BaBy Shower Drama! ...?
I need help on deciding whether or not to turn to this baby shower. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings or anything...
Its my husbands cousin's baby shower, she didn't come to my shower within March, and didn't even RSVP and say she couldn't make it, but I want to go to hers because I want to generosity the new baby into the family and everything.
Only problem is she's not giving out invitations, (its word of mouth) and that make me feel unwelcomed, and also its at 6pm at night which is a little eccentric. Plus she's a drug addict and I just don't know if I should go or not its not that big of a agreement but I still want to know...
Go and be supportive. Let bygones be bygones. It's about the kid. Plus it makes you look good! ;)
If she's a drug addict she has no right have a baby! I would go and give her two coupons! One for a rehab to progress get help and clean up her perform so she can be a mom and one for you to take care of the baby while she is contained by rehab so the state does not end up taking the baby away from her. Drug addicts don't surmise about what they are doing to the unborn and then they don't like dealing near a handicap baby that they made! It is sad.
Personally I say screw her. If she cannot come to yours or even let you know whether she can construct it then she was really not concerned about genial your baby.
People always say it is nearly the baby and not the mother, but that is so silly. It is not like my child can see who actually attended or cares about the gifts given. The shower is for the mother not the babe. If you like give the baby a grant once born.
Yes, I am bitter because a lot of relatives didn't come to my shower or even acknowledge the invitation after I have been to every one of their events next to gifts in hand.
This is about the kid, not you or the cousin. I would go to be supportive.
Answers: You said it's word of mouth. Word of mouth from who? Her or the party goers? If it's word of mouth from her and she didn't tell you, don't go. But if she told your husband to budge, then you have to go. After adjectives, like the first answerer said, a baby shower isn't about her it's almost the baby comming into the world. A day to celebrate it's pre-comming and to present it gifts for when the baby comes :)
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Its my husbands cousin's baby shower, she didn't come to my shower within March, and didn't even RSVP and say she couldn't make it, but I want to go to hers because I want to generosity the new baby into the family and everything.
Only problem is she's not giving out invitations, (its word of mouth) and that make me feel unwelcomed, and also its at 6pm at night which is a little eccentric. Plus she's a drug addict and I just don't know if I should go or not its not that big of a agreement but I still want to know...
Go and be supportive. Let bygones be bygones. It's about the kid. Plus it makes you look good! ;)
If she's a drug addict she has no right have a baby! I would go and give her two coupons! One for a rehab to progress get help and clean up her perform so she can be a mom and one for you to take care of the baby while she is contained by rehab so the state does not end up taking the baby away from her. Drug addicts don't surmise about what they are doing to the unborn and then they don't like dealing near a handicap baby that they made! It is sad.
Personally I say screw her. If she cannot come to yours or even let you know whether she can construct it then she was really not concerned about genial your baby.
People always say it is nearly the baby and not the mother, but that is so silly. It is not like my child can see who actually attended or cares about the gifts given. The shower is for the mother not the babe. If you like give the baby a grant once born.
Yes, I am bitter because a lot of relatives didn't come to my shower or even acknowledge the invitation after I have been to every one of their events next to gifts in hand.
This is about the kid, not you or the cousin. I would go to be supportive.
Answers: You said it's word of mouth. Word of mouth from who? Her or the party goers? If it's word of mouth from her and she didn't tell you, don't go. But if she told your husband to budge, then you have to go. After adjectives, like the first answerer said, a baby shower isn't about her it's almost the baby comming into the world. A day to celebrate it's pre-comming and to present it gifts for when the baby comes :)
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