What does it propose if I grain similar to my unborn child is the lone motivation I'm getting attention?

I'm 17 years old and am married to a wonderful man, we are having a child together. I am 32 weeks along. I feel that I'm invisible until race realize that I'm pregnant. My families started talking to me more and more and before I be pregnant none of them ever really talked to me, like I was worthless previously I got pregnant. IDK!! Also sometimes I feel as if I don't want her. I think that most of to be precise that I'm scared I won't be a good mother to her.. but can anyone give me some suggestion or tell if this is all normal, or if I should a short time ago talk to my ob/gyn about it?
logically its normal. why do you think girls your age have children? it's a necessitate for love and attention. When your pregnant, people give you more attention, and a baby will love you even when not a soul else does or you dont deserve it.
sounds like low self esteem. You have to believe that you are a worthwhile and important creature in your own right. When you believe that, you will start to act in a channel that people will notice and be drawn to. You don't need a little one to get attention. And, by the way, first YOU need to love YOURSELF! Source(s): professional nanny for 37 years
mom to 3 daughters and grandma to 3
All that extra attention and kindness from strangers was one reason I really enjoy being pregnant. Enjoy it while you can. Pretty soon they will be seeing only the baby. A newborn can by your greatest joy and your greatest heart break, it all depends on the circumstances.
It's normal to be like a cat on a hot tin roof about caring for your first baby. I literally well-read how to bathe mine from a step-by-step book I had on child care (No computer or internet 35 years ago!)
If you're anxious, do some research! Offer to baby sit for other people's babies for a few hours. Get some knowledge and skill and then you won't hold anything to worry about.
Congratulations! Welcome to your most wonderful time of life!
if you aren't ready for motherhood...give it up for adoption. seriously it might be the best preference
Answers:    Look at it as a good entry. Maybe before they had trouble getting to know you and have conversation starters but in a minute you are going through a really good experience and people are curious to know how you are and what the baby is going to be approaching. Everyone loves babies so they are probably really looking forward to seeing it. Don't take it personally, without realize it we all do it to other people where we can't really bring into a good conversation with them until we find some common ground. You will be ok, the first child is other the hardest and you make it out to be a lot worse then it is going to be. You and your husband will work together through this. Congratulations by the agency.

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