I'm considering giving one of my babies up for adoption?
i can't possibly take care of two babies at once. but since i'm having twins i really don't want to separate them. and how could i prefer which one two give up for adoption? honestly, i'm fourteen and not ready for a baby permit alone two. i don't wanna give neither of them up for adoption but i want whats best for them. please tell me what you think i should do, and please don't be rude. i don't enjoy time for it and only GOD can judge me. thanks<3
Sweetie - You really should have waited till your much elder to have children, but they are now here and we can't change that. You human being so young, only a child yourself. I recommend you ask your family appendage to adopt the two twins. My be Aunt or Uncle. Or with the proper support from you family you can raise them both. In my assessment its not far to the twin for you to seperate them . Not an option! I wish you the best for you children and hopefully your parents can support you with your outcome .
You believe in God but then you are pregnant? Anyways I'm 14 too.. and I can't even imagine of taking assistance of like a baby sister.. I think that you should make available up both babies, to a family that can take care of BOTH of them. They will be capable of take care of them better, and honestly the babies will be happier growing up with a more stable loved ones. Don't worry your twins will be happy their because since they are young heaps couples want them, so you can choose the most qualified. And although you will give birth to your twins, that kind means nil in comparison to raising them. It takes 9 months to fetch a baby and 2 days to birth one, but it takes 18 years to raise one!
hold you ever heard of missing twin syndrome?? if you were to give one up, and later both of them grow up without being told they have a living twin. they can in truth have a lot of personal issues, and never know the reason. it is because the wife of them is missing. they are incomplete.
I have twin daughters, they just turned 15. I got pregnant at age 18. They are so much a part of a set of eachother. Even as infants. if one was hurt the other would cry. If one was sick, the other would snuggle close, and get sick herself, but oh resourcefully. Now as teenagers, sisters, and twins, they have a love/hate thing going on. But even though there are days they argue. They have no other relationship in this world that compares. No one comes close to taking the place of her twin.
I was young-looking too. and ill prepared. but we survived, we managed. and there is no road i would have done it different. they need eachother.
you be amassed how u cope next to twins i think your panicking and need to collaborate to other twin mums i bet you cope just fine if u got help and warning sending one away will not be good for your twins you should give them both up if you really don't think u can cope remember soon you have to look at your baby in the eye and vote your a twin and i gave your twin up for adoption
http://www.twinsonline.org.uk/html/twin_…
i wouldnt give either one of them up..if you can embezzle care of 1,you can take care of the other.how do you even settle on which one to give away anyway? the other twin might be devastated later knowing it has a twin but its not around..and i meditate you would regret it later.
Aww,
Do you have msn/yahoo? facebook? anything? - I call for to talk about something with you.
Hokay, so first of adjectives -
Im a twin myself lolol .
Did you talk to your parents about it? Do they want you to give one of them up?
Think in the order of the consequences, one will grow up and be shocked and saddened its mom let him/her go.
Okay, I would let the 2nd born stir =( =(
This is making me sad lol.
Unless you could ask the adoption people-
if you coould put BOTH of them for adoption,
and
make sure they both get adopt by the same family.
GOODLUCK MY DEAR.
please tell me if you hold msn/facebook/ anything? cause i need to talk to you.
no you can't separate them.
your babies should have a right to grow up together.
They will suffer if you separate them and don't you think you're a litle bit
uncharitable?? They're you babies!! You can't give a family to one and leave the other into the appendage of stranger? How can you live thinking after have deprived your daughter of you love?
Answers: Are your parents not supporting you? or the babies father?
In my honest opinion it is far worse to pick one child out and impart it away than if you were to give them both away together.
Imagine how the one child you did give away would be aware of, if later in life he/she found out that although it be adopted, it also had a twin that the maternal mother contracted to keep, It will be really tough with 2 babies, but if you have the right support you can do it.
So in need trying to be rude, i think you should either keep both, or make available both away, either way the babies should stay together, good luck. Source(s): Twin girls too, i'm green, my friend just had 2 baby girls, and ok she is 27, but she is a single mum and did the total thing alone, and you know what them babies slept through the night from the word go, in that are so many stories of young girls who have babies, and i watch a documentary the other week, and it was on this exact subjet, and a girl on there was like age as you, she had twin boys, and she is doing a fab job, they are a few years old immediately, and she is tired but loving it, it would break your heart to give them away if you love them already, so take all the abet you can get from your mum and dad, the babies dad and his parents, you will be a brilliant mother, and in years to come will be so glad you had a travel and didn't give them up, i'm 27 and i have 1 little boy who is 5, and i'm not perfect at it, age doesn't situation when it comes to being a first time mum, if you love them.the rest will happen naturally, i really do craving you all the luck in the world xx
my little boys name is Mackenzie..hey do you hold msn or a way i can chat to you live? that way i can answer any questions and comfort as much as i can xxx if you are on facebook add me wendy geal, or msn wlgeal@hotmail.co.uk, got loads more i can talk to you nearly xx
Try it, i think you can allow live chat on here too, im just having a look to see if i can amount it out, i'm not the best with computers ;-)
Try clicking on your profile on here and next to your picture it says allows i'ms or not allows i'ms, at the minute yours is motto doesn't allow, see if you can click on it to change it xx
Hmmm that still isn't working for some reason, i tried to IM you but nothing, i'm guessing you don't enjoy msn or facebook or anything like that??
What email address are you using on there?? I will try and contact you instead xx
Yeah msn doesn't take that long to download, a moment ago google msn messenger and start the download on it, then type in my email addy xx
Not sure if that email addy is right chick..i tried adding you and sending an email but it's coming rear legs to me as a postmaster email, if you try emailing me at
wlgeal@hotmail.co.uk then i should be able to get your exact address from that xx
I come up with i'm getting somewhere now, i managed to add you and dispatch a request to you , are you signed into msn?
Good...you decided to keep them both. Trust me next to the right motivation, dedication, and support you can give them both the life that they deserve. It's up to you what kind of natural life they have.
I think that you know what you want to do. If you keep them next all you can do all anyone can do is be the best you can for them. And leaving consequently while you are at school. You could always home school. They enjoy online things that you can do then you don't have to be away from your girls. Hope I helped and hang up in there sweetie! Source(s): former Homeschooler
i have a 9 month mature daughter , if you want to talk write me at bluerose77.deaton@yahoo.com
Dont speak you cant have three babies in the house, your 14 and your having twins. I wouldnt seperate them and you would solely regret it every day you looked into the one you kept and years later the one you kept or the adopted one would wonder how you made your outcome to pick one over the other. Your sister is 25...so she's living in the same house it sounds? Well 25 is too old to be living at home still and if she's have a baby she should have her own place and be living with the daddy etc..dont regard you have to give one up because she is having one as very well. Also, what about the father? Im sure he doesnt want you giving one up. He will have to help support your children your have. If you cant keep two, then have him bump up the other and switch off on certin days. He has a responsibility here, not just you.
Please dont. Its hard to foresee at this stage the mental impact its going to have on you once you do it and/or contained by the future. Many people regret doing things like this and it tears them up - even to the point of suicide. You love your babies - both of them. If you believe within what you wrote by saying you want the best for them - well the best thing is growing up beside their real mother - YOU. It doesn't matter how old you are you will adjust to person a mummy, and the love you get to feel from your children - nothing can ever sort you feel that way. unconditional honest love, they will bring tears to your eyes when you see them smiling at you for the first time. Its not going to be easy, but anything dutiful in life doesn't come easy. You own the support of both families, and if you need a break i'm sure you'll have lots of volunteers. As for your sister, she will failure up acceptting it, I know my sister would rather have 3 babies in the house consequently 1 or 2 and know how sad it would be for me. You'll always feel somethings missing contained by your life and spend the rest of it trying to make it up - but you wont be able to. Keep both babies and consent to your family help when they can
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Sweetie - You really should have waited till your much elder to have children, but they are now here and we can't change that. You human being so young, only a child yourself. I recommend you ask your family appendage to adopt the two twins. My be Aunt or Uncle. Or with the proper support from you family you can raise them both. In my assessment its not far to the twin for you to seperate them . Not an option! I wish you the best for you children and hopefully your parents can support you with your outcome .
You believe in God but then you are pregnant? Anyways I'm 14 too.. and I can't even imagine of taking assistance of like a baby sister.. I think that you should make available up both babies, to a family that can take care of BOTH of them. They will be capable of take care of them better, and honestly the babies will be happier growing up with a more stable loved ones. Don't worry your twins will be happy their because since they are young heaps couples want them, so you can choose the most qualified. And although you will give birth to your twins, that kind means nil in comparison to raising them. It takes 9 months to fetch a baby and 2 days to birth one, but it takes 18 years to raise one!
hold you ever heard of missing twin syndrome?? if you were to give one up, and later both of them grow up without being told they have a living twin. they can in truth have a lot of personal issues, and never know the reason. it is because the wife of them is missing. they are incomplete.
I have twin daughters, they just turned 15. I got pregnant at age 18. They are so much a part of a set of eachother. Even as infants. if one was hurt the other would cry. If one was sick, the other would snuggle close, and get sick herself, but oh resourcefully. Now as teenagers, sisters, and twins, they have a love/hate thing going on. But even though there are days they argue. They have no other relationship in this world that compares. No one comes close to taking the place of her twin.
I was young-looking too. and ill prepared. but we survived, we managed. and there is no road i would have done it different. they need eachother.
you be amassed how u cope next to twins i think your panicking and need to collaborate to other twin mums i bet you cope just fine if u got help and warning sending one away will not be good for your twins you should give them both up if you really don't think u can cope remember soon you have to look at your baby in the eye and vote your a twin and i gave your twin up for adoption
http://www.twinsonline.org.uk/html/twin_…
i wouldnt give either one of them up..if you can embezzle care of 1,you can take care of the other.how do you even settle on which one to give away anyway? the other twin might be devastated later knowing it has a twin but its not around..and i meditate you would regret it later.
Aww,
Do you have msn/yahoo? facebook? anything? - I call for to talk about something with you.
Hokay, so first of adjectives -
Im a twin myself lolol .
Did you talk to your parents about it? Do they want you to give one of them up?
Think in the order of the consequences, one will grow up and be shocked and saddened its mom let him/her go.
Okay, I would let the 2nd born stir =( =(
This is making me sad lol.
Unless you could ask the adoption people-
if you coould put BOTH of them for adoption,
and
make sure they both get adopt by the same family.
GOODLUCK MY DEAR.
please tell me if you hold msn/facebook/ anything? cause i need to talk to you.
no you can't separate them.
your babies should have a right to grow up together.
They will suffer if you separate them and don't you think you're a litle bit
uncharitable?? They're you babies!! You can't give a family to one and leave the other into the appendage of stranger? How can you live thinking after have deprived your daughter of you love?
Answers: Are your parents not supporting you? or the babies father?
In my honest opinion it is far worse to pick one child out and impart it away than if you were to give them both away together.
Imagine how the one child you did give away would be aware of, if later in life he/she found out that although it be adopted, it also had a twin that the maternal mother contracted to keep, It will be really tough with 2 babies, but if you have the right support you can do it.
So in need trying to be rude, i think you should either keep both, or make available both away, either way the babies should stay together, good luck. Source(s): Twin girls too, i'm green, my friend just had 2 baby girls, and ok she is 27, but she is a single mum and did the total thing alone, and you know what them babies slept through the night from the word go, in that are so many stories of young girls who have babies, and i watch a documentary the other week, and it was on this exact subjet, and a girl on there was like age as you, she had twin boys, and she is doing a fab job, they are a few years old immediately, and she is tired but loving it, it would break your heart to give them away if you love them already, so take all the abet you can get from your mum and dad, the babies dad and his parents, you will be a brilliant mother, and in years to come will be so glad you had a travel and didn't give them up, i'm 27 and i have 1 little boy who is 5, and i'm not perfect at it, age doesn't situation when it comes to being a first time mum, if you love them.the rest will happen naturally, i really do craving you all the luck in the world xx
my little boys name is Mackenzie..hey do you hold msn or a way i can chat to you live? that way i can answer any questions and comfort as much as i can xxx if you are on facebook add me wendy geal, or msn wlgeal@hotmail.co.uk, got loads more i can talk to you nearly xx
Try it, i think you can allow live chat on here too, im just having a look to see if i can amount it out, i'm not the best with computers ;-)
Try clicking on your profile on here and next to your picture it says allows i'ms or not allows i'ms, at the minute yours is motto doesn't allow, see if you can click on it to change it xx
Hmmm that still isn't working for some reason, i tried to IM you but nothing, i'm guessing you don't enjoy msn or facebook or anything like that??
What email address are you using on there?? I will try and contact you instead xx
Yeah msn doesn't take that long to download, a moment ago google msn messenger and start the download on it, then type in my email addy xx
Not sure if that email addy is right chick..i tried adding you and sending an email but it's coming rear legs to me as a postmaster email, if you try emailing me at
wlgeal@hotmail.co.uk then i should be able to get your exact address from that xx
I come up with i'm getting somewhere now, i managed to add you and dispatch a request to you , are you signed into msn?
Good...you decided to keep them both. Trust me next to the right motivation, dedication, and support you can give them both the life that they deserve. It's up to you what kind of natural life they have.
I think that you know what you want to do. If you keep them next all you can do all anyone can do is be the best you can for them. And leaving consequently while you are at school. You could always home school. They enjoy online things that you can do then you don't have to be away from your girls. Hope I helped and hang up in there sweetie! Source(s): former Homeschooler
i have a 9 month mature daughter , if you want to talk write me at bluerose77.deaton@yahoo.com
Dont speak you cant have three babies in the house, your 14 and your having twins. I wouldnt seperate them and you would solely regret it every day you looked into the one you kept and years later the one you kept or the adopted one would wonder how you made your outcome to pick one over the other. Your sister is 25...so she's living in the same house it sounds? Well 25 is too old to be living at home still and if she's have a baby she should have her own place and be living with the daddy etc..dont regard you have to give one up because she is having one as very well. Also, what about the father? Im sure he doesnt want you giving one up. He will have to help support your children your have. If you cant keep two, then have him bump up the other and switch off on certin days. He has a responsibility here, not just you.
Please dont. Its hard to foresee at this stage the mental impact its going to have on you once you do it and/or contained by the future. Many people regret doing things like this and it tears them up - even to the point of suicide. You love your babies - both of them. If you believe within what you wrote by saying you want the best for them - well the best thing is growing up beside their real mother - YOU. It doesn't matter how old you are you will adjust to person a mummy, and the love you get to feel from your children - nothing can ever sort you feel that way. unconditional honest love, they will bring tears to your eyes when you see them smiling at you for the first time. Its not going to be easy, but anything dutiful in life doesn't come easy. You own the support of both families, and if you need a break i'm sure you'll have lots of volunteers. As for your sister, she will failure up acceptting it, I know my sister would rather have 3 babies in the house consequently 1 or 2 and know how sad it would be for me. You'll always feel somethings missing contained by your life and spend the rest of it trying to make it up - but you wont be able to. Keep both babies and consent to your family help when they can
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