hurt!
Yes- 14 is way too young! Sex leads to pregnancy. No form of contraception is 100% successful at preventing pregnancy, so you can get pregnant EVEN if you use a condom! I VERY STRONGLY recommend that you not have sex until you have a opening and are supporting yourself and not living with your parents in case you do win pregnant. Sex carried a lot of consequences that a 14 year old is not ready for.
Plain and simple YES!
Wait Wait Wait... and wait some more! If you are not ready afterwards say NO! If he loves you as much as you think he does, then he will not pressure you. Trust me! Source(s): personal experience
Absolutely that is to young and if you be my daughter, I would never let you leave the house again if I knew you be thinking about crap like that. You are a child, and sex is something adults do not children. Nothing good will come of have sex at your age. Think hard and long before you act!
YES YES YES YES YES YES YES
14?! I be YOUNG for my grade, and I was 14 while in 9th class, so you must be in middle school!
He is 14! He is USING YOU TO GET IT. Even though he may "seem nice" boys at that age, and adjectives throughout school, will just use you and ditch you. Once you give it to him he will give you and brag to all of his friends and humilate you because if you don't do it to his high standards he will bad mouth you to everyone!
Look at it this bearing. ARE YOU OLD ENOUGH TO BE A MOTHER?! Do you have a job? Even if you use protection, there is still a arbitrariness. Can you quit school and still have enough money and support to lift up a child at FOURTEEN? If not, I suggest you not do it. I was just under 16 1/2 when I did it and I decision I waited because I thought I was too young! If you do it presently, there is at least a 90% chance that in the past the end of high school, your boyfriend will enjoy cheated on you. Because once he gets what's the most important, he'll be tired and get it somewhere else. 4 months is NOT plenty time.
You're not in love with each other. Trust me. You feel you are, but you're not. Take it from someone who was in your place at your age a few years ago (though I wasn't a sl*t trying to have sex at age 14!!) You enjoy sex at 14 and you are considered a sl*t for life. People WILL find out and they WILL talk about it. This kid is clearly just using you for his own personal gains.
DON'T DO IT!!
P.S.- Jacky is right!! And if you must compare life to a tv show, enjoy you watched The Secret Life of The American Teenager? Ricky convinced Amy that he liked her a lot and that it be the right thing to do. But all he wanted be sex! But it was Amy's first time and she got pregnant! And he life fell apart. That show in truth shows it better than what would really happen, but yeah. You're still a child yourself, you're not ready to have one. You're still dependent on your parents, don't even own a job!! And when you tell him that you need to hang around, and he leaves you because all he wanted was sex, you will thank us for showing you the discordant truth! Then you will walk away the mature, strong one.
BTW- I know of a lot of girls from final when I was in high college, that got pregnant and had to quit school. One even get pregnant just to keep her abusing boyfriend that be in the Navy, around. NONE of the people who had those babies are still beside the father. And NONE of the people in high institution are still with the person they first had sex beside. So if it were REAL love, then keep it together and don't do it. Because if you do it immediately, you won't be with him for much longer after that. Not at that age. Guys are just idiots. Even the "nice" one will turn around and cheat with your best friend. It happen. More than you would think.
I believe it is too babyish. I'm currently 18 and I lost my virginity when I was 16, which I look back on and regret that I didn't wait until I be older. I, too, was not in some puppy love relationship and in just 2 months I thought I wanted to marry the guy. Things change as culture grow up, especially at your age. A year and a half later, I learned so much more more or less him and the damage he's caused me: mental abuse, controlling, etc. I know this position you are surrounded by and I think it's just better to wait. If I be you, I would probably be like "psh this girl doesn't know what she's talking about and I'm not going to listen" but I speak this adjectives from experience. At your age, as tough as it may be, I'd wait until the relationship hits at least a year. First few months of any relationship are practically "perfect" and ideal, but a year from in a minute, you may just be beating yourself up and regretting it all.
And yes, if you DO cease up having sex with him, definitely trademark sure a condom is used and used CORRECTLY. And at least for me, the first time I had sex hurt immensely. It continued to hurt at least the first 5 times, so contained by my opinion it's not something to greatly look forward to anyways. I kept my loss of virginity a secret because I didn't want people to dream up of me differently as well or to think that I'm rather promiscuously. Two years latter and only some of my few close friends know.
you're still a child yourself. No you are not ready, I thought I know what love was at your age too, but you have no idea. Not are you even emotionally develop enough to be able to say that you are emotionally all set. If you are worried about what other people will think consequently you are not emotionally ready anyway. If you do this now, you will regret not saving it for a more "real" love. What you touch now isn't true love, each and every time i ever fell in love i looked rear at the last relationship and laughed at what I considered being within love was the last time.
Im not saying any of this to be suggest to you, this is real life. And that is one experience that you can not "redo". Don't make a contribution it away just yet girly, there's so many reason to wait.
are you on birth control? Are you ready to accept the consecuences if any safekeeping percautions you take fail? Are you ready to be a mom? Source(s): Life Experience
omg
yeah
approaching wait til marriage
i know it sounds crazy but its the right thing to do
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