Should i lose my virginity?
okay, I'm 19 and thinking about losing my virginity. but i don't want to end up with a kid, should i do it? Ive be wanting to lose it for awhile but everyone said i should wait and i have a guy pushing me to do it, what should i do?
It aint nought special to lose your virginity. I may only be a teen, but trust me, you should only do what you want to do. But if you want to lose your virginity, make sure he wear a condom. If you decide not to lose your virginity and wait for when the right guy comes along, then if you ask me, thats a hugely mature thing to do. I know I was undersized.
I enjoy been asking myself the same question. The situation is a bit different, but i'm also 19 and I have that chance with a guy I really love. I considered necessary to wait until i'm married, but I decided that's probably not gunna happen. The mode I figure it, no guy should pressure you. That would be an immediate turn off. BUT, if you own been wanting to, and with him, what's the hurt? I mean, I own heard that it hurts and is uncomfortable at first so why not get those first few times over beside. When you actually have the feelings for it, it won't hurt because it will be over beside.
Good Luck with either choice and stay safe. :)
If you have to ask, the answer's no.
IF your on birth control and he wears a condom u won't end up with a kid. Your gonna enjoy to lose it eventually, and he's probably not gonna stick around waiting forever, especially if ure 19 and still a virgin! Everyone says that "sex" has to be special and you have to be contained by love, etc. Sex feels good no matter who its near, so why keep waiting for a good thing.
Well I think 19 is opening old enough to lose it ya know. I lost mine right after I turned 16. So as far as maturity go I think you more then ready. But you necessitate to take extra precautions because it seem like in attendance is alot of baby dust flying around. I know many people who are my age and enjoy a kid or are prego. In fact I thought I was recently. But anyways a short time ago start taking birth control and use protection. Be careful! Lol Source(s): :-D By the way I'm almost 17 now
Pushing you as in how? If you own no religious set back then moraly its all ok I guess, i other wanted to wait till I was married, I lost mine at 16 almost 17 and didnt enjoy a child til I was 19. If your safe then you wont downfall up with a child. But if hes being pushy then contained by the end you might not feel right about the situation. I be with 1 guy till I was almost 21. We broke up and another guy was pushy and I have sex with him. Afterward I didnt feel right. So ask this guy if hes willing to hang around for you. If he is then go for it. If hes still being pushy consequently Id wait to give it to someone worth it. You are more then predictable worth more then to just give it away to a pushy boy. Youll know when the time feel right. I did. I am back with the guy I have be with since I was 15 (my first) and he was highly worth it.
Answers: okay please take this from me, i be in your EXACT situation.. i was 19, now im 20. my virginity be a big deal to me. it made me feel good that i be pure to myself. i had a guy who i liked yea, but not loved. he didnt mean that much to me. he kept asking me to do it. pretty much every time we be together. i finally gave in because he asked so much it got to my commander that its time to do it. after we had sex, he broke it off with me and moved on. i be devastated. i felt so used and i still wish to this day i would enjoy just walked away from it all.
If he is pushing you - the answer is always no. You want it to be with someone really really special, close to your husband.
Sex is supposed to be for marriage, I wish I would have wait so badly! You will never have to have that exchange blows "was she better then me".
You have wait this long, don't just give it up.
My mother always say, if there is any doubt, then don't do it.
when you dont have to ask yourself this grill then your ready
also, it's true that if you are on top, you can't get hold of pregnant.
hey, if you're christian consequently don't do it. sex is something saved for married couples. if your not then i still don't think it would be a dutiful idea because of the consequence's that could happen. your a young full-grown, live life but don't do anything dumb. lastly, if you cant find a guy that respects you enough that he doesn't push you when your uncomfortable later i thing you should leave him. but this is all my view...i personally am christian and i think it would be wrong for you to have sex in the past marriage but just in crust your not. i gave you other reasons i believe it is wrong.
If you want it,,,
then go for it!
but if its in recent times confusing you,,,
just never mind it and say no...
Take your time and think it over carefully. You might want to take birth control pills and be sure to use a condom if you do opt to have sex. Don't let the guy pressure you. If he likes/loves you, he will wait for you. I know its massively pressuring and tempting since it seems like most empire are having sex and losing their virginity early. But this is all up to you and don't agree to anyone pressure you into doing something you don't want to do. Hope this helped!
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It aint nought special to lose your virginity. I may only be a teen, but trust me, you should only do what you want to do. But if you want to lose your virginity, make sure he wear a condom. If you decide not to lose your virginity and wait for when the right guy comes along, then if you ask me, thats a hugely mature thing to do. I know I was undersized.
I enjoy been asking myself the same question. The situation is a bit different, but i'm also 19 and I have that chance with a guy I really love. I considered necessary to wait until i'm married, but I decided that's probably not gunna happen. The mode I figure it, no guy should pressure you. That would be an immediate turn off. BUT, if you own been wanting to, and with him, what's the hurt? I mean, I own heard that it hurts and is uncomfortable at first so why not get those first few times over beside. When you actually have the feelings for it, it won't hurt because it will be over beside.
Good Luck with either choice and stay safe. :)
If you have to ask, the answer's no.
IF your on birth control and he wears a condom u won't end up with a kid. Your gonna enjoy to lose it eventually, and he's probably not gonna stick around waiting forever, especially if ure 19 and still a virgin! Everyone says that "sex" has to be special and you have to be contained by love, etc. Sex feels good no matter who its near, so why keep waiting for a good thing.
Well I think 19 is opening old enough to lose it ya know. I lost mine right after I turned 16. So as far as maturity go I think you more then ready. But you necessitate to take extra precautions because it seem like in attendance is alot of baby dust flying around. I know many people who are my age and enjoy a kid or are prego. In fact I thought I was recently. But anyways a short time ago start taking birth control and use protection. Be careful! Lol Source(s): :-D By the way I'm almost 17 now
Pushing you as in how? If you own no religious set back then moraly its all ok I guess, i other wanted to wait till I was married, I lost mine at 16 almost 17 and didnt enjoy a child til I was 19. If your safe then you wont downfall up with a child. But if hes being pushy then contained by the end you might not feel right about the situation. I be with 1 guy till I was almost 21. We broke up and another guy was pushy and I have sex with him. Afterward I didnt feel right. So ask this guy if hes willing to hang around for you. If he is then go for it. If hes still being pushy consequently Id wait to give it to someone worth it. You are more then predictable worth more then to just give it away to a pushy boy. Youll know when the time feel right. I did. I am back with the guy I have be with since I was 15 (my first) and he was highly worth it.
Answers: okay please take this from me, i be in your EXACT situation.. i was 19, now im 20. my virginity be a big deal to me. it made me feel good that i be pure to myself. i had a guy who i liked yea, but not loved. he didnt mean that much to me. he kept asking me to do it. pretty much every time we be together. i finally gave in because he asked so much it got to my commander that its time to do it. after we had sex, he broke it off with me and moved on. i be devastated. i felt so used and i still wish to this day i would enjoy just walked away from it all.
If he is pushing you - the answer is always no. You want it to be with someone really really special, close to your husband.
Sex is supposed to be for marriage, I wish I would have wait so badly! You will never have to have that exchange blows "was she better then me".
You have wait this long, don't just give it up.
My mother always say, if there is any doubt, then don't do it.
when you dont have to ask yourself this grill then your ready
also, it's true that if you are on top, you can't get hold of pregnant.
hey, if you're christian consequently don't do it. sex is something saved for married couples. if your not then i still don't think it would be a dutiful idea because of the consequence's that could happen. your a young full-grown, live life but don't do anything dumb. lastly, if you cant find a guy that respects you enough that he doesn't push you when your uncomfortable later i thing you should leave him. but this is all my view...i personally am christian and i think it would be wrong for you to have sex in the past marriage but just in crust your not. i gave you other reasons i believe it is wrong.
If you want it,,,
then go for it!
but if its in recent times confusing you,,,
just never mind it and say no...
Take your time and think it over carefully. You might want to take birth control pills and be sure to use a condom if you do opt to have sex. Don't let the guy pressure you. If he likes/loves you, he will wait for you. I know its massively pressuring and tempting since it seems like most empire are having sex and losing their virginity early. But this is all up to you and don't agree to anyone pressure you into doing something you don't want to do. Hope this helped!
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